browneyedtide Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 I am in college and single. I feel as if it is completely pointless to meet guys at the bars. all the guys here only want girls who put out and the next day they will forget about you. how is it possible to be single at a school of 20,000 people? does anyone know any tips on how to meet people? i need help. im lonely.... Link to post Share on other sites
quankanne Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 forget about bars if you're not interested in a hook-up, but get involved in intramural sports, on the campus paper or clubs, check out the Baptist or Catholic or Whatever Religion student unions .... just whatever your interest is, look into getting involved in a group related to that. You might not find a significant other, but you'll be meeting more people, which in turn, will allow you to meet potential dating material. bars are okay for blowing off steam or looking for action, but I don't necessarily think you'll strike up decent relationships (friendship or otherwise) at a bar ... Link to post Share on other sites
ShoeGirl Posted February 4, 2008 Share Posted February 4, 2008 Do you hang out with people from your classes at all? I met my boyfriend last year in a biology class, I knew he was doing good in the class so I asked him if he would help me study for a quiz because I needed to get my grade up and I was struggling... we were both in relationships at the time but soon we were both single and we started hanging out for more than studying. Do you stay at school more than just for classes? Try staying around and studying in common areas (the student union building or a common area in the building where most of your classes are depending on how your school is set up). Link to post Share on other sites
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