audrey88 Posted January 21, 2008 Share Posted January 21, 2008 So, I was kissing/making out with the new guy I've been seeing, and in the middle of it he says..."You're trouble." I kinda smiled and said, "I promise I'm not trouble". But, now I'm realizing I have no idea what he meant. When I call someone trouble, it means I think he's going to play me. What does it mean when a guys says it? Is it good or bad? Link to post Share on other sites
TudorII Posted January 21, 2008 Share Posted January 21, 2008 At the end of the day what it means from one person to the next can be many different things. For me trouble means someone I can tell I am not going to be able to say no to. Another way of putting it may be someone that I am going to crave and likely to attack no matter where we are, public or private. Attack in a good way, sexually! I would take it as a good thing. Link to post Share on other sites
Author audrey88 Posted January 22, 2008 Author Share Posted January 22, 2008 someone that I am going to crave and likely to attack no matter where we are, public or private. Attack in a good way, sexually! Well I would be very happy if that's what he meant. Link to post Share on other sites
brothermartin Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 A woman I'm seeing now has called me trouble. I think she was talking about the fact that I am keeping myself at arm's length, because she wants more and I wont break. But she won't leave me alone either. That's trouble for her, not me. Link to post Share on other sites
Author audrey88 Posted January 22, 2008 Author Share Posted January 22, 2008 A woman I'm seeing now has called me trouble. I think she was talking about the fact that I am keeping myself at arm's length, because she wants more and I wont break. But she won't leave me alone either. That's trouble for her, not me. That's precisely what she means. You're trouble for her because she thinks you're going to end up hurting her by rejecting her when she has strong feelings. When I call someone trouble, this is what I intend it to mean. "We always want what we can't have." So the more you keep her at an arm's length, she may become that much more interested. But, I gathered somewhere along the way that guys use it to mean something different. I didn't know if it was good or bad. Link to post Share on other sites
StartingOver07 Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 At the end of the day what it means from one person to the next can be many different things. For me trouble means someone I can tell I am not going to be able to say no to. Another way of putting it may be someone that I am going to crave and likely to attack no matter where we are, public or private. Attack in a good way, sexually! I would take it as a good thing. This is the only context in which a man has ever told me that I am trouble. I think if he said it in a light-hearted way while you were kissing that this is probably what he meant. Link to post Share on other sites
D-Lish Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 When someone is kissing you and they call you trouble- it's a hot sexy compliment. He's crushin' on you.... flirting. It's a good thing. Link to post Share on other sites
Jilly Bean Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 So, I was kissing/making out with the new guy I've been seeing, and in the middle of it he says..."You're trouble." I kinda smiled and said, "I promise I'm not trouble". But, now I'm realizing I have no idea what he meant. When I call someone trouble, it means I think he's going to play me. What does it mean when a guys says it? Is it good or bad? It means he was very into you and was telling you that he finds you so desirable, that he could easily get into "trouble" with you. The good kind of trouble. Either that, or you're under age and he's not, and its a "15 will get you 20" comment - lol. Link to post Share on other sites
Florida Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 Either that, or you're under age and he's not, and its a "15 will get you 20" comment - lol. :lmao::lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
Trimmer Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 Actually, I see some duality between the "male" and "female" versions... The "trouble" is either being prevented from going somewhere you want to go (female) or in being irresistably pulled somewhere you might not go with a clearer head (male.) As a male, and noting that it was said in the heat of making out, I agree with the posters that believe it was likely light-hearted, a flirt... "You are attracting me somewhere I wouldn't have expected to go..." It's a compliment... Like Jilly said, the "good" kind of trouble. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 I say the entire calling a girl trouble thing is just flirting... it depends on the context, but in the one you described I think it was just meant to be fun and flirtatios Link to post Share on other sites
Krytie TV Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 It means you're seriously overanalyzing the comment. Link to post Share on other sites
starlite Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 It just means he wants you and finds it hard to control himself. Link to post Share on other sites
StartingOver07 Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 It means you're seriously overanalyzing the comment. Best answer yet. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 It's a compliment, especially when delivered with a sexy little smile. Link to post Share on other sites
4givrnt4gtr Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 haha i got the same compliment from my SO when we first started dating. It usually means he got more with you than what he expected. I loved that compliment Link to post Share on other sites
mortensorchid Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 Maybe he was just playing coy with you. I won't worry about it in light of the situation. But if he says that in another context (not romantic or playful) then that would give me pause. Link to post Share on other sites
EYECANDY000 Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 I didnt get a chance to read the other comments , but if someone is calling you trouble during an intimate moment .. its a compliment!!! Im sure someone may have already said it, sorry if Im repeating Link to post Share on other sites
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