Author LILA BELL Posted February 26, 2008 Author Share Posted February 26, 2008 Making it work how ? by telling him the truth about everything. what if he decides to leave me, i feel as though i have done to much to my H ffor him to even want to work on our M. A part of me does want to tell him,but another part of me says don't do it he will never forgive you. Right now i just don't know what to do. I guess if he leaves me that's something i did to myself . If he really loves me he will want to work on things right? Link to post Share on other sites
BetrayedMM Posted February 26, 2008 Share Posted February 26, 2008 Now you're starting to make sense. To answer everything in your last post- YES. Link to post Share on other sites
Chrome Barracuda Posted February 26, 2008 Share Posted February 26, 2008 Making it work how ? by telling him the truth about everything. what if he decides to leave me, i feel as though i have done to much to my H ffor him to even want to work on our M. A part of me does want to tell him,but another part of me says don't do it he will never forgive you. Right now i just don't know what to do. I guess if he leaves me that's something i did to myself . If he really loves me he will want to work on things right? The truth is a must!!! Without trust how will any relationship survive. If he cant trust you how can he be in a relationship with you? If he decides to leave you because of your actions that is a choice only he can make. Alot of times the men stay but each men is an individual. They make their own seperate choices. I would say your chances is 50/50. I think any man can forgive their wife for cheating but not when she actively lies about it holding it in, do you want to live the rest of your life under a lie. Let him make the choice. Link to post Share on other sites
Author LILA BELL Posted February 26, 2008 Author Share Posted February 26, 2008 I have been thinking lately how much information do i exactly tell my H. Should i just keep it simple and only tell him what he ask ? Link to post Share on other sites
Laptop2008 Posted February 26, 2008 Share Posted February 26, 2008 I have been thinking lately how much information do i exactly tell my H. Should i just keep it simple and only tell him what he ask ? You can't have a fulfilling marriage if you keep secrets like this. You will build a wall and you can't be open and honest with each other. In addition, telling him is the RIGHT thing to do. Link to post Share on other sites
Author LILA BELL Posted February 29, 2008 Author Share Posted February 29, 2008 As i have stated before i have been seeking help. I know the things i ahve done were horrible. I will tell my H the truth,i think i owe it to him. I know in my heart he will end our marriage,but this is something i need to do not only for him but myself as well. Obviously i have been trying to come up with every excuse not to tell him. Everyday i wake up and i say to myself today will be the day i tell him,but then i say to myself well let me just have 1 more day with him. I am not pretending to be cured or trying to make myself be a saint,i am far from that. My problems go beyond MM. I am most angry at myself i am also ashamed of myself,but you know what it feels damn good to have some what of my dignity back. Link to post Share on other sites
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