Author marlena Posted January 31, 2008 Author Share Posted January 31, 2008 go for it.. be independant... he'll be the one running for you.. works every time. You let the cat out of the bag,Lizzie!! Maybe we should write a book like the Secret, call it The Other Secret, get rich quick and go trotting the globe! :bunny: Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted January 31, 2008 Share Posted January 31, 2008 Well, OK! I'll confess. I am a binge "player". I know it's a lot of fun. Especially on vacation where nobody knows you:bunny: hahaha... when I go on vacation with my friend (we both have children) so we always promise each other that 'what's going on in Cancun (or any other places) stays in Cancun. We both want to have fun on our vacation.. but this year, she was quiet, she didn't get a fling ... but I had a 2-week long fling with a young Dominican hottie... He called me when I got back... ssoooo cute and sexy... humm... that was fun. I am thinking of going back this next June... and I'm already booked for next January.... Life is too short... have fun! Link to post Share on other sites
twice_shy Posted January 31, 2008 Share Posted January 31, 2008 (edited) Wrong. I very much believe in marriage and monogamy. This just shows how little you know me. Or you are a very bad reader. Thanks anyway. Gee thats funny, because you had this to say about marriage in the following thread: I am with you on this, Lizzie! I don't believe in the vows nonsense either. It's like believing in "they lived happily ever after" fairy tales we are fed with as children. There is no such thing as vows. You are with a person for as long as you want to be. Period. End of story. No one should be shackled to silly and unrealistic vows that were taken years ago. We live in a constant state of flux and what was yesterday might no longer be today. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showpost.php?p=1450509&postcount=30 Edited January 31, 2008 by twice_shy Link to post Share on other sites
Author marlena Posted January 31, 2008 Author Share Posted January 31, 2008 Twoshy, I'll say it again. You are a poor reader. I believe in marriage (esp.where childen are involved) and fidelity but I do not believe in marriage vows. I believe in two people living together because they love eachother and want to wake up next to each other every morning for as long as they feel this way. Hopefully, it will be forever. And you needn't underline and use bold type. It hurts my eyes. Link to post Share on other sites
Author marlena Posted January 31, 2008 Author Share Posted January 31, 2008 Life is too short... have fun! :bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny: Link to post Share on other sites
Author marlena Posted January 31, 2008 Author Share Posted January 31, 2008 Sorry, meant to say twice shy! Whatever! Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted January 31, 2008 Share Posted January 31, 2008 So M, did you have sex with him yet? Link to post Share on other sites
Author marlena Posted January 31, 2008 Author Share Posted January 31, 2008 So M, did you have sex with him yet? Ah, patience, my dear, patience!!! The "particulars" on Monday! Link to post Share on other sites
Kamille Posted February 1, 2008 Share Posted February 1, 2008 Ah, patience, my dear, patience!!! The "particulars" on Monday! Oooh I am tingling with anticipation! Miummy sexy suave europeans. Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted February 1, 2008 Share Posted February 1, 2008 We're talking about a European man, here. Aren't they all "suave" or is that just in the movies? They can't ALL be misleading liars out to amass notches on their bedposts. Or can they? Yarg - not all european men are suave. I mean, the UK is part of Europe, right? I dated a man from Scotland. He was not suave. The only thing that swept me off my feet about him was that I didn't understand most of what he said. Once I began to decipher it, he started to look a lot like a tool. Link to post Share on other sites
Lyssa Posted February 1, 2008 Share Posted February 1, 2008 Gee whizz... it's just one date, people! Marlena... go for it. You know yourself and you will know when the feelings are building. When that happens, I'm sure you know what to do - judging from your posts here. You're both single and there isn't anything wrong with two single people going out on a date. It may lead to something more, it may not. Take a chance and IF things don't go well, we'll be here to help you... (I know I will). Have fun!! Link to post Share on other sites
D-Lish Posted February 1, 2008 Share Posted February 1, 2008 I don't think age is a biggie. But your talking to the girl who dates younger consistently. I've dated a guy 13 years younger. The problem with younger is that- well, there will be maturity differences. I always have great fun with younger guys I go out with... but I seldom see them as having long term potential. The problem with that is that, it's not difficult to get attached. You might think it's just about fun, and that one date can't hurt- but if you get attached, chances are pretty good that with that kind of age difference that things have a lesser chance of working out. Then again.... my gf is 38 with a child... and she met a 26 year old "ladies man" who swept her off her feet.... and they are now engaged to be married. She was 35 when they met- and he was 23. So who knows. I don't recognize their age difference when I am with them, they are pretty compatible and he adores her. You sound like you want to have that date. Why not just have one date to start with and see what you think. I don't think one date can hurt. Link to post Share on other sites
imstunned Posted February 1, 2008 Share Posted February 1, 2008 I'm late to this - I'm glad you are going. Whats the point in worrying about anything - possible outcomes, relationships etc, its date. Put on your hottest underwear, lap up his attention and feel like a goddess for the night. Dont worry about the destination and enjoy the ride. x Link to post Share on other sites
lbj123 Posted February 1, 2008 Share Posted February 1, 2008 Absolutely, positively go for it! work relationships are definitely a bit more tricky just because you see them much more often, but my best friend is a teacher and married another teacher at the school where they teach. he actually proposed to her at a faculty meeting! Definitely wear a dress...guys love a woman in a dress! have fun and tell us everything!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author marlena Posted February 1, 2008 Author Share Posted February 1, 2008 I'm late to this - I'm glad you are going. Whats the point in worrying about anything - possible outcomes, relationships etc, its date. Put on your hottest underwear, lap up his attention and feel like a goddess for the night. Dont worry about the destination and enjoy the ride. x Thanks, Stun. I'll do it for myself. I could use a little ego-boost, truth be told. About the underwear ................hmmmmm, I wonder if he is the white cotton-panties girlie type or the black lace Victoria's Secret type. Maybe I'll wear cotton undies and a black and mauve lace and satin bra. Just to cover all posts!! OR I'll wear nothing at all! How's that? Just kidding! I don't intend to get physical with him (not even after the second/third bottle of wine) as he is a colleague. I'm going to take Ariadne's advice and make hin BEG! Haha!! THanks Stun. I really am glad you respoonded! Link to post Share on other sites
Author marlena Posted February 1, 2008 Author Share Posted February 1, 2008 lbj, A dress definitely with some cleavage! Thanks. Yes, my sister met her husband that way. They were colleagues. One never knows but I honestly doubt it. I have him already mapped out in my head. He's just good for a fling! Too bad we work together. Then, it wouldn't be a problem. Thanks. Oh, and FWB, with someone you still are in love with, I don't think so. Not a sensitive girl like you. Link to post Share on other sites
Kamille Posted February 1, 2008 Share Posted February 1, 2008 About the underwear ................hmmmmm, I wonder if he is the white cotton-panties girlie type or the black lace Victoria's Secret type. Well if ever there was a no-brainer, this is it. Mr lived in Belgium? Black Lace. Link to post Share on other sites
lbj123 Posted February 1, 2008 Share Posted February 1, 2008 M - I know, I gotta cut it off! It hasn't been easy letting go. Thank for your support! Link to post Share on other sites
Author marlena Posted February 1, 2008 Author Share Posted February 1, 2008 Well if ever there was a no-brainer, this is it. Mr lived in Belgium? Black Lace. Haha! Men have all sorts of "preferences." He might be into corrupting little girls. But,then, he wouldn't be asking me out, right? Link to post Share on other sites
Kamille Posted February 1, 2008 Share Posted February 1, 2008 Haha! Men have all sorts of "preferences." He might be into corrupting little girls. But,then, he wouldn't be asking me out, right? yes preferences... I can make room for personnal preferences in my nationalist undie preference system. Still, for a Franco-European or someone who spent a lot of time where women worship Aubade, my money on the laced undies. He's asking you out because he also has a preference for sexy smart women Link to post Share on other sites
Author marlena Posted February 1, 2008 Author Share Posted February 1, 2008 He's asking you out because he also has a preference for sexy smart women Ah, shucks, Kamille! You gave me all the validation I need. Maybe, I won't go out with him after all!! Link to post Share on other sites
Kamille Posted February 1, 2008 Share Posted February 1, 2008 Ah, shucks, Kamille! You gave me all the validation I need. Maybe, I won't go out with him after all!! aaahhh! Anytime Marlena. But we both know your cute coworker won't let you go that easy! Link to post Share on other sites
Author marlena Posted February 1, 2008 Author Share Posted February 1, 2008 aaahhh! Anytime Marlena. But we both know your cute coworker won't let you go that easy! No, but I would and that's what counts!! Link to post Share on other sites
Kamille Posted February 1, 2008 Share Posted February 1, 2008 No, but I would and that's what counts!! Yes you would. This whole thread is proof of that. That man better be ready to work hard. Why do I get the feeling he's already up for it? Link to post Share on other sites
twice_shy Posted February 1, 2008 Share Posted February 1, 2008 Twoshy, I'll say it again. You are a poor reader. I believe in marriage (esp.where childen are involved) and fidelity but I do not believe in marriage vows. I believe in two people living together because they love eachother and want to wake up next to each other every morning for as long as they feel this way. Hopefully, it will be forever. And you needn't underline and use bold type. It hurts my eyes. Sorry, if you don't believe in the vows, you don't believe in marriage. Otherwise it isn't a marriage, its just cohabitation. Marriage is about forsaking all others. If one doesn't want to do that, one shouldn't get married. Link to post Share on other sites
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