Fettman Posted January 20, 2008 Share Posted January 20, 2008 Alright I'm confuse about this for any age, but the one I'm wondering about the most is 17-20 years older then I am (me being 24). We both work together, Target, so we pretty much only get to talk when our schedule's go together (which isnt as much as it was during season). For some reason I get the feeling she might, but then again I don't wanna risk trying something (asking out or whatnot) and then get completely regected and such. Guess it would help if I had experiance already, but it's to late for that now. Just looking for advice and to that liking. Link to post Share on other sites
Lucasarts Posted January 20, 2008 Share Posted January 20, 2008 hmm honestly? Its hard to say. But that goes for a lot of girls and trying to figure out if they are interested or not. The only real way to find out is by looking for signs, or gestures that indicate that interest is there. Communication also helps. It's hard to really help you out considering the amount of info given about this woman and your situation (hint: you gave us really NOTHING about her). Post more info and maybe you'll get some more help on this topic. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fettman Posted January 21, 2008 Author Share Posted January 21, 2008 Not really sure as to what kind of info, but will try. Also what could be possiable sign's or jestures to try and watch for? Cuase I usually sometimes put to much thought into things, and read into it wrong. Here is what I can think of: She's not married, has a kid that is 15, and one of her parents lives with them. We seem to talk together pretty good, able to crack some minor jokes and she goes ahead and laughs and such. Only other thing that comes to mind, one of the times we had a store meeting we were together, and then kind seperated (friend kinda ended up between in about 30 or so mins). Towards the end of it she got around and stood over near me for the remainder of the meeting. And one other thing. We went 2 to 3 weeks without seeing one another (vacation for both her and me and schedueling). There was another store meeting....think this one was before the other), I was cleaning up my area and kinda saw her coming up from behind, but friend had also been gone for awhile as well and he came to me first. Both us started talking and she stayed back kinda waiting and such. Guy left and she started up. Lol what kind of info would be needed though, cause I am at a loss (blank mind atm). And really sorry about spelling and wording, I am at a loss of correct grammar and, well you get the idea from reading my stuff. Link to post Share on other sites
Lucasarts Posted January 21, 2008 Share Posted January 21, 2008 ok. Now that you gave me a much better picture of your situation, it seems like there is some interest in you. The key situation was when she stayed back and waited for your friend to finish talking and after he left, she started up a convo. Thats a really good sign because she initiated that (girls don't talk to guys they don't like). When I say look for signs/gestures, I'm asking that you read into their body language, posture, the little things they do when talking to you or around you. You can just look this stuff up on Google, cause I really don't want to waste anymore time typing out what these signs are. She's probably more hesitant about how you feel than you do about her. She's young, but not as young as you, so she knows the tricks and trades of the opposite sex and how to approach them, etc. She seems to like you, and I don't see why you shouldn't just go and ask her to do something sometime. You guys don't see each other often at work, so it wont be too awkward. Also, don't be nervous, just do your thing, act natural, calm, and everything will be fine. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fettman Posted January 23, 2008 Author Share Posted January 23, 2008 Hey LA, think you would be able to send me an email whenever you get the chance? [email protected] got something to add but dont wanna add it here (incase for some odd reason or other she comes across it and such ) Link to post Share on other sites
burning 4 revenge Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 Older women love younger men and at worst shell be flattered. You have nothing to lose and if you get anywhere a lot to gain.Women that age make much better gfs than women your own age generally speaking And Id ask the mods to remove your e-mai. Personal info dispayed like that isnt such a good idea Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fettman Posted January 24, 2008 Author Share Posted January 24, 2008 appreciate concern about the email (shows that people actually give a damn here), but its a junk email anyways that I use sometimes. Link to post Share on other sites
Arch Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 Your only 9 years older then her son, I doubt anything would come of the relationship beyond just ****ing. Link to post Share on other sites
Lucasarts Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 Hey LA, think you would be able to send me an email whenever you get the chance? [email protected] got something to add but dont wanna add it here (incase for some odd reason or other she comes across it and such ) hey sorry for not responding sooner, I've been busy but just PM me with your problem/question, its easier, faster, and safer that way Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fettman Posted January 24, 2008 Author Share Posted January 24, 2008 hey sorry for not responding sooner, I've been busy but just PM me with your problem/question, its easier, faster, and safer that way Lol I would of, but as of now I dont have access to PM's just yet. Link to post Share on other sites
Lucasarts Posted January 25, 2008 Share Posted January 25, 2008 how long do you have to be a member to be "established"? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fettman Posted January 26, 2008 Author Share Posted January 26, 2008 how long do you have to be a member to be "established"? think it has something to do with post count and being an established member and such. I tried to do more posts by trying the help some and such, but its kinda hard having no experience myself Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fettman Posted February 1, 2008 Author Share Posted February 1, 2008 Here is something Im wondering. Happened a few days ago (Tuesday). It was the morning as the store was opening, me her and another were walking together to get our walkies. I looked at her and asked her why does she need a walkie, its not like your gonna be doing any walking or talking (lame lame joke I know). But she ended up laughing and saying that it was a cute nice little joke. But customer grabbed me so I ended up vering off with them to help. So is that good or a pitty laugh type thing Link to post Share on other sites
Lucasarts Posted February 1, 2008 Share Posted February 1, 2008 a girl doesn't laugh at stupid jokes unless the girl likes you enough I'd say that you should try asking her out; just get it over with. If she says no, well just keep making small talk and such; a situation is only awkward if you make it awkward (well thats what I say anyway). Link to post Share on other sites
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