Pyro Posted February 9, 2008 Share Posted February 9, 2008 Oh yeah, And I forgot ambivalence. I don't know if I love you, I'm not sure, maybe tomorrow, etc etc. They love that too. You keep this up and some people may start to believe these posts of yours. Link to post Share on other sites
Curmudgeon Posted February 9, 2008 Share Posted February 9, 2008 Men want: A bitch. Someone that will boss them around. Someone controlling. Someone hot and attractive. Someone demanding and difficult to please (nothing is good enough etc) Lots and lots of drama. To be treated like crap. That's precisely what we're looking for. What man would want anything else? That's nothing short of shere perfection. It's what we dream of and pine for. Dang! Wonder why I divorced it!!! What WAS I thinking? Link to post Share on other sites
Curmudgeon Posted February 9, 2008 Share Posted February 9, 2008 Oh yeah, And I forgot ambivalence. I don't know if I love you, I'm not sure, maybe tomorrow, etc etc. They love that too. Is that just today or will we feel that way tomorrow? Are we really capable of love or is it only like? Check with me later! Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted February 9, 2008 Share Posted February 9, 2008 Dang! Wonder why I divorced it!!! What WAS I thinking? She probably divorced you and you suffered like crazy. Maybe later you realized of the deal you had, but like most men, loved it. Especially if they are "nice" some day (usually when they want something), that day makes it for all. Link to post Share on other sites
Curmudgeon Posted February 9, 2008 Share Posted February 9, 2008 She probably divorced you and you suffered like crazy. Maybe later you realized of the deal you had, but like most men, loved it. Especially if they are "nice" some day (usually when they want something), that day makes it for all. She left me but I dvorced her. She just wanted legal separatuion at first. I wasn't about to wait. I did indeed later realize what a deal I had -- what a bad or raw deal that I was too close to and didn't realize for 25 years. She was never really "nice" during most of the marriage and certainly hasn't been nice since. I wasn't very nice either, as it turns out, but have since changed. My children like me and avoid her. Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted February 9, 2008 Share Posted February 9, 2008 She was never really "nice" during most of the marriage and certainly hasn't been nice since. I wasn't very nice either, as it turns out, but have since changed. My children like me and avoid her. Yeah. But most guys when they are in these kind of deals think, oh, I remember that day when she smiled so bright... we were so happy. So that covers it all. One day of ok, makes it up for one year of crap. Link to post Share on other sites
Curmudgeon Posted February 10, 2008 Share Posted February 10, 2008 Yeah. But most guys when they are in these kind of deals think, oh, I remember that day when she smiled so bright... we were so happy. So that covers it all. One day of ok, makes it up for one year of crap. I remember very little that was good about the relationship. I don't actually remember ever being all that happy. I know there were good days and times but they are overshadowed in my memory by those that weren't. My regret is that I didn't do the hard work necessary to create and maintain more of the good times. It's a mistake I work hard to avoid repeating in this marriage. Link to post Share on other sites
Curmudgeon Posted February 10, 2008 Share Posted February 10, 2008 Well, don't die Curm! But if you fake dying, I can practice my mouth to mouth... I guess I will have change my avatar to a nurse picture now, now that that's out of the bag! And when I'm sufficiently revived, what then? Your avatar is just fine. Link to post Share on other sites
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