Audg1964 Posted January 29, 2008 Share Posted January 29, 2008 I am dating my neighbor! He's single - never been married - no kids and no family. I'm a single mom of 14 years to a 16-year-old girl in Catholic School! I have never had sex when she's home! Never had a guy sleep over! We invited him over on Christmas Day, because I felt badly that he was home alone. We had been friends before this - and he was really happy that we invited him over. Then, he starts to make the moveso n me, overstepping his boundaries and making me uncomfortable by coming on to me on Christmas Day! So, I made it clear that I wanted to wait to have a sexual relationship. I really like this guy and am totally attracted to him - and we did have sex - once. I really like him, but he just keeps pushing it - for sex! I cannot in good conscience have sex with him when my daughter is home! Nor, can I go across the hall and do it with him when my daughter is home! Call me a prude, but that was just my instinct. I told him that I wanted more than just a sexual relationship, that I wanted a long-term relationship, and that I thought it would be best if we waited. He keeps pushing me and pushing me and oversteps his boundaries and does not respect that I have already told him that I wanted to wait. We have plans to go away and "do it." But, I live with my 16-year-old and I can't be doing the nasty when she's around! So, last night, he said he didn't want to watch what was on TV, but we weren't watching it, we were talking, or I was talking. So, I said, well, isn't the point that we spend time together? We're not watching TV anyway! If TV is more important to you than spending time with me, why don't you go home and watch TV? With that, he just got up and left, without a word, no goodbye, nothing! I cooked him dinner...I am speechless... My heart is broken too. So, my question is, if he really liked and respected me, he would wait, wouldn't he? I already know the answer...but, guys, help me out here...if he really liked me, and wanted a long-term relationship - he would wait, right? I mean, we've only been together since Christmas! That's just a month! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Audg1964 Posted January 29, 2008 Author Share Posted January 29, 2008 meant to put this in breaking up! Link to post Share on other sites
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