AA Posted June 23, 2003 Share Posted June 23, 2003 My problem is a bit wierd.I am a very happy go lucky person and i am generaly very cool outside of my home.I am always fun ,laugha lot and make people laugh a lot. My parents are the best and i love them.I also general crack jokes at home and laugh and enjoy.But i can't take them suggesting me things.As soon as they start criticizing me,or talk anything that i donot like i snap,which hurts them.I talk rudely to them when i donot like what they are talking.The worst part ,i realise everything i can see it but can't stop it anyway. The same thing goes for my boy friend,i even shout at him sometimes....so in all it comes out to be like i only snap at people who are really close to me..and others donot know this side of me atall. tell me what do i do?how do i change myself...why am i like this?? do i have some problem..cuz i donot want to hurt my parents and i am doing that.i even hurt my boy friend at times. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted June 23, 2003 Share Posted June 23, 2003 If you have no control over your behavior, then you need to see a psychiatrist immediately. There is nobody in the entire world who can keep you from reacting to friends and relatives the way you do except you. If your mouth is simply on autopilot (totally out of your conscious control) when you are around them, that's got to scare them something awful. I'm sure they will all chip in to see that you get the medical attention you need if you cannot afford it. If you are of a religion that believes in demons, perhaps an exorcism may help. Any person who exhibits behavior they do not desire to, behavior which is against their will, has an emergency psychiatric disorder of the highest magnitude. I'm assuming that you have tried to change yourself and have been unable to, judging from your post. Link to post Share on other sites
HokeyReligions Posted June 23, 2003 Share Posted June 23, 2003 Sounds like normal teenage behavior to me. That ole "I know everything" attitude that is produced by hormones. Link to post Share on other sites
cornerstone Posted June 23, 2003 Share Posted June 23, 2003 Once I got older, my parents got smarter. It was amazing really. Link to post Share on other sites
Author AA Posted June 24, 2003 Author Share Posted June 24, 2003 i am still open for anymore comments that people haev to give me or suggest...please do.. Link to post Share on other sites
MissNYC24 Posted July 8, 2003 Share Posted July 8, 2003 [color=blue]I experienced the same kind of mood swings when I was around my parents. I also realized how I was treating them and felt guilty but failed to stop. I think that it may just be that "familiarity breeds contempt"... Maybe you are extrememly comfortable with your parents b/c, hey- you have known them all your life, they love you unconditionally and they always will. This might make you fail to second-guess your harsh words and attitudes b/c you know that they will probably not hold it against you or change the way they feel about you. What would cross MY mind when I caught myself being a total b!tch, was "what if they die tomorrow? would i be miserable my whole life b/c i didn't treat them better or tell them I loved them?" Life is short, and while everyone in this world experiences anger and different moods, you have to think about how much energy you are channeling with these negative feelings. It might seem impossible to make a complete turn-around in your ways b/c of habit or maybe b/c of pride, but ultimately, if you make the change, you will be making everyone happy including yourself- so which is the right choice for you?[/color] Link to post Share on other sites
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