mich81 Posted June 20, 2003 Share Posted June 20, 2003 Ok here it goes... my guy and I have been together for 3 amazing months. We have had a wonderful relationship up til resently. We grew very close very quickly. Let me mention that this is a long distance relationship (about 1 1/2 hours). We usually spend every weekend together and sometimes once during the week. When not we're not together we spend hours talking, between on the phone and internet. So here's what happen...on Tuesday I called him and things seemed great, and we made plans to see each other on Wednesday. Then after that I was talking to him online and he got all quiet and turned around and said that he needed some time to think about things. I said ok, and he said he would call me the next day. We talked online the next day but he was very short with me, but still said he would call, but he never did. He gave me an explaination why and I understand (he's sick and his friend that is away in the army called and they talked till late). Ok so know its Thursday and we talk online during the day and he seems, semi pleasent, and once again says he will call, well im sure you can guess he never called. I called him this morning and he told me that he didn't get home till late and just crashed cause he is sick. But he was nice on the phone. It was just a brief convo because we both had to get to work, but it made me feel a little bit better. Anyways, so I talk to him today online and I asked him if we were ok and he said yes, we just need to talk so he can tell me what he's thinking, but we will be fine, or he hopes we will be. So I don't know what to think. This is tottaly out of the blue and it is totally not like him to be like this. He says we need to sit down and talk but he has plans all weekend. I love this man so much...but I don't know what to do. It is tearing me apart. What do you think is going on? Sorry this is so long...i guess its more of just a vent then anything, i don't really have anyone I can talk to about this. I'd appreciate any opinions, but please try not to be to harsh!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Gray Posted June 20, 2003 Share Posted June 20, 2003 You really just need to get with him on it. None of us will be able to tell you whats wrong only he can. So you can sit there and get all worked out thinking he's going to break up with you, or he cheated on you, or he wants more space. When maybe he's moving, or going to Europe for a week. No sense worrying yourself, just try to find time to get together. I have about an hour drive to my gf's. We do the during the week thing all the time. Hook it up during the week sometime. Link to post Share on other sites
Lila Posted June 20, 2003 Share Posted June 20, 2003 Something is definately going on. It seems like he is unsure how to handle it. The only thing you can do is talk to him in person about it. Give him a week or so. If he doesn't tell you what's going on, then you need to move on. Link to post Share on other sites
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