DaddyO Posted February 1, 2008 Share Posted February 1, 2008 Looking for both females and males who have had experienced with this topic. Just a little worried that she might change (love her the way she is now). Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted February 1, 2008 Share Posted February 1, 2008 When i grew mine i became the horn dog everyone has come to love. I take it she is having them done cosmetically, not just going through some weird late growth spurt? Link to post Share on other sites
shadowofman Posted February 1, 2008 Share Posted February 1, 2008 You can expect me hiding under the bed when you come home from work. Link to post Share on other sites
HilaryQ Posted February 1, 2008 Share Posted February 1, 2008 I would love to be brave enough to go and get boobs - and if I did I would hope to be supersexy and confident about my body. have fun!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
sally4sara Posted February 1, 2008 Share Posted February 1, 2008 she will be a swollen painful mess for a bit; not any kind of fun for a while. Link to post Share on other sites
Sierra Sunrise Posted February 1, 2008 Share Posted February 1, 2008 You may get panicky by reading my response but I got the boobs after my infidelity recovery, plus having two kids and being 38d's all my life didn't help with the sagging ya know. Anyhow I got mine taken down to a nice 36 c and I can tell you that it does boost the confidence levels, however if you two are seriously in love and the trust is there there is nothing to worry about. Now if none of those are really there then I'd say worry. Try to relax and if you're feeling ultra insecure then try talking to her about it. Why must she get the surgery? Are there any reasons or children involved? Link to post Share on other sites
Author DaddyO Posted February 2, 2008 Author Share Posted February 2, 2008 Sunrise We're in our late 20's and there are no children. She just keeps telling me that "what's the point of getting them later in life, when I'll be OLD". I do understand where she's coming from. I would also like to add that our friend got them last year. She looks attractive with them. Plus, like others have stated, friends confidence jumped once she got'em. Wifey works out constantly, and I guess there are some female parts that you cant reshape in the gym. Link to post Share on other sites
OWoman Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 Wifey works out constantly, and I guess there are some female parts that you cant reshape in the gym. Sounds like she has body image issues. I'd recommend counselling rather than surgery, unless she's actually disfigured. Link to post Share on other sites
Author DaddyO Posted February 2, 2008 Author Share Posted February 2, 2008 Owoman Shrink? Dont you think that is a little extreme. Just because you do not like a part of your body does not mean you have to lay it all on the line. We all have imperfections (mirrors dont lie) however, as long as it does not take over your lifestyle we're fine. My wife is an MD and has done extensive research on the subject matter. If she wants to be happier with Bigger Boobs than more power to her. My original question was; What to expect once she gets'em? Link to post Share on other sites
Politico Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 Owoman Shrink? Dont you think that is a little extreme. Just because you do not like a part of your body does not mean you have to lay it all on the line. It's much the same as bypass surgery to lose weight. It affects body image and very often, that ruins marriages/relationships because the person who's been reshaped develops an urge to "try out" his or her "new" body and see how much attention they can get from and mileage they can get with others. That she's a doctor doesn't mean she's not human and not susceptible to the same frailties as anyone else. This has more to do with the mind than with the body. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 this happened to me.. but, in my case, they are natural.. but they 'grew' after I quit smoking... strange but true. I was a 34C then I end up a 38DD... I looove them... they are natural, firm, and still perky despite my age. They are my best asset. What will change? She will... She will feel much better about herself, more confident... If this is a huge issue for her.. I say go for it... if that is going to make her happier... then why not? I would not change mine for anything in the world... they made me 'famous' and I will put a picture in my avie... I just put a new pic in my profile... from last week on holidays... down south. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 I don't have it in my computer anymore.. I think I transferred some pics on a CD... Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 Just a little worried that she might change (love her the way she is now). What kind of change are you afraid of? What do you think might happen? Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 What kind of change are you afraid of? What do you think might happen? I think he feels insecure about what she will look like after.. She will probably turns head and he might feel threatened... Link to post Share on other sites
rainfall Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 Sounds like she has body image issues. I'd recommend counselling rather than surgery, unless she's actually disfigured. So because she works out alot she has body image issues? Link to post Share on other sites
sally4sara Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 Owoman Shrink? Dont you think that is a little extreme. Just because you do not like a part of your body does not mean you have to lay it all on the line. We all have imperfections (mirrors dont lie) however, as long as it does not take over your lifestyle we're fine. My wife is an MD and has done extensive research on the subject matter. If she wants to be happier with Bigger Boobs than more power to her. My original question was; What to expect once she gets'em? Since boobs of any size can be found on women of any size, its a little extreme to call them imperfect unless she was disfigured. It is the attitude that boobs can be too small that gives reason for concern. I can see someone with gigantic boobs needing to have them reduced to ease back pain and breathing issues. Those reasons are medically valid while having nothing to do with disfigurement. There is no medical reason for getting larger boobs. That being said it is usually done when a person THINKS they are imperfect due to being smaller. It is an insecurity and unless she addresses that, there is no guarantee larger boobs will keep her from feeling imperfect. I think that was all Owoman was saying by suggesting your wife see a therapist. Link to post Share on other sites
Jilly Bean Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 I'm a 34DD (natural!) and am built like a barbie doll. Needless to say, the bod attracts a LOT of attention. Well, let's be precise - the BOOBS create a lot of attention. As yes, I do play them up! OP - expect your wife to become more flirty, out going, and yes, expect men to look at her differently (depending on how big she goes). Just be prepared for more men to look at your wife as you do. I can tell you that my secure BF's don't mind the attention I get, as they feel proud to be with me, and know that I am theirs. Insecurity can create problems, so I hope you're more the supportive, confident type. Link to post Share on other sites
JerseyShortie Posted February 3, 2008 Share Posted February 3, 2008 Shrink? Dont you think that is a little extreme. Just because you do not like a part of your body does not mean you have to lay it all on the line. You think going to a shrink is extreme but electing to have cosmetic surgery for something like your breasts isn't? Everyone could probably fair from having a shrink. I digress, she might be the same, she might be more confident. There is no one person here who can give you that answer. I tend to think that women who feel like they need breast agumentations are looking for some type of validation and attention they don't feel like they are getting currently. Link to post Share on other sites
sunshinegirl Posted February 4, 2008 Share Posted February 4, 2008 Owoman Shrink? Dont you think that is a little extreme. Just because you do not like a part of your body does not mean you have to lay it all on the line. What a strange day and age we live in when it is considered "extreme" to go talk with a shrink instead of going under the knife for major, elective, surgery. Link to post Share on other sites
chilatte Posted February 4, 2008 Share Posted February 4, 2008 (edited) Please have her rethink this. I know I did. I was set and ready to have them done and after researching and coming upon a breast implant support forum (you can google this) I found out millions of women who are permanetly ill from these toxic bags. Read their stories. It may never happen to your wife but I know I will never take this chance. Silicone is poison and ALL breast implants have it (even the saline ones) and the doctors tell patients they do not and most women who get sick, somethimes not until years after getting them, do not know their illness is related to the implants and the doctors will never tell a patient that implants are related to illness but I see tons of women coming to this forum everyday and you know what? They all have the same symptoms and illnesses and were all told the same lies from doctors. All I am saying is if she really wants them just make sure she is fully informed of what could happen later on. I know reading these women's stories have changed my mind for life and it is not just a few women.....it is A LOT of women with severe problems. Edited February 4, 2008 by chilatte Link to post Share on other sites
billgreene Posted February 4, 2008 Share Posted February 4, 2008 Just stay cool man.... be glad she's getting them. I planted a seed a "what if.." with my wife a few years ago and now she's considering... she really does kinda need them... and a tummy tuck... after loosing close to 100 lbs... twice... (First was overweight by 90 lbs, then lost it, then gained 75 lbs with pregnancy and then lost it again.) Needless to say there's lots of sagging skin on her abdomen and her breasts. Anyway it'll be there for you to enjoy.. so long as you're behind her.. There are lots of people on here... mostly women... who are anti-boob-job. We've looked at those forums and I think that's where you'll find a lot of good info... but I'd say there was a tiny minority of women who were dissatisfied at all let alone sick or disfigured. On the contrary... the vast majority were VERY satisfied... husbands and wives. Expect her to be in a good deal of pain for 6 weeks or so. She'll probably be out of work for 2 weeks to a month.... irritable.. So she'll need support... and probably will need you to take off of work for a few days to a week or two depending on how bad it is. (I think that has a lot to do with how much size she changes.) I think that some of the questions asked have been valid.... If your relationship stinks... now is the time to fix it... she's going to do it whether you like it or not... If you're with her on this... completely... it will help your chances of staying with her and enjoying her new and improved beauty and confidence. The other question I have is.... does she have a decent reason for them? Is she a C going for a DD? or is she an A or a severely sagging B or C? Anyway.... those are questions for her really.. to decide whether she really wants them or not.... If I were you... esp if your relationship had issues.... I wouldnt press the issue... just support and be happy with her... and if she changes her mind and doesn't do it... still be happy and supportive. good luck and...... haha... congratulations (ahead of time..) sympathies for the first 6 wks. Link to post Share on other sites
JerseyShortie Posted February 4, 2008 Share Posted February 4, 2008 I planted a seed a "what if.." with my wife a few years ago and now she's considering... In return, you should get a penis implant..ya know, I'm just trying to help your wife out and "planting the seed"..... And men seriously wonder why women are insecure about their bodies? How come men can't just be happy with the way women's bodies are? Getting plastic balloons implanted in yoru chest isn't really how God intended it. If women put that kind of preasure on men that men seem to place on women, men would be the insecure ones. It's nice to know that men aren't happy with the way their own SO's body is. This goes to show how screwed up our society is and how pornified we have pathetically become. Link to post Share on other sites
ladyintights Posted February 6, 2008 Share Posted February 6, 2008 yes they look nice, but feel like crap. visually stimulating, but not so much by the sense of touch. Link to post Share on other sites
ladyintights Posted February 6, 2008 Share Posted February 6, 2008 I think he feels insecure about what she will look like after.. She will probably turns head and he might feel threatened... will she turn strange mens' heads and give them head too ? who knows. she apparently is desperate for attention and those types of women take it from anywhere they can get it. Link to post Share on other sites
ladyintights Posted February 6, 2008 Share Posted February 6, 2008 So because she works out alot she has body image issues? no she works out fervently BECAUSE she has body issues. you think models dont have body issues too? i can say the same thing.. but it sounds really ridiculous in this instant- "So because she is an anorexic, she has body image issues?" Link to post Share on other sites
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