thewholeshabangg Posted January 29, 2008 Share Posted January 29, 2008 my guy, well now i dont know, told me i needed "practice" (we've been arguing about us lately). i opened up and told him that i am scared of him hurting me. and i got no response from him! i asked if he was going to say anything, and he didn't.. this was yesterday afternoon... what does this mean? i just want to tell him to f*ck off and that he is a jerk. Link to post Share on other sites
MakeLemonade Posted January 29, 2008 Share Posted January 29, 2008 what the heck did he mean by "practice"? As in sex? Being in a relationship? Not quite sure what you are asking. It does sound like he is being distant but need some more info to help beyond that..... Link to post Share on other sites
Author thewholeshabangg Posted January 29, 2008 Author Share Posted January 29, 2008 practice with a relationship. like i said we've been having arguments about us and what we aren't getting from each other.. and i never told him that i was scared to put myself out there fully, so ive been holding back a bit. but now i just felt, i told him that, and now i know WHY i was holding back... i feel like he just proved exactly that. Link to post Share on other sites
AdrianaLima Posted January 29, 2008 Share Posted January 29, 2008 I don't understand how you can practice a relationship. It's either you are in a relationship or you're not. It isn't any practice. Link to post Share on other sites
Author thewholeshabangg Posted January 29, 2008 Author Share Posted January 29, 2008 practice.. like becoming better at it. cause i guess i suck. but so does he so whatever... obviously. Link to post Share on other sites
sunshinegirl Posted January 29, 2008 Share Posted January 29, 2008 I don't think you'll be able to get very far if your conversations with your BF stay at this level of generality. Have you asked him if there are specific things you are saying or doing that bother him? (We might also be able to be of more help if we had more details...) For what it's worth, I do think one can get better at relationships - learn how to give and take, compromise, fight fair, communicate, etc. Your BF sounds like he could use some practice in the communication department! Link to post Share on other sites
AdrianaLima Posted January 29, 2008 Share Posted January 29, 2008 Maybe the two of you need to establish a concrete friendship, then work ya'll way up. The two of you just need to practice communication skills. Just like how you told him that you was scared that he might hurt you, and he didn't give you a response. You can't accomplish anything if you don't talk about ya'll problems. Link to post Share on other sites
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