What to expect when the Wifey is getting BOOBS

[annieo]

Tomcat, you wouldn't happen to be a plastic surgeon, are you? Sounds like you're trying to drum up some business (as if that would be necessary).

 

Why can't people (and I mean you, tomcat) accept that not everyone feels the same way? There are guys who dig women who are very large EVERYWHERE, there are guys who prefer petite little ballerina types, and there are guys who go for every variation of body type in between.

 

While I would agree that big boobs get attention (I notice them too, and I'm a straight woman), it's not always about admiration. Sometimes it's just like, "Whoa, those are some big boobies!" same way you might notice someone with are big ass, or who's really tall, whatever.

 

No one type of beautiful, for boobs or any other body part, IMO.

[Tomcat33]

There are also risks involved with any type of surgery, I tend to say its better not to have anything done unless its needed, but I guess I understand if its something that could be considered a genetic defect and bothers her that much.

 

Still the idea of sucking on plastic isn't too appealing :/ anything over a C is too big and looks weird IMO but thats just my personal preference.

 

In a lot of cases that is what it boils down to, then there are those types of women that are obsessed with altering their already attractive figures to look fake and like some paper doll cut out, but to each their own is what I say...and no doubt guys prefer natural over fake but ugly never wins over attractive and that's the bottom line. If a woman is going to feel ugly she will act it too.

 

Tomcat, you wouldn't happen to be a plastic surgeon, are you? Sounds like you're trying to drum up some business (as if that would be necessary).

 

Why can't people (and I mean you, tomcat) accept that not everyone feels the same way? There are guys who dig women who are very large EVERYWHERE, there are guys who prefer petite little ballerina types, and there are guys who go for every variation of body type in between.

 

I am not a plastic surgeon the idea of cutting someone open makes me want to faint actually....

 

What I am is open minded enough to be able to say "I respect and support a woman's choice to alter her body, or to take a risk for that matter, that will improve her life as she sees it and make a change for the better" you only live once and it's rare people die of breast implant surgery, you could die of any surgery really if you think about it, you could die of a surgery that is used to SAVE your life. The bottom line is when it's your time to go it's time and there ain't nothin' you can do to stop it, hard as you may try.

 

You can die from getting on a plane, you can die from riding the bus or taking a car, does that mean people won't visit Africa? or that they won't take a job because they have to commute every day? Doubt it! you can't live life in fear. When you do you are already dead.

 

I am not advocating everyone get breast implants, I am supporting those who choose to do so, BIG difference. I can accept people have free will to make choices for themselves and to improve their lives as they see fit, and we shouldn't have to label someone just because they do make that choice just as we should not label those who don't want to change their bodies.... question is can you accept that?

 

All I see is put downs about those who choose to have the operation and it wreaks of people's own isecurities. People shouldn't feel so threatened by other people's need to want to look good.

[Tomcat33]

 

No one type of beautiful, for boobs or any other body part, IMO.

 

 

Not true I have seen some really ugly looking weird breasts NO woman would wish for, no matter what your "ideal" of beauty is. Sometimes ugly is just plain old ugly, no matter how you slice it.

[StartingOver07]

I am not advocating everyone get breast implants, I am supporting those who choose to do so, BIG difference. I can accept people have free will to make choices for themselves and to improve their lives as they see fit, and we shouldn't have to label someone just because they do make that choice just as we should not label those who don't want to change their bodies.... question is can you accept that?

 

Beautifully said.

[Lizzie60]

Not true I have seen some really ugly looking weird breasts NO woman would wish for, no matter what your "ideal" of beauty is. Sometimes ugly is just plain old ugly, no matter how you slice it.

 

I totally agree...

[MakeItCount]

Especially when they bend over and you get to see those gross ripples under the skin from the plastic wrinkling. Ugh.

 

 

 

 

Breast implants look un-natural and weird.

 

Small Real Breasts > Fake Huge Breasts.

[Tomcat33]

Especially when they bend over and you get to see those gross ripples under the skin from the plastic wrinkling. Ugh.

 

Yes because natural boobs ALWAYS look great regardless of movement. :lmao:

 

It's a sack of fat, it's not going to look good all the time natural OR fake.

 

 

Again I see the most put downs coming from other women, says a lot about the subject doesn't it?

[whichwayisup]

Yes because natural boobs ALWAYS look great regardless of movement

 

True..

 

It's a sack of fat,

 

This made me LOL for real..Ofcourse, I thought the other sack...

 

Again I see the most put downs coming from other women, says a lot about the subject doesn't it?

 

I haven't read this whole thread yet, but I'm not surprised. Women compete with eachother, feel insecure with themselves and comparing body's, boobs, fashion style is just part of how it is out there..

 

I'm not a lesbian, but I can appreciate a woman's beauty, body and boobs. I think I notice more than my H, though he's pretty good at pegging out fake ones.

[Tomcat33]

This made me LOL for real..Ofcourse, I thought the other sack...

 

Hahaha both genders were "blessed" with sacks of fat, that just so happen to also mark each gender's sexuality specifically

 

I haven't read this whole thread yet, but I'm not surprised. Women compete with eachother, feel insecure with themselves and comparing body's, boobs, fashion style is just part of how it is out there..

 

This is very true! Earlier in the thread someone made reference to the fact that women feel compelled to get their boobs changed because of porn and because men want it this way, but I think it happens from within I believe women are the hardest criticts on themselves.

 

I'm not a lesbian, but I can appreciate a woman's beauty, body and boobs. I think I notice more than my H, though he's pretty good at pegging out fake ones.

 

I agree women do tend to check out a lot and be more critical and scope other women more than men do, for different reasons of course. I had a boyfriend that would complain that women checked me out more than they did him. Women compete in looks so they check each other out in that respect. I think the comments that came about in this thread illustrate that rather nicely, ironically enough.

 

Someone also said earlier that if it weren't for men and the pressure they put on women to look a certain way women would be more comfortable in their bodies (or something to that effect) I insist women are WAY harder on themselves than men are, it's not fair to blame men for our own insecurities. But again that IS my opinion so..

[OpenBook]

I dated a guy once, it went really well for the first few dates. But while we were driving somewhere, a little over a month into the R, the subject of plastic surgery came up. He looked over at me and said he would really like it if I got my boobs enlarged. (I'm already a DD cup, and am very happy with "The Twins.") That was the big red flag, the fatal act. I dumped him like a hot potato. D*ckhead.

 

I don't have any GF's who've had plastic surgery for the Twins (although some have had it for everything else!). And none of them have ever been unhappy with theirs. But if they were, I would support them 100%. It's all about how it makes HER feel. If she feels sexy, her H or SO will benefit!

[StartingOver07]

I haven't read this whole thread yet, but I'm not surprised. Women compete with each other, feel insecure with themselves and comparing body's, boobs, fashion style is just part of how it is out there..

 

 

Agreed.

 

I have a feeling that if the title of this thread had been "What to Expect When Wifey is Getting a Nose Job" that no one would have said that rhinoplasty can cause death or that you should love the nose you were born with, etc.

[jmargel]

My ex-fiancee was 5'8, 120 lbs, 36-38D. I have to say the amount of problems I had when I went out with her.. Especially going to a club or bar, guys would just act like 10 year olds. She wouldn't flaunt it either, she got so sick of the attention her chest was getting. She would wear baggy clothes quite a bit, but when she would go out, it's just hard not to look at them..

 

My wife wants implants, I told her no way. Only because when they are done as implants, the stereotype and the way guys think is because she wants attention (which is true, IMO). This gives the green light for more trouble, and it's not that i'm insecure about guys hitting on her, it just gets tiring because I already have that problem.

 

After the boobs, it's the nose, legs, stomache.. There is always something to 'tweak'. You'll never be happy.

 

My ex-fiancee ended up getting a boob reduction, not only because of the hassle she got from men, but it was putting a strain on her back. So take that into account as well when thinking about a pair.

[MakeItCount]

As much as you rag on those of us who dislike the thought of introducing foreign objects into our naughty parts, you sure are militant about your own preferences.

 

Every time anyone points out a valid concern regarding breast implants, you make a nasty and demeaning remark about the natural version. I happen to like my "sacks of fat". They have fed four babies, provided comfort and stimulation to the men who have been lucky enough to experience them, and have reaffirmed my femininity time and time again. They are imperfect, but they are real, and they're mine.

 

I don't have to worry about puncturing one and having it deflate. I don't have to be concerned about amassing amounts of scar tissue that harden my breasts into unrecognizable lumps. I don't have to fret about how I'll look as an old woman with gross unnatural giant plastic breasts. It isn't a self-esteem issue for me, it's simple aesthetics. I just think it's nasty to have a bag of saline or silicon sewn into my muscle and breast tissue.

 

Plus, I can always tell who has fake breasts. There's a very obvious tell-tale line above the implant that screams "THESE COST THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS! BUY ME DINNER SO I WON'T STARVE".

 

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Yes because natural boobs ALWAYS look great regardless of movement. :lmao:

 

It's a sack of fat, it's not going to look good all the time natural OR fake.

 

 

Again I see the most put downs coming from other women, says a lot about the subject doesn't it?

[Tomcat33]

As much as you rag on those of us who dislike the thought of introducing foreign objects into our naughty parts, you sure are militant about your own preferences.

 

Every time anyone points out a valid concern regarding breast implants, you make a nasty and demeaning remark about the natural version. I happen to like my "sacks of fat". They have fed four babies, provided comfort and stimulation to the men who have been lucky enough to experience them, and have reaffirmed my femininity time and time again. They are imperfect, but they are real, and they're mine.

 

I don't have to worry about puncturing one and having it deflate. I don't have to be concerned about amassing amounts of scar tissue that harden my breasts into unrecognizable lumps. I don't have to fret about how I'll look as an old woman with gross unnatural giant plastic breasts. It isn't a self-esteem issue for me, it's simple aesthetics. I just think it's nasty to have a bag of saline or silicon sewn into my muscle and breast tissue.

 

Plus, I can always tell who has fake breasts. There's a very obvious tell-tale line above the implant that screams "THESE COST THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS! BUY ME DINNER SO I WON'T STARVE".

 

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What I don't understand is why some of you women feel so compelled to argue with me on how much you love your real breasts. I never once said you should not love your breasts. But since you are so busy trying to defend your real breasts from god knows what, you have totally missed the point I have been making all along and that is, real or not, flat of big, to have the op or not to have, a woman is entitled to do to her body as she sees fit REGARDLESS of how other people feel about it.

 

Having other women who are threatened by the idea that a woman wants to pay, big dollars yes sometimes big dollars a lot of women don't dream of even having to spare on something as "frivolous" as a significant cosmetic touch up, it is THEIR choice to spend their money and to do with their bodies as they see fit because at the end of the day I am sure they COULD CARE LESS what any other woman has to say about their breasts. Let's face it they won't end up in bed with women they will end up bedding men. So neither your put downs or jealousy fits are going to stop women from doing what they yearn to do. Of course you are free to shout out your dislikes it is a free country afterall a free country that allows women to alter their bodies as they see fit.

 

Some people think it's nasty to have a big bag of saline on a chest, fine.

I don't dispute that at all.

 

I personally think it is even nastier to concern yourself with how other women's bodies look given that you will never have to feel, touch or taste those fake sacks of saline, so why not live and let live? If you think about it rationally a saline filled skin sack pales in comparisson to the ugliness of jealousy and insecurity that is conveyed by those that feel threatened by something as innocuous as another woman's idea of what is a beautiful body. To me seeing that level of cattiness in women is as ugly as it gets. It's sad.

[whichwayisup]

Makes me wonder what Pammy Lee Anderson will look like when she's 80. Saggy body, bum, yet perky perk boobs.

 

Hahaha both genders were "blessed" with sacks of fat, that just so happen to also mark each gender's sexuality specifically

Could you imagine a male sack-enhancement??? :laugh:

 

This is very true! Earlier in the thread someone made reference to the fact that women feel compelled to get their boobs changed because of porn and because men want it this way, but I think it happens from within I believe women are the hardest criticts on themselves.

 

Yup, that and Hollywood. Magazines don't help with the airbrushing and fixing up the pictures perfectly using photoshop.

 

Just wish women would be happy with what they have and not feel they have to change their boobs to make themselves feel better, more secure.

 

I agree women do tend to check out a lot and be more critical and scope other women more than men do, for different reasons of course. I had a boyfriend that would complain that women checked me out more than they did him. Women compete in looks so they check each other out in that respect. I think the comments that came about in this thread illustrate that rather nicely, ironically enough.

 

Oh definately.

My husband always gets a kick out of watching women come and go out of restaurants. Many women will not hold a door open for another woman..I never paid attention to his theory, but recently I have seen that happen, unbelievable!

 

Someone also said earlier that if it weren't for men and the pressure they put on women to look a certain way women would be more comfortable in their bodies (or something to that effect) I insist women are WAY harder on themselves than men are, it's not fair to blame men for our own insecurities. But again that IS my opinion so..

 

Oh I agree there. But which is worse, a guy who doesn't give a crap how they look? Or having a woman who cares alot how she looks...Extremes aside..

[Tomcat33]

Makes me wonder what Pammy Lee Anderson will look like when she's 80. Saggy body, bum, yet perky perk boobs.

 

yeah that's another story altogether...:bunny:

 

 

 

Just wish women would be happy with what they have and not feel they have to change their boobs to make themselves feel better, more secure.

 

 

Yes and no, it's human nature to want to improve and better yourself. The same could be said to a person that is 30 lbs overweight why don't they love themselves as they are? the answer is simple people want to look good no matter how you slice it and no matter how much people try to be "nonsuperficial" physical beauty is something humans strive for and are attracted to.

 

 

Oh I agree there. But which is worse, a guy who doesn't give a crap how they look? Or having a woman who cares alot how she looks...Extremes aside..

 

I think those were two extreme examples,

 

men on some level do care how they look as women do too. Hence all the bitter comments and lashing out on this subject, women who lash out at this are unhappy on some level about themselves. The woman that is truly comfortable in her own skin does not feel threatened by this type of stuff. It's the same insecurities that make women crazy with rage because their men look at porn every once in a while. It boils down to their own feelings of inadequacy, not the fake boobs.

[crazy_grl]

DaddyO, to answer your original question of what to expect, the one for sure thing you can expect is that your wife is going to be in pain for at least a couple days. She probably won't be able to lift things for the first few days. I think I took 3-4 days to be able to lift a gallon of milk. I couldn't open a bottle of gatorade without help. She won't be able to lift her hands up over her head or possibly even above chest level for a week or two. The length of time it takes her to recover depends on whether she's having them put in under or over the muscle. If it's under, the recovery is much quicker. How much you'll need to do for her depends on your wife's personality. I'm the type of person who likes to do things for my self, so I did everything except what was completely impossible for me. I probably should have let my friends do more than I did, because I've heard recovery is faster the less you strain yourself. I only took off 2 days of work and then went back after the weekend.

 

Most importantly, her boobs will look weird at first. They also won't be soft right away. Unless your wife is the kind of person who likes blunt truth and would have a sense of humor about this, don't tell her they look weird. And don't make any critical comments right away. Wait until they've settled to judge. Until then, if she asks, you can tell her that you think they'll look great once they settle (and they probably will). If she had them under the muscle, it'll take a few months. If she does over, I think it's only a matter of weeks.

 

I agree with the general consensus that if your relationship is strong, you'll be ok and will be able to enjoy your wife's newest assests. If your relationship isn't strong, you could see your wife getting flirtier with other guys, which could make you insecure and drive you two apart.

 

Since she's a doctor, I'd assume she's going to a skilled surgeon with a good reputation. If so, there's less chance of one of those horror stories happening. Most of those come from people trying to save a buck and going to some surgeon they saw on a billboard or heard is having a sale on the radio.

 

You said your wife doesn't like the shape of her boobs? Is she getting any other reconstructive surgery on them besides the implants? Because implants alone don't change the shape of them. You pretty much just get a bigger version of what's already there.

 

It is an insecurity and unless she addresses that, there is no guarantee larger boobs will keep her from feeling imperfect. I think that was all Owoman was saying by suggesting your wife see a therapist.

 

That's true, but it's also possible to want to exercise a lot because you want to be fit, and it's possible that a person can have one cosmetic surgery and not go the route of never being happy with their body. Not all people who want to have a cosmetic surgery are going to have endless surgeries looking for happiness in those that they'll never find. Some will, and those people have body issues and should have therapy. I personally now think my body is pretty dang close to perfect... At least, there's nothing I have any urge to change.

 

Why should someone spend thousands on therapy trying to convince themselves that they think small boobs are attractive when they can spend that money on having the ones that they actually DO think are attractive? Some women (like some men) think small boobs are attractive. Some like medium sized. Some like big bazzangas. Someone who thinks big boobs are attractive is no more right than someone who things small ones are, and vice versa.

 

Unfortunately, some people aren't born with what they think is most attractive.

 

OP - expect your wife to become more flirty, out going.

 

That may or may not happen. I'm certainly not any more flirty or attention seeking than before. But it probably is a good idea to prepare for that possibility so that you don't let any insecurities you may have bring out irrational jealousy. (Not to be confused with the rational kind.)

 

yes they look nice, but feel like crap. visually stimulating, but not so much by the sense of touch.

 

Mine feel pretty nice. I haven't taken any surveys, but I personally like playing with them more than I did my small ones.

 

no she works out fervently BECAUSE she has body issues. you think models dont have body issues too?

i can say the same thing.. but it sounds really ridiculous in this instant- "So because she is an anorexic, she has body image issues?"

 

Working out is healthy when done correctly. Anorexia is not, ever.

 

I'd say if someone wants to slice into their perfectly healthy body to insert saline or silicone discs to inflate the appearance of their breasts has some body issues. Another woman with the exact same body and breasts would never consider it.

 

People have different perspectives on what's attractive.

 

You only that that beautiful breasts aren't common because there has become a fake porno standard. If we didn't have the media telling us what a women should look like, and apparently what women should look like is having two basketballs stapled to her chest, then real breasts would be sexy. But we do live in a world that tells us real breasts aren't beautiful, and the masses buy into it. *shrug* We are slaves to the industry in that respect.

 

Getting a C cup is not having basketballs on your chest. And even if some woman wants "basketballs", if she's happy with them, why bitterly criticize her? I don't personally think that size looks good, but if she likes them, it's great for her. If she finds a man who loves them as much as she does, great for her.

 

I have a small chest and I feel beautiful and very feminine with my small boobs.

 

That's awesome! I think if I didn't have the wider hips that I do, I would have been happy with mine too. I just felt very unbalanced with curvy hips and really small boobs.

 

I will never sag.

 

I really think this is a myth. I've seen lots of "before and after" photos. There were lots of sagging A cups. I'm sure there is less sagging than larger ones though.

 

And women are made to feel attacked for the way their breasts look, like they aren't good enough because they don't have two basketballs sitting on their chest.

 

I've felt much more attacked for wanting to have larger breasts than for having small ones. And I've had many more men tell me they wouldn't date someone with implants than tell me they like big boobs. In fact, I've never had a guy tell me he likes big boobs. I've had plenty tell me they don't like implants. I got them anyway. I didn't do it for men, I did it so that I look the way I think is most attractive.

 

So it is a more sensitive issue at the heart of it. It's like women are attacked for beign women and that a way a woman is made, isn't good enough. It sends a very clear message. And we wonder why wome nare insecure? Maybe if women AND men respected a woman's body for what it was, men would get more confident sexual women that didn't need to maker herself into something plastic.

 

I don't want to sound confrontational, but the tone of your message and the way that you insult and attack women who want to have breast implants makes me wonder whether you're as happy with the way you look as you claim. If you're so happy, why do you appear so threatened and upset by what someone else does to their own body?

 

It isn't a self-esteem issue for me, it's simple aesthetics.

 

You and I have this in common.

 

My husband always gets a kick out of watching women come and go out of restaurants. Many women will not hold a door open for another woman..I never paid attention to his theory, but recently I have seen that happen, unbelievable!

 

That's ridiculous. But I've heard from guys that some women don't hold the door open for anyone, female or male. I hold the door for everyone... unless I don't see them. (One guy got all pissy at me when I didn't hold the door because I was talking to my friend and didn't notice he was behind me. )

[annieo]

Ultimately, it's your body and what you do with it is your business. I do not judge women because they've had implants/surgery, in fact I mentioned that I had though about it myself (and may think about it in the future). In fact, I have friends with implants (one of whose husband's refers to them as her "bolt ons". How romantic!)

However, I do think that women who alter their bodies to fit some current trend in ideal female physiques are not just doing it for themselves. Their self-esteem is obviously linked to fitting in, fitting the stereotype and on a certain level, pleasing others, generally men. That would have been one of my reasons, I am not proud to say.

And trends change. Think of all those women who got puffer-fishy lips in the 90's - looks kind of weird now. A longer while back, we were getting our lower ribs removed, and wearing giant bustles on our skirts for that big ass hourglass shape. Massive boobs on little girl skinny bottom halves is simply a newer trend, and has very little with what most women look like naturally, or about beauty. It's a fetish.

[norajane]

Makes me wonder what Pammy Lee Anderson will look like when she's 80. Saggy body, bum, yet perky perk boobs.

 

Implants have a shelf life...meaning, they have to be replaced every decade or two, depending. Pam has already had hers put in, replaced with bigger, replaced with smaller, several times.

 

By the time she's 80, she will have long moved to butt implants, tummy tucks and skin tucks, facelifts, etc. She will probably have a lot weirder stuff going on with her body than just perky boobs at 80.

[Star Gazer]

Wow. NO ONE wants to see my boobs??

[Arch]

Wow. NO ONE wants to see my boobs??

 

I do, wheres the button to press?

[Tomcat33]

Ultimately, it's your body and what you do with it is your business. I do not judge women because they've had implants/surgery, in fact I mentioned that I had though about it myself (and may think about it in the future). In fact, I have friends with implants (one of whose husband's refers to them as her "bolt ons". How romantic!)

However, I do think that women who alter their bodies to fit some current trend in ideal female physiques are not just doing it for themselves. Their self-esteem is obviously linked to fitting in, fitting the stereotype and on a certain level, pleasing others, generally men. That would have been one of my reasons, I am not proud to say.

And trends change. Think of all those women who got puffer-fishy lips in the 90's - looks kind of weird now. A longer while back, we were getting our lower ribs removed, and wearing giant bustles on our skirts for that big ass hourglass shape. Massive boobs on little girl skinny bottom halves is simply a newer trend, and has very little with what most women look like naturally, or about beauty. It's a fetish.

 

Hope you don't mind me asking but if you feel so strongly about it why would you even contemplate giving the op some thought down the line?

(And by the way forget the booobies butts is where it's at, get a bum implant instead LOL then you'll be way ahead of the fad when it hits full on)

 

Yes of course it has to do with self image, all altering changes we make to ourselves that veer away from what we were born with, that includes plucking stray hairs in the face, shaving legs and dying hair is done because of self image. But is wanting to improve our body image really a bad thing?

 

Why is it that people have such a problem with puting a foreign object into the chest but no one complains about the idea that in the golden age when the teeth start to go you will be sitting in your bed at night with a plate of piano keys sitting in a glass next to a tube of Pollydent? And I know some will argue, yes but you need your teeth to eat, well not if you are only missing one or two you still have the rest of your mouth filled with teeth. Exactly how much do you use that front tooth anyway other than to gleam that gorgeous smile at that special someone giving you the eye...?

 

Or why don't we go to work with uncombed hair? If we sleep on our hair for 7 hours it is natural that it will get messy and unrully, so why even tamper to make that look "unnatural"? It's how it looked when we were born so why do we bother? Or what about the person that loses an eye in an accident why replace that with a glass eye, you will never see through that eye again so why bother?

 

Vanity is ok, it's human nature, but like everything pathology is only a stone throw away if you don't have a level head.

 

When it comes to boobies, I think it has less to do with putting foreign objects in our bodies and more to do with putting a foreign object that accentuates our sexuality and firtility. That is where the "threat" seems to come into play.

[Pyro]

Wow. NO ONE wants to see my boobs??

 

I never knew you asked........where do I go?

[MakeItCount]

When it comes to boobies, I think it has less to do with putting foreign objects in our bodies and more to do with putting a foreign object that accentuates our sexuality and firtility. That is where the "threat" seems to come into play.

 

So now breast implants accentuate fertility? LOL. That's a new one. Ever seen a new mom with fake tits breastfeeding her child? Neither have I. Go figure, she probably wouldn't want to ruin those expensive things with such a menial chore as feeding a baby, lol.

 

In case you failed to pick up on it, I have had four children. Accentuating my fertility is the LAST thing I want to do. There's nothing threatening to me about someone choosing to increase their breast size. I would feel a great deal more threatened by someone who had spent all that time, money and effort on a college education (lacking a completed degree myself).

 

I have breasts. I am not threatened by anyone else's. I just think it's a little gross and more than a little silly to have fake ones put in when in most cases, the real ones were perfectly fine.

[Tomcat33]

So now breast implants accentuate fertility? LOL. That's a new one. Ever seen a new mom with fake tits breastfeeding her child? Neither have I. Go figure, she probably wouldn't want to ruin those expensive things with such a menial chore as feeding a baby, lol.

 

In case you failed to pick up on it, I have had four children. Accentuating my fertility is the LAST thing I want to do. There's nothing threatening to me about someone choosing to increase their breast size. I would feel a great deal more threatened by someone who had spent all that time, money and effort on a college education (lacking a completed degree myself).

 

I have breasts. I am not threatened by anyone else's. I just think it's a little gross and more than a little silly to have fake ones put in when in most cases, the real ones were perfectly fine.

 

 

Yes big breast do accentuate fertility nothing new about that, so do curvy hips. It happens on a subconscious/instinctual level. And a lot of the time you can't even tell if boobs are fake or not under clothes.

 

In case "I failed to pick up on it" I don't know you from a hole in the gound so no I wouldn't pick up anything other than your comments here which come off like you are threatened by fake breasts :laugh:

 

So now breast implants = no education, bahhh this gets sillier and sillier by the minute. :laugh:

 

Look good for you I think that's terrific, don't get your boobs done no one asked you to. The man who posted this thread asked about his W getting her boobs done so back on topic, I'm all for it if it makes HER happy, in case YOU failed to notice we are not talking about your boobs.

 

In fact I honestly don't think the woman in question really cares what any woman thinks of having fake breasts...to be quite blunt, as long as her hubby supports her on her decision I would think that's all that matters. So I'm not sure who you are trying to advocate to?

 

Don't be so threatened by it, they're only boobs.

Edited February 14, 2008 by Tomcat33