anotherother24 Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 I'm wondering whats the longest period of no contact you've had with an EX that ended things, if anythings gotten better, or they changed their mind at all and contacted you? It's been about 4 months here...and I know I should give up, but I'm still holding out some small hope that he could call....just looking for any nice stories lol It makes me feel a little better to see I'm not the only one who isn't automatically over this breakup stuff...some people just tell me to get over it but I still miss him and it doesn't help that we can't even talk about it... Link to post Share on other sites
spirale Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 19 months, we just started talking Link to post Share on other sites
Jmina Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 wow... 19 months... i think thast how its going to be with me.. how did your relationship end? Link to post Share on other sites
Da_1_n_OnlyN3na Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 (edited) 2 weeks after break then talked for like 3 days messed and ****ed....then back to no contact for a week then talked for like 3 days again then back to no contact for a couple days and then we went back out....that was after 1 month from the break up...he was different being a bitch..later he was being extremely jealous broke up after 2 weeks of getting back for 1 day then gave it one last shot were good for 2 weeks and now i think we broke up again for something stupid.... Edited January 22, 2008 by Da_1_n_OnlyN3na Link to post Share on other sites
ttn22 Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 It's been almost 6 months since my husband left me. I cheated on him before we were married and he didn't find out about it until after the marriage. He couldn't handle it (trust issues). He just recently decided like a month ago that he wants to get back together, so we are now in the process of looking for a place to live(while we were separated he bought a house with his brother, so he's moving out of there.) I hope everything works out for you! Link to post Share on other sites
Author anotherother24 Posted January 22, 2008 Author Share Posted January 22, 2008 19 months, we just started talking you didn't talk for 19 months?? and did you end it? that's great though good luck!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author anotherother24 Posted January 22, 2008 Author Share Posted January 22, 2008 It's been almost 6 months since my husband left me. I cheated on him before we were married and he didn't find out about it until after the marriage. He couldn't handle it (trust issues). He just recently decided like a month ago that he wants to get back together, so we are now in the process of looking for a place to live(while we were separated he bought a house with his brother, so he's moving out of there.) I hope everything works out for you! did you all talk in those 6 months? and good luck! I'm glad he changed his mind and I hope everything works out good for you guys! Link to post Share on other sites
caramel271 Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 I was in a serious relationship with my ex boyfriend for about 3 yrs. We had a usual break up to make up episodes. The last break up was a serious one and i did no contact. The reason was i was still in love with him and he had hurt me bad. It was hard at first then within a month things got easier. Not to say that i still didn't think of him and our past. But i started to make moves in my life and just concentrated on my self. He never really left me alone though! he would text me often and sometimes call!! he would try to be slick and block his number but. I didn't answer restricted calls. About 2 months went by and he had a death in his family and he found many ways to contact me callen, textn, showing up to my jobs! But in reality he was missing me and trying to get back to me he was using tha death as an excuse. Well, to make a long story short we got back together and we are now living with each other. Althougth we are still taking things a day at a time. It takes time to rebuild that trust and to just learn communication. Its been a little over a month and things are going good. But only time will tell!! Were just both trying to improve on things we failed on the last times and we talk to each other about mistakes and things we ignored or didn't recognise about each others feelings. So i say if both people want to work it out and both are willing to give it 100 percent go for it. No one can make decisions for you but yourself!!!! do what makes you happy and what is right! Link to post Share on other sites
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