Should I keep going on

[buddy]

I met this girl while working for a third party company and i like her , and as an excuse to go out with her i offer to take some photos for my portfolio.she agree and we went out did the photoshoot and we have a blast , then we went out for lunch and a week later I surprised her with a nice frame picture of her.She was reluctact to accept it but finally she say ok.

 

After that i sent her her favorites chocolates in an anonymous way.But some how i felt i was going to fast ,and i tried to forget about her because of fears that she may have taken it in a wrong way (since i was working for another company as a manager ,and i was affraid of any

 

harrasment charges).

 

A month and a half later i heard that she was going through rough times and lost her job.So i decided to call her to find out if she needed anything(but of course i didnt want her to know that i knew she lost her job),I ask her about the chocolates and she scream of emotion "I knew it was you" .she told me that it was very nice of me and thank me and when we hang up she told me goodbye in a sweet and more warm tone than before.

 

Should I keep going on?I dont want to blow it off she is a very special person to me.

[Roxanne]

i think that you should keep going. if you really like this girl i would keep going. you sound like you are head over heels for this girl. so if that is true i would go for it.

 

roxanne

I met this girl while working for a third party company and i like her , and as an excuse to go out with her i offer to take some photos for my portfolio.she agree and we went out did the photoshoot and we have a blast , then we went out for lunch and a week later I surprised her with a nice frame picture of her.She was reluctact to accept it but finally she say ok. After that i sent her her favorites chocolates in an anonymous way.But some how i felt i was going to fast ,and i tried to forget about her because of fears that she may have taken it in a wrong way (since i was working for another company as a manager ,and i was affraid of any harrasment charges). A month and a half later i heard that she was going through rough times and lost her job.So i decided to call her to find out if she needed anything(but of course i didnt want her to know that i knew she lost her job),I ask her about the chocolates and she scream of emotion "I knew it was you" .she told me that it was very nice of me and thank me and when we hang up she told me goodbye in a sweet and more warm tone than before. Should I keep going on?I dont want to blow it off she is a very special person to me.

[Totally Confused]

Sure, why not? Just don't do any more things like giving gifts so soon and if you are going to do something mysterious, don't wait more than a day to tell her it was you. It sometimes can be a little too much and a little freaky, especially cause she doesn't have strong feeling for you yet. After about 2/3 months, then you can give her little gifts and stuff. For now, just use the phone. Also, stay consistent. If you're going to call her, call her during the week, set up a date and then call her the day before the date. Once you have the date, call her the next day, just to tell her you enjoyed yourself or wait for one day after the date (NO MORE).. Then you can ask if she'd like to get together again and if she says yes, tell her you'll call her during the week and you guys can figure out when and where. Give it a couple of days and then call her to arrange a future date. At the beginning, call her no more than 2/3 times a week, unless you have plans or she tells you to call more. Remember one little thing, when a man likes a woman and the woman doesn't really know the guy or doesn't know if she likes him, it usually takes from 10 - 12 dates for her to decide whether or not she's going to really like him or not (unless he does something to totally turn her off, then he's gone after 1 - 3 dates). Guys usually know right away if they like a girl or not.

 

Well have fun and good luck with her. I hope it works out.

[Shirley]

I met this girl while working for a third party company and i like her , and as an excuse to go out with her i offer to take some photos for my portfolio.she agree and we went out did the photoshoot and we have a blast , then we went out for lunch and a week later I surprised her with a nice frame picture of her.She was reluctact to accept it but finally she say ok. After that i sent her her favorites chocolates in an anonymous way.But some how i felt i was going to fast ,and i tried to forget about her because of fears that she may have taken it in a wrong way (since i was working for another company as a manager ,and i was affraid of any harrasment charges). A month and a half later i heard that she was going through rough times and lost her job.So i decided to call her to find out if she needed anything(but of course i didnt want her to know that i knew she lost her job),I ask her about the chocolates and she scream of emotion "I knew it was you" .she told me that it was very nice of me and thank me and when we hang up she told me goodbye in a sweet and more warm tone than before. Should I keep going on?I dont want to blow it off she is a very special person to me.

 

Hi!

 

Yes, keep going. Don't ever sit back and wait just because you are worried of what she might think. Have fun with her as often as you'd like, call her every day if you want to. She will let you know if she thinks things are going to fast. And thats when you can decide what to do about it.