How do I get her to trust me again?

[Mr Zandos]

Hi there, my girlfriend and I have just split up, its been a week but feels like a year, I just need to say that I never ever meant to hurt her, my paranoia got the better of me and what I was scared of drove her away, I was warned about her moods, but I had never seen her in one, when she was quiet and said nothing I presumed I had done something to upset her, I hadnt, but I was friends with her mum and sister before we got together, they were on my msn thing for a long time, when my girlfriend got her house and before she moved in her mum asked me to look out for her and to let her know if I thought she may be down (she had post natal psychosis after her youngest was born), except when she was down I presumed it was me that she was pissed at, so when I was at my home I did start to get paranoid as she would not always answer the phone to me I was worried about us, so after a few drinks I would talk to her mum or sister on msn, why I couldnt be like most blokes and think f*ck it she's in a mood and let it pass is a question I keep asking myself, she does not trust me at the end of the day and I do not blame her at all. I used to keep things to myself if I knew what decisions I make may upsett others, I did this to her and it was another thing that drove her away.

 

How do I win her back? She sent me an email last night saying she cant be in a relationship with someone she does not trust, I have agreed not to contact her as she did say she would like to be friends in the future if I sort myself out, but I want her to trust me again and I suppose 1 week is a little too soon for her to get that back, anyone been through this?