rosebud6712 Posted January 25, 2008 Share Posted January 25, 2008 to anyone who is in a relationship.......is masterbating considered cheating? and also to any guys....if you aren't emotionally connected to your partner is it hard for you to reach climax, or stay erect? just some random questions i am asking myself today... Link to post Share on other sites
ElvenPriestess Posted January 25, 2008 Share Posted January 25, 2008 I have never thought masturbating was cheating, now when I'm in a relationship I prefer the guy fantasize to me of course. My ex always had to be emotionally attached, or he couldn't get erect. But then after we broke up he had a huge hard on and texted me about it??? Yeah that was weird. But masturbation I think is natural. A way of relief, we ALL do it. Link to post Share on other sites
malaclypse Posted January 25, 2008 Share Posted January 25, 2008 to anyone who is in a relationship.......is masterbating considered cheating? No. and also to any guys....if you aren't emotionally connected to your partner is it hard for you to reach climax, or stay erect? No, and no. Link to post Share on other sites
AAlike Posted January 25, 2008 Share Posted January 25, 2008 to anyone who is in a relationship.......is masterbating considered cheating? and also to any guys....if you aren't emotionally connected to your partner is it hard for you to reach climax, or stay erect? just some random questions i am asking myself today... As someone who travels relatively often for work, I can say that masturbating is definitely not considered cheating - however, I will say that my current g/f is relatively concerned about what I am thinking about when I "empty the tank" - and if I tell her that it's not her I don't know that she's all that thrilled...haha... As far as the other thing - I've only had maybe two or three sexual experiences back in highschool where I wasn't at least somewhat into the person beyond a raw physical attraction (and those all sucked from what I can remember), but for ones where it was a little "on the cusp" so to speak (and honestly, sometimes I've found that you don't even realize the conncection or lack thereof until the act itself, which is a little weird), worst case I've been able to sustain by fantasizing/thinking of someone else. I know that sounds wrong, but honestly, the way I see it, purely casual sex isn't a whole lot different than masturbation when it comes right down to it, so I don't approach it a whole lot differently. I've never really had problems "finishing" once i've started unless it relates to the the combination of alcohol and condoms, in which case emotional connection ain't helping me! Link to post Share on other sites
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