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ElvenPriestess
What do you mean? I could care less if my girlfriend shaved her legs, privates, pits or whatever. I'd prefer they keep neat just like I'll try to keep myself neat but if they are comfortable growing out something it's their body and I love them for it.

 

I have NEVER heard a male say this! I've always understood it as "hair gone from the nose and down!" Everything below the eyebrow you know?

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I have NEVER heard a male say this! I've always understood it as "hair gone from the nose and down!" Everything below the eyebrow you know?

 

I used to be really anti armpit hair. I still prefer it to be shaved but I can live with it. Pubic hair I like and would prefer it there than not. When it's gone it feels less natural. Leg hair I am usually indifferent towards as well.

 

Now mind you, I like shaved legs and shaved armpits, if the hair is really fine the legs don't matter at all for me though.

 

..and with pubic hair, I could care less if it is a gigantic bush but keeping it trimmed is a bit easier on my mouth when I am down there having fun. :)

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Gigantic bushes usually aren't very large at all, though I haven't dated anyone over the age of 24 so perhaps they get bigger as time passes? Haha!

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Ok...I am 26 and I like bald men. A LOT! My X was 28 and shaved his head all the time. I don't think balding is a big deal at all as long as you aren't sporting a comb over.

 

I agree it's all about preference. Some people lik brown hair...some people like blonde. I mean...you could be in a lot worse shape.

 

don't worry 'bout it : )

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Unless your head is shaped like mine!

 

<-------------------Just look at me!

 

Long nose... big ears... if I wasn't covered with hair... well, fur in my case... I'd never get a date!

 

Just lonely nights howling at the moon. :(

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Jamian,

 

Are there any characteristics you don't like in a woman? You probably do. Similarly, there will be women who may have a selection criteria for their potential mates. Sure, there are lots of women for whom the amount of hair on a guy's scalp is not an issue, yet for others it may be. Would you date a really overweight woman? You might or might not, but there are guys who love them. It is just personal preference not universal.

 

Take care

 

Nomad1

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ElvenPriestess
Unless your head is shaped like mine!

 

<-------------------Just look at me!

 

Long nose... big ears... if I wasn't covered with hair... well, fur in my case... I'd never get a date!

 

Just lonely nights howling at the moon. :(

 

You kidding? You're adorable! Just look at those eyes:D

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this one's easy... if balding is an issue for her...she's not the type of girl you should want to date anyway

 

personally... i know plenty of bald/balding guys that are seriously hot and some that are not so hot... but whether or not i think they are hot is influenced very little by the amount of hair on their head.

 

i do agree tho that if you are losing it...shave it all and wear it proudly. there is nothing sexier than a confident man with a sense of humor. i fall in love every time a guy makes me laugh...hair or no hair

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ElvenPriestess

I'm telling you, the hair is NOT a worry. Hold your head high and proud, walk tall, and be confident. Honestly, when it comes down to it, balding is the least of a man's worries to please a woman;)

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I dated a guy a while ago who was bald on top (still had healthy back & sides).

I had no issue with it at all. I am 30 & so was he.

My brother went bald young like my dad did, so i have seen the effect is has on self esteem & that can be pretty bad if you let it get a hold of you!

 

You have a lot more to offer than a few follicles (well one would hope :))

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Thats so not true. It is an issue with most women and I say that as a guy who is loosing his hair. Some guys can still look attractive, but they look less attractive than they did before and there is no question about it. And most women under forty won't begin a relationship with somone loosing their hair

 

Then why do I find you so adorable? :love:;)

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I wanted to add to this thread....lets NOT forget WOMEN can go bald too.

From many things...Alopecia, cancer, etc.......

So women have to deal with this fear as well......though we have wigs etc. I would like to think if ...GOD FORBID I lost my hair to something like cancer or something...my man would love me just as much and be happy to help me pick out wigs to make me feel more beautiful. THAT is love... :love:

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BeautifulMystique
Unless your head is shaped like mine!

 

<-------------------Just look at me!

 

Long nose... big ears... if I wasn't covered with hair... well, fur in my case... I'd never get a date!

 

Just lonely nights howling at the moon. :(

 

I'd take you in any time!!

 

Another bald man that comes to mind - Jason Statham!! He is sooo HOT!

 

As for gigantic bush.... errrr... no thanks! Waxed clean or let it grow just a tiny bit but most of the time, nothing there!

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I'd take you in any time!!

 

Another bald man that comes to mind - Jason Statham!! He is sooo HOT!

 

As for gigantic bush.... errrr... no thanks! Waxed clean or let it grow just a tiny bit but most of the time, nothing there!

 

 

All of you people and your anti-bushness. I think I'm going to start a Pubic Hair is Beautiful fan club. And you're all not invited. :p:laugh:

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IMO if you're in decent shape and have confidence, baldness is HOT!

 

My best friend (who is a guy) used to have hair of varying length, but I never realized he was attractive until he shaved it all off. Bald, he looks like a badass. :D It's a very good look for him, cause he owns it.

 

IMO if you're balding, go bald.

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And most women under forty won't begin a relationship with somone loosing their hair

 

This is bull****.

 

I usually shave 'the rest' of my hair completely, and it happens again and again that in a club or at a party, some girl or girls come over, start touching my bald head, and start a conversation with something like "did you shave it today?"...

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burning 4 revenge
This is bull****.

 

I usually shave 'the rest' of my hair completely, and it happens again and again that in a club or at a party, some girl or girls come over, start touching my bald head, and start a conversation with something like "did you shave it today?"...

That doesnt mean they think it looks good

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That doesnt mean they think it looks good

 

Why would she start chatting me up, then? If she didn't like how I look, she would probably start a conversation with someone else, don't you think? :)

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