what do you think?

[r4836]

Well, I'm a 20yr. old college student and almost five months ago I met this really nice girl in my calculus class. The first time I met her I wasn't like head over heels for her but I did think that she looked cute. The class is small, and it meets four times a week so we have always sat next to each other and we've become pretty good friends. However, over this time I've really gotten to know her pretty well and I've even started to like her.

I have asked her out three times. The first time was back in October when we to go see a movie, check out a haunted house, and then dinner. The second time was in November when we wandered the city checking out stores and then saw a movie. And the third time was this past Sunday when we got something to eat at China town (which she loves) and then went to go see a comedy show. Each occasion we have talked for hours, and had a good time which even she has told me.

However, I don't know if she thinks that the times we've gone out were just friends hanging out or a date. I know that she likes me as a friend and is comfortable being around me, but I just don't know. Therefore, I've been wanting to tell her that I like her, but I'm afraid that it will ruin the friendship and that's something that I definitely don't want to happen because I really do value her as a friend. Anyways, I've for the most part decided to do it because I don't want to think about "what if?" later in life and regret not doing it.

In fact, I was going to tell her this past Sunday when we went out but I chickened out. So I want to tell her this Friday perhaps over some coffee or something but I'm just not sure if I'm doing the right thing. What do you think? (by the way, we're both math majors so we will be seeing a lot of each other since we both have to take many of the same classes.)

Edited January 17, 2008 by r4836