Reconciling after 2 years of separation

[guessjeans]

Thanks for your kind words and wisdom.

 

He said that this new woman is companionship only. That he loves her like you do when you are with someone, but he said "its not like that between them".

 

He said that to me back in December, and said again to me a couple of weeks ago. He went 3 yrs without sex, and it is very important to him. He use to go to 2 and 3 movies a day because he was lonely. He loves to skate, would skate by himself. Now he has someone to go to these things with him. But I know he said to me that he could see himself in a relationship with me again, but has trust issues. I never cheated, but he does have insecurities, mainly i think because of low self confidence.

 

I told him how I feel, and he said maybe you are thinking you made a mistake? He said maybe we both made a mistake. He said we fought about nothing.

 

But he is still with her. I move on. I have a date tomorrow night. I wont sit at home waiting for him to come to realize that Great Love Involves Great risk. The relationship he is in now is safe. She is 58 yrs old, not attractive from what i hear, smoker so she looks her age, and to boot, she just left her husband one day, then they were sleeping together the next.

 

I dont understand it, but I have to continue moving on with my life. He doesnt seem upset that I am now, after 4 yrs apart, dating someone. He said thats nice, good for you. hehehehe.

 

Thanks again for allowing me to vent