NCPilot Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 I've look at the Personal Ads today, and I realized that 99% of the ads that I see, the women either like to go to the bar, or "clubbing", both of which I detest. 99% of them also has physical requirement, and the vast majority of them has the following physical requirement; tall, dark, and handsome. God forbid they want someone short, average and light heh. I know that men can be and are the same way Maybe I'm exasperating and maybe I'm not but it just seems today that western men and women are too shallow and materialistic. They are no longer seeking the guy who is kind, loving and caring. No, they want a sleek looking guy to go along with their sleek job and sleek car so they can impress their equally shallow and materialistic friends. So, one of my classmates was talking about Mail Order Brides and I dunno, that got me to thinking. I've visited a few of those website, a few from South East Asia and some from Eastern Europe to Russia and it's like a 180 degree turn. Here are beautiful women who are asking for a guy who is going to be kind, loving, caring and to me they are thinking long term in terms of relationships. Now I talked to the classmates about this, and there does seem to be some women who are only in on this to get their green card and then they dump the guy and take half of his money. There's also the problem of them catching the attitudes that Western Society seems to have if you bring them here. my classmates has recommended to me of bribing a OB/GYN in the area where the woman lives to get a list of barren women. He brought this up because I don't want children. So I was wondering if anyone here has any luck with Mail Order Brides, and is it really possible to bribe a doctor in another country for information that's supposed to be classified? Also if you have any advice, let me know. Link to post Share on other sites
burning 4 revenge Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 Yeah, I didnt want to go overseas, because I didn't want to fly so I bought my mail order bride from the local projects. Shes great and we have so mch in common with the exception of her occasionally smoking crack and drinking mad-dog all day and the fact that she speaks a different language doesnt make much of a difference since shes not very bright, but I love her and couldnt imagine life without her and I might not have to if she tries to stab me again Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 Yeah, I didnt want to go overseas, because I didn't want to fly so I bought my mail order bride from the local projects. Shes great and we have so mch in common with the exception of her occasionally smoking crack and drinking mad-dog all day and the fact that she speaks a different language doesnt make much of a difference since shes not very bright, but I love her and couldnt imagine life without her and I might not have to if she tries to stab me again That's a very talented blow up doll you have there Link to post Share on other sites
burning 4 revenge Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 That's a very talented blow up doll you have there why do i need a blow up doll when i have my hand and yourr avatar Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 why do i need a blow up doll when i have my hand and yourr avatar Your sweet talk gets me hot Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 Dude I dont know if mail order bride will necesarily work... If your looking for a hot woman your doing the same thing your complaining that women in your country do. If I thought that I could just mail a letter to some country and some hot ass woman would fall easily in love with me I'd do it for sure. More likely a woman would pretend she liked me just to become an american, and some how find a way to steal my money and leave me worse off then before I met her. For that reason I'll go about the dating scene the standard way. Its to much pressure to marry some one you barely know Link to post Share on other sites
Enema Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 Louis Therox from the BBC did a documentary on mail order brides in Thailand. It was pretty interesting and you can watch it on google video... check it out. Link to post Share on other sites
SpanksTheMonkey Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 So your looking for foreign girls for there good intentions only and not the fact that most are extremely hot right? Common theres lots of average/plain looking women in the states who want a decent guy. But I think maybe you want the hole package as well hot looks and a good sincere personality. You cant find it cause its REALLY hard to find so now your a bit angry fair enough. But at the end of the day that would make you just as shallow as the people your venting about here no? lol Um I hope your joking about the bribing the doc thing cause thats kinda creepy if not seriously.. Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 Western men are under the false impression that eastern women are all beautiful, demure, shy, dedicated, and 100% different from western women. The truth is that that is not the case at all. Women from southeast asia are just as varied as western women are. My mom is a total battleaxe. I find it laughable and ridiculous when men talk about mail order brides as if it's not just a business arrangement. And AFAIK regular health care is not something that's very common in third world countries. I have no idea about russia, though. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 Western men are under the false impression that eastern women are all beautiful, demure, shy, dedicated, and 100% different from western women. The truth is that that is not the case at all. Women from southeast asia are just as varied as western women are. My mom is a total battleaxe. I find it laughable and ridiculous when men talk about mail order brides as if it's not just a business arrangement. And AFAIK regular health care is not something that's very common in third world countries. I have no idea about russia, though. thats my point hes going to get some foriegn women and have all the same problems he had with western women + some Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 (edited) So I was wondering if anyone here has any luck with Mail Order Brides, and is it really possible to bribe a doctor in another country for information that's supposed to be classified? Also if you have any advice, let me know. You must be gathering info for a school project.. 2 weeks ago you posted this.. That's another thing, she is just fixated on getting married, it just seems like she is just wanting to rushed to get married. Me, I got to get through school first and It's going to take me 2-3 years, and then I got to get a job, and THEN we can see about marriage. I'm trying to get her to see this relationship as a journey, but of course she doesn't it feels like she sees it as a destination to the alter. I wouldn't use a mail order bride website.. Edited January 23, 2008 by Art_Critic Link to post Share on other sites
j_hunt_12 Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 Yeah the mail order bride business just isn't what it used to be... You'll just have to find a girl the old-fashion way.. sorry. peace and good luck Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 He could just fly over to the Ukraine or philipines or what ever, probably be able to find a wife after a few weeks vacation. And you could take her for surgery if you want it so she can't have kids any more Link to post Share on other sites
burning 4 revenge Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 Or if he goes to Thailand he can buy a girl who never had a vagina to begin with Link to post Share on other sites
Saxis Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 If you're worried about their intentions, sign a prenup. And if you seriously don't want kids, why don't you get the operation yourself? Opens up your options to any woman, is legal and probably cheaper than bribing. Link to post Share on other sites
jerbear Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 thats my point hes going to get some foriegn women and have all the same problems he had with western women + some agreed on this one. I've met some and they are amazing women! They immigrated here on their own abilities. Women, foreign and domestic; have similar traits. It takes sometime to just figure out how to spell her maiden name and maybe first name! :lmao: After that figure out the relationship and arrangedment after she becomes a green card / citizen. See if she sticks around... The grass is not always greener on the other side. Link to post Share on other sites
konfuzd Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 My uncle ordered his wife from Russia in the 70's. She popped out 7 kids, and is a cashier at Walmart, and sucking funds out of our welfare system... If you want an uneducated, unskilled baby-maker, I'm sure there are lots of places you can look in North America, that is unless you don't want to speak the same language (maybe that's a bonus for some, I dunno). Link to post Share on other sites
crazy_grl Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 If you're worried about their intentions, sign a prenup. Then she might just kill ya to get the money. I saw an A&E or CourtTV show about one who killed her husband with the help of her lover. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 Then she might just kill ya to get the money. I saw an A&E or CourtTV show about one who killed her husband with the help of her lover. yeah pre nups dont protect against that and a bunch of other sht that can go wrong Link to post Share on other sites
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