justice Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 Geez, why do I even bother trying to help ppl like this? That's it I quit! I call troll on this one! It takes at least four to six weeks for recovery after breast enhancement surgery. Link to post Share on other sites
Ms. Red Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 Geez, why do I even bother trying to help ppl like this? That's it I quit! I call troll on this one! It takes at least four to six weeks for recovery after breast enhancement surgery. Well, JamesM's link stated otherwise on the breast surgery. However, I was referring to the nosejob also. I happen to know that's at LEAST a 4 week recovery. Link to post Share on other sites
BetrayedMM Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 LOL! This just keeps getting better. At first I was absolutely horrified at the sheer stupidity and selfishness. This is all just so completely over the top, it's becoming hard to believe. It's so ridiculous it's gotten past disgusting, now we're getting into the neighborhood of entertaining! I think maybe you should seek 'therapy' on the Jerry Springer show. The rest of the world could use a good laugh, why limit the story to just us? Seriously, what is the point in this? You won't listen to a single word any of us have to say. If there is a shred of truth anywhere in this, you are on a tobaggon ride to hell. Enjoy the ride! Link to post Share on other sites
Author LILA BELL Posted January 22, 2008 Author Share Posted January 22, 2008 ok so i guess now we are talking about my surgery i am a healthy fit 29 yr old woman i CAN return to work after 2 and half weeks surgery plus never said i was recovered i had stated i RETURN FOR A CHECK UP , obviously to see how my new tits are and my nose is ....should i just post a new thread on plastic surgery for you guys??? about my issue i only came on here for advice,yeah i know i may seem like it is not getting through to me but i can honestly say it has helped just a bit . what you ppl dislike about me is im speaking the truth of how i really feel aim letting out my anger im not hoiding anything back most of you OW involved with MM will not post what i post even though u feel the same way i feel you ppl are just scared of a negative reply and im not scared of that .. Link to post Share on other sites
bentnotbroken Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 I have been on this site for awhile and I can honestly tell you that the OW/OP on this site have no problem speaking their minds. They are fairly frank and open, and not one time have I felt as if they are stalking someone. I by no means support affairs or people having them. But these people for the most part behave as rational, thinking people. That is not a quality or trait that you have displayed. You may be speaking your mind, but is a mind wrapped in turmoil and confusion about your true role in this man's life. You don't have one. That is where you differ from the op here. Link to post Share on other sites
BetrayedMM Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 No, if (if) you're being honest, I think everyone would agree we appreciate that. What we don't like is the fact that you seem to be utterly incapable of caring about anyone at all on any level. If you didn't make this all up to entertain yourself watching our outrage, you must be a sociopath. That makes you completely beyond help. You will never understand, because it is completely impossible. If you're for real, I pity you. You will never be happy. Never. But, in this world we need true villains so we don't get sucked into a 'shades of grey' belief system. As such, you do have a purpose. Link to post Share on other sites
justice Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 Well, JamesM's link stated otherwise on the breast surgery. However, I was referring to the nosejob also. I happen to know that's at LEAST a 4 week recovery. Whatever, it's obviously going to take some time, healthy or no. I mean geez, nevermind. LOL we've had alot of trolls here in the last couple of weeks. Hard headed ones at that. Alot of plastic surgeons will tell you that recovery time is also dependant upon the patient too. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 what you ppl dislike about me is im speaking the truth of how i really feel aim letting out my anger im not hoiding anything back most of you OW involved with MM will not post what i post even though u feel the same way i feel you ppl are just scared of a negative reply and im not scared of that .. No one cares that you speak your mind. That is what this forum is about. The thing is most of the OW here are in an affair with a MM. You are in an affair by yourself and are too stupid to realize this. There is nothing else anyone here can do to help you. You stated that we don't talk this way to the other OW. Well, most of them are in affairs with guys who want to see them and we discourage it. Some of the OW are involved with MM who really do want to be with them and are preparing to do so. You don't fall into either of these categories. You chose to chase after a man who despises the ground you walk on and then you come here and ask "why does he treat me this way". Well I'm not going to hold back and here's your answer as to why so you won't have to wonder anymore. HE HATES YOU! Got it now! Link to post Share on other sites
Leia Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 I should say future hubby since we are now engaged You're now engaged? Lol. That was fast..... Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 my hubby...I should say future hubby since we are now engaged.... :lmao::lmao::lmao: That's hilarious. I've heard some good ones. I'll have to add this to my list of outrageous moments on LS. And this thread, too of course. Link to post Share on other sites
OWoman Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 :lmao::lmao::lmao: That's hilarious. I've heard some good ones. I'll have to add this to my list of outrageous moments on LS. And this thread, too of course. It would be interesting to compare IPs for the various outre thread posters. There can't REALLY be that many out there, can there? I've never IRL come across a woman who doesn't get HE'S NOT INTERESTED when it's spelled out so bluntly. Maybe there are some, but surely once it's pointed out to them they scrabble together as much dignity as they can and creep away? Link to post Share on other sites
marlena Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 It would be interesting to compare IPs for the various outre thread posters. There can't REALLY be that many out there, can there? My thought exactly. Link to post Share on other sites
OldEurope Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 Am I the only one here who thinks that "Dana Vladeem" is actually a seven-foot Tranvestite from Great Bend, Indiana who met Mr. Asia-Ferrari at a local "entertainment venue" in Vancouver, Canada, who then whisked him/her away to his vacation home in Sri Lanka where Ru Paul once worked as pool boy? Just wondering... OE Link to post Share on other sites
marlena Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 OE, Thanks for the laugh!!! Link to post Share on other sites
OWoman Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 Am I the only one here who thinks that "Dana Vladeem" is actually a seven-foot Tranvestite from Great Bend, Indiana who met Mr. Asia-Ferrari at a local "entertainment venue" in Vancouver, Canada, who then whisked him/her away to his vacation home in Sri Lanka where Ru Paul once worked as pool boy? Just wondering... OE That would explain the plastic surgery obsession.... Link to post Share on other sites
marlena Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 That would explain the plastic surgery obsession.... Oh, definitely. Asian men are short. I wonder if she also had some height reduction done as well!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author LILA BELL Posted January 23, 2008 Author Share Posted January 23, 2008 Ok It's Confirmed Im Not The Only One On My Post That Has Issue's ....some Of You Ppl Are Crazy . Shall We Get Back To My Situation ?.. Well I Can Proudly Say That I Have Not Been Going Around Mm Sure I Have Seen Him A Few Times But It Was By Accident . I Heard From Another Co-worker That He Was Laughing About My Surgery Im Not Going To Lie It Bothered Me But What Can I Do Right I Would Only Be Lying To You Ppl If I Said I Was Over Him I Know Im Not And I Know It May Take Awhile Link to post Share on other sites
OWoman Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 Ok It's Confirmed Im Not The Only One On My Post That Has Issue's ....some Of You Ppl Are Crazy . Hmmm - we're back to Title Case and paragraph breaks, after several run-on posts with no punctuation. I seem to recall having seen this fairly recently on another thread in this forum, also suspected of being a troll thread. I'm sure the mods have more than enough to do than chasing up if random posters are spawning multiple identities and multiple threads, for whatever reason, but if there is some pattern here and some connection, I'd be concerned that it was a cry for help from someone who had pretty serious problems, no matter how OK they SAID they were. Link to post Share on other sites
JamieA Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 Ok It's Confirmed Im Not The Only One On My Post That Has Issue's ....some Of You Ppl Are Crazy . Shall We Get Back To My Situation ?.. Well I Can Proudly Say That I Have Not Been Going Around Mm Sure I Have Seen Him A Few Times But It Was By Accident . I Heard From Another Co-worker That He Was Laughing About My Surgery Im Not Going To Lie It Bothered Me But What Can I Do Right I Would Only Be Lying To You Ppl If I Said I Was Over Him I Know Im Not And I Know It May Take Awhile (I'll play) But he's thinking of you at least. Your on his mind, isn't that great? HEY, maybe you still have a chance if he's talking about you. Link to post Share on other sites
Owl Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 OK, back to your situation. You want advice? You got it. Knock off worrying about MM at this point. Start dealing with your own situation to begin with. End your marriage, or fix it. Anything else that doesn't pertain to this immediate goal needs to be dropped for now. You need to grow up, and take ownership of your life and your actions. You need to realize that you don't always get what you want...my kids learned that lesson sometime around age 6. He's chosen his wife. Recognize it. This should be a sign for you to start figuring out what you can do in your own life. Fix the things in your control...stop focusing on what you can do nothing about. Link to post Share on other sites
bentnotbroken Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 Back to you. Where would you like to go back to? Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 I Heard From Another Co-worker That He Was Laughing About My Surgery Im Not Going To Lie It Bothered Me But What Can I Do Right This is the saddest part to me. You sacrificed your body for a man who smirks and laughs at you, after discarding you. Link to post Share on other sites
bentnotbroken Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 Pitiful isn't it? Link to post Share on other sites
Author LILA BELL Posted January 24, 2008 Author Share Posted January 24, 2008 (edited) ok so here's the latest im here at work havent seen MM at all today i admit i have thought about him, but thats about it. i am trying to open up to my husband i don't think i could ever tell him of the A Edited January 24, 2008 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Link to post Share on other sites
Owl Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 Why don't we adhere to your request and stay focused on your problem. Have you read my advice? BTW...if you want responses to your thread, you're going to want to make it easier for people to read through what you send...which is the reason for Owoman's request. Your focus on the trivialities and complete lack of focus on the real advice you're receiving here causes me to ask...what do you really want here? Link to post Share on other sites
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