skeptical23 Posted January 31, 2008 Share Posted January 31, 2008 (edited) Well, i am going to make a long story short b/c i can go on 4ever, i have been dating my bf for about 5yrs now and he lives across the street from my mom, at the beginning of our relationship my family accepted him, but about a year ago, my sister started a big mess b/w my mom, my bf and herself. My daughters dad popped up at my moms house, my house as well at the time and so my bf saw him and wanted to know what was going on, so he walked over there to see. so my sister pulled up and made a big confusion. so she called my mom and told her a bunch of lies and she beleived everything, so my mom told him not to come back in the yard ever again. so he has not been back in the yard since, so my family and i were not talking for a copule of months. until one day my sister got all up in my bf face and started cursing and so i walked up and told her to go sit down some where and she swung on me so we started to fight, and (around the corner) so she went to my moms house and called her from work and told her some more lies avout reg being in the yard and all kind of non sense. so my mom works 2 minutes away and she came home and jumped out of the car and start cursing my bf out, so by this time i am crying and everything else, so that added fuel to the fire. i moved out a couple of months later so i can live my on life and get away from that. so one day my bf and i was arguing and my mom called me across the street to tell me that i dont need to take that and i need to get my head out of my ass, so my bf was so fed up he exchanged words with my mom and every since they dont get along and dont say one word to each other, i love my bf as well as my mother and i am trapped in the middle and i dont know what to do Edited January 31, 2008 by skeptical23 Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted January 31, 2008 Share Posted January 31, 2008 Wow, what a dysfunctional family! Why did your sister get so involved, telling lies to your mother? Is she jealous of you or your relationship with your bf? Anyway, at this point, ONE of you needs to start acting like an adult. Sit your sister down and tell her to stay out of your business, since it is none of hers. Sit your mother down and tell her that your sister has lied about your bf, so your mother's opinion is not based on the truth. And whether your mother believes it or not, your bf treats you well and you are asking her to respect both you and your bf in the future. Then talk with your bf and tell him to stay away from both your mom and your sister until they get over it. You don't have to choose between your family and your bf. But in order to pull that off, you have to be calm, respectful, and adult yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
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