EllaDerSpin Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 Hellooo Jmina, I saw this thread ages ago and couldnt sign in, I kept asking the mods why but got no reply so I re-registered. Soon as I have 50 posts I will PM you. Missed you too btw. Link to post Share on other sites
EllaDerSpin Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 BTW Matty, I was joking about your date being married... Nevermind, you're probably in the OW/OM forum. Link to post Share on other sites
Jmina Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 Okay Spind :bunny: Link to post Share on other sites
EllaDerSpin Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 hee. Also if anyones tried emailing, I cant get into my old addy. Link to post Share on other sites
dfreeman Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 Also if anyones tried emailing, I cant get into my old addy. Oh...I just thought you were hitting me with a big dose of NC Link to post Share on other sites
EllaDerSpin Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 Lol. Ya see, you dont need this forum after all. Link to post Share on other sites
dfreeman Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 Ha Ha - I can't even joke about that... My close friends have no idea how I am handling things so well already. I have my horrible moments/days, but I am getting so much strength and comfort from this forum that I seem to blow right by them. They all attribute it to my workouts, but I think I am getting all my sanity right here on LS Link to post Share on other sites
Author MattyTee Posted February 21, 2008 Author Share Posted February 21, 2008 BTW Matty, I was joking about your date being married... Nevermind, you're probably in the OW/OM forum. lol, I know Spindy She's actually a male cross-dresser!!! No, it's just I think we're both a bit scared, that's all. But things are good, really good. Jmina has been keeping me going with some very sound advice too! I did try and email you! What happened to MSN as well Link to post Share on other sites
EllaDerSpin Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 Ha Ha - I can't even joke about that... My close friends have no idea how I am handling things so well already. I have my horrible moments/days, but I am getting so much strength and comfort from this forum that I seem to blow right by them. They all attribute it to my workouts, but I think I am getting all my sanity right here on LS Thats great! LS helped me alot too back when I was heartbroken. Link to post Share on other sites
EllaDerSpin Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 lol, I know Spindy She's actually a male cross-dresser!!! No, it's just I think we're both a bit scared, that's all. But things are good, really good. Jmina has been keeping me going with some very sound advice too! I did try and email you! What happened to MSN as well I'm not very good at holding on to stuff (esp bf's). Well, it sounds like you are communicating well, so thats good. So long as you don't over communicate and ruin all the fun. Link to post Share on other sites
Author MattyTee Posted February 21, 2008 Author Share Posted February 21, 2008 I'm not very good at holding on to stuff (esp bf's). Well, it sounds like you are communicating well, so thats good. So long as you don't over communicate and ruin all the fun. Oh Spindy, how well you know me. Yes, over communicating could be a problem Link to post Share on other sites
EllaDerSpin Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 You sound like you've really been studying hard. I need to do this again. I've been so out of it. Link to post Share on other sites
dfreeman Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 Thats great! LS helped me alot too back when I was heartbroken. Well, thanks for coming back to pull us out! Link to post Share on other sites
EllaDerSpin Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 Well, thanks for coming back to pull us out! Wow. You're confident in me Link to post Share on other sites
dfreeman Posted February 22, 2008 Share Posted February 22, 2008 Wow. You're confident in me I'll take any help I can get at this stage! Link to post Share on other sites
EllaDerSpin Posted February 22, 2008 Share Posted February 22, 2008 Lol. Ok I'll try. Link to post Share on other sites
Author MattyTee Posted February 23, 2008 Author Share Posted February 23, 2008 You sound like you've really been studying hard. I need to do this again. I've been so out of it. Me? ... Well, I'm not sure ... I still feel a bit dense really I always wonder twice about my posts to people, thinking they are probably too whacky for reading.... Link to post Share on other sites
EllaDerSpin Posted February 23, 2008 Share Posted February 23, 2008 Me? ... Well, I'm not sure ... I still feel a bit dense really I always wonder twice about my posts to people, thinking they are probably too whacky for reading.... They are whacky, unless you are a crank, and then they make perfect sense. Link to post Share on other sites
Author MattyTee Posted February 23, 2008 Author Share Posted February 23, 2008 They are whacky, unless you are a crank, and then they make perfect sense. Haha! Well, I guess that's a good thing Link to post Share on other sites
ibitealil Posted February 23, 2008 Share Posted February 23, 2008 Hi Robert, A few months ago I was here on Loveshack and reading what other people were going through, understanding that we were sharing that pain and also seeing that things do change in time and seeing people feel more and more hi, im the one whos coping now...i dont miss my ex anymore(its been 5months since the Break up)...but i still remember him sometimes...getting jealous of his new gf and hating him for doing so much better than me now when im here getting nowhere. etc etc etc.. (i also have the aging issue like some people in this forum, im 27 and havent settled down yet compared to my friends who are married, kids, career etc) the weekends are especially hard to me...so i constantly push myself for going out at weekend nights not because i wanted to but because im afraid of staying at home alone and i was thinking i should go out in order to meet someone or something..but after reading ur posts i decided to stay home this weekend...but guess what it wasnt such a bad thing after all...i could spend the whole weekend very productive for myself...cleaning my apartment...studying my lectures..going grocery..cooking a nice meal for myself (i like cooking)..watching my favorite comedy show etc...of course id cry once in a while when the thought of him hits my mind..and i cried when i was reading ur post :-P I just want u to know that ur writing is reflecting one more person ...me :-) and thanks for that...the only thing i have right now is faith and im really hoping that i ll be in control of my life...soon! You are right, theres no rule that everyone has to have a life going on the same road...everyone has different destiny...different experience and different time to explore themselves :-) Link to post Share on other sites
EllaDerSpin Posted February 28, 2008 Share Posted February 28, 2008 i will pm you guys soon as i get priveleges. ibitealil, that was a nice post. Link to post Share on other sites
eagle5 Posted February 28, 2008 Share Posted February 28, 2008 Hey Matty, Thanks so much for some of the best words I've read on here. I agree with you on so many points, it's been 2.5 months since the break up and nc for a month, I'm getting there but still have bad days it's really good to read that things do get better. It's wierd, I thought back to August when you were going through hell and how my life at that time was soo good. Little did I know that 4 months later my life would be turned upside down and then I would find LS!!! Well you are an inspiration my man, hopefully I can come back here as you have in several months time and give a little back to those who'll need it then! Thanks and good luck.....Eagle Link to post Share on other sites
ibitealil Posted March 16, 2008 Share Posted March 16, 2008 This Month was a good one...i finished with exams without much trouble...i started taking some extra courses...looking for internships and most of all i was thinking of him less and less eventhough i had most of my time alone for myself...true, I d have this weird feeling in my stomach once in a while when i think of him i have to admit (usually when im in bed )..but its less now...he doesnt even look so attractive to me on his pics anymore. And guess what i met someone :-) Im going for an easter trip but im gonna see him after i come back and its gonna be fun :-D :-D Thank you LS and everybody for being here through horrible horrible times in my life :-) Link to post Share on other sites
Scorpio13c Posted March 16, 2008 Share Posted March 16, 2008 Hey Matty, long time man, glad you are moving forward, keep well pal!! Scorp Link to post Share on other sites
Author MattyTee Posted March 17, 2008 Author Share Posted March 17, 2008 Hey Matty, long time man, glad you are moving forward, keep well pal!! Scorp Scorp my bro! How are things? Yeah, it's a long process, much longer than I thought... but it's also good Link to post Share on other sites
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