Should I tell her?

[emalkoc]

So here is the story I posted to other thread!

 

I and my ex were together 2.5 yrs and broke off last August, almost 5.5 mos now. She and I chatted, talked, and IMed few times. I am not 100% for sure but she got into relationship with someone LDR 5 weeks after our break...not sure if she is still seeing this person since he is in different country..All I know he visited here and she visited there once...since xmas I have not seen any indication (facebook) that they are seeing each other or talking...probably yes.

 

Since xmas, me and my ex have been in more in touch and but she declined my invitation to meet pre-xmas for lunch but later she said she could meet afterwards...since then, no indication she wants to yet...Couple times, she initiated a contact for absurd reasons to check me out obviously.

 

She got really emotional back in Halloween seeing me with someone else in a bar and since then few times she send me TXTs "I am thinking of you, big hugs"

 

So, moment of truth, I know I made some mistakes while in relationship to drag our commitment but at the end, I proposed her to get married and have a family..We were happy but she was feeling like she was not living her life the way she wanted to. We both came out divorces and got into relationship after 4-6 mos later.

 

Now, after nearly 6 mos, we never got chance to talk about our relationship again...mostly NC from my side. I got a new job moving out of state...I am wondering whether to tell her that I am leaving the state or not...I dont think her responses will change my decision but I want to know whether it is appropriate to call her up and tell her that I am moving and leaving for good...

 

I dont know how she will react since last time we chatted she asked me few times whether I am moving or my company sending me to Cal in our chat when I told her I like the idea of living there. that's all. I am not playing games. For sure, if she wants to come back and get married, I might re-consider staying but I dont want to hold onto a hope.