reve Posted June 22, 2003 Share Posted June 22, 2003 Both my friend and i are going after this girl. Of course my friend does not know that i like her too...then one fine day out of coincidence we both told her about each others feelings for her....so now the problem is.....after 1 month, she feels that she's goona choose me but needs to answer the other gu too...so do she tell my friend about me or should she just say that there's someone else and not mention my name at all? Link to post Share on other sites
Just A Girl2 Posted June 22, 2003 Share Posted June 22, 2003 so do she tell my friend about me or should she just say that there's someone else and not mention my name at all? Well if he's your friend, he's obviously going to find out that you're seeing someone, right? Therefore, if she chooses you, he's going to find out that someone is "you", right? So if she knows that he ALSO has feelings for her, I think it would be decent of her to let him know that it's YOU she's interested in.......better to hear it that way, I think, then to find out from seeing you and her together or hearing it through the grapevine..which would then likely cause him to think you and she were sneaking around behind his back/you were trying to "steal" his gal (even though you weren't). What I don't get, though........is this stuff about her telling you that she's going to choose you. Like when? On a particular date and a specified time? Why hasn't she already chosen you, or does she still need time to think about it? Be careful, she could be playing you both......telling him she's probably going to choose him, and you the same thing...... Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted June 22, 2003 Share Posted June 22, 2003 I think the two of you should have an old fashioned duel to see who gets the lady. Get your guns loaded, start back to back, walk 50 feet in opposite directions, then quickly turn around and fire. The one who lives gets the girl. If guns are troubling for you, use swords...or just duke it out. If both of you die, I'll handle the matter. Link to post Share on other sites
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