dave3663 Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 Right ive posted on here before, basically i split up from my first relationship over the summer and havent met anyone since. I know people say u just have to wait but im getting impatient now. All my flatmates at uni now have girlfriends, but im still on my own. Starting to feel a bit hopeless, i just dont understand why i dont seem to be able to meet any women. Link to post Share on other sites
spookie Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 It's probably your desperate attitude. Link to post Share on other sites
Author dave3663 Posted January 22, 2008 Author Share Posted January 22, 2008 well thats the thing, i dont have a desperate attitude when im around other people, just gets to me when im on own. Link to post Share on other sites
fishtaco Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 Unless you're doing something obviously wrong, like being creepy or stinky, or being a hermit, then I wouldn't sweat it. Everyone goes through a dry phase sometime. When luck's not with you, it's just not with you, nothing you can do but to tough it out. Trust me, it's better to be single than to be involved with a crazy chick. But if it's bothering you then you can always try doubling your social events. Try to meet as many new people as you possibly can. If it's not anything fundamentally wrong with you, then you can always beat the odds by pure quantity. Link to post Share on other sites
Lucasarts Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 wow so you've been single for a few months? maybe if it was a year I'd be worried, but what are you having trouble with? getting laid or forming another relationship? Feeling horny is natural, desperately craving attention is just the effect of being alone after breaking up from your first relationship. and just b/c your friends have g/f's shouldn't mean you have to go and get some arm and eye candy as well to fit in. That's the worst mentality to have. And learn to appreciate doing things alone, it'll make you less needy and more independent. Link to post Share on other sites
Nintenja Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 Yeah, you never know what could happen. Just recently, I was trying to ask this girl to study with me in my class (to get to know her more). She rejected but there was actually another girl in my class who was more than happy to study with me. I fell down and sprung up all within one hour?! Link to post Share on other sites
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