Never_Sure Posted February 4, 2008 Share Posted February 4, 2008 Haha, okay, before I get lynched, this is a purely hypothetical question. I was reading another post regarding asking guys out, and it made me wonder how men feel about being approached for sex. I've never done this, nor can I imagine that I ever would. However, I have been approached by men before, all of whom I rejected. Though, I must say, there are things a man could do/say to me that might incline me to say yes to such a proposition. I guess I just want to know how guys feel about women approaching them for sex, and what a woman could do that would make you say "yes"? I mean, what is the one thing a woman could do that you wouldn't have the ability to say "no" to? Link to post Share on other sites
Politico Posted February 4, 2008 Share Posted February 4, 2008 I mean, what is the one thing a woman could do that you wouldn't have the ability to say "no" to? If I was single I think I would be somewhat taken aback by a woman approaching me for sex unless she was one I'd known for awhile and become friends with. Since I'm married, there's not anything any woman other than my wife could do that would rob me of the power to say "no." Link to post Share on other sites
Author Never_Sure Posted February 4, 2008 Author Share Posted February 4, 2008 If I was single I think I would be somewhat taken aback by a woman approaching me for sex unless she was one I'd known for awhile and become friends with. Since I'm married, there's not anything any woman other than my wife could do that would rob me of the power to say "no." LOL, well that is a very upstanding answer! Seriously though, I'm glad to know that there are decent men in the world! I was beginning to doubt their existance. Okay, now just for fun: if you were single, and say you knew the girl well (i.e. you two were friends), what is something she could do that you couldn't refuse her? Link to post Share on other sites
SeraBella Posted February 4, 2008 Share Posted February 4, 2008 I dunno, I don't think there are too many guys that would need a lot of persuasion in this situation. There are, of course, exceptions to every rule, as indicated by Politico. But, in general, if a girl was offering a single man a no strings attached kinda thing, more men would accept than decline (provided there is some level of attraction). Link to post Share on other sites
Politico Posted February 4, 2008 Share Posted February 4, 2008 Okay, now just for fun: if you were single, and say you knew the girl well (i.e. you two were friends), what is something she could do that you couldn't refuse her? Maybe do it in such a way that I'm really led to believe it's my idea instead of hers? Link to post Share on other sites
underpants Posted February 4, 2008 Share Posted February 4, 2008 I have approached men. It can be kind of fun. I don't do it to go have sex with them but I have gone on a few dates like this. You have to be bold and not take it too seriously. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted February 4, 2008 Share Posted February 4, 2008 Though, I must say, there are things a man could do/say to me that might incline me to say yes to such a proposition. Just for the record, what might a few of those things be that would give you a positive inclination? Link to post Share on other sites
Enema Posted February 4, 2008 Share Posted February 4, 2008 "I'll let you put it anywhere." *Note: Woman has to be at least a 7/10 for a guaranteed yes. Link to post Share on other sites
Chrome Barracuda Posted February 4, 2008 Share Posted February 4, 2008 Haha, okay, before I get lynched, this is a purely hypothetical question. I was reading another post regarding asking guys out, and it made me wonder how men feel about being approached for sex. I've never done this, nor can I imagine that I ever would. However, I have been approached by men before, all of whom I rejected. Though, I must say, there are things a man could do/say to me that might incline me to say yes to such a proposition. I guess I just want to know how guys feel about women approaching them for sex, and what a woman could do that would make you say "yes"? I mean, what is the one thing a woman could do that you wouldn't have the ability to say "no" to? Hmm how does a woman approach a man for sex? It's not that hard I envision a woman smiling at me, getting me to open up, letting my guard down.She makes small talk, blaze' blaz'e. And we're clicking she's cautious but throwing it out there that she's feeling me not in words but body language. Smiling, hair flipping, eye contact, giggling. Now check it, it's a two step stage. You invite the guy out, just ask if he wants to hang out when he's free. Doing whatever a movie or something, lunch. If he says yes, that's done. next step is the sex thing. After it's all said and done. Then she should ask him. If you wanna hang out at my crib and talk , shoot the breeze, whatever?!?! If he says yes! it's good as gold! I've have not known any of my guy friends me included to turn down sex from any woman if willingly offered. Heck even me. It aint hard getting a man to accept sex, women have to be cool about it. Be easy and let it happen. Dont be pushy. Dont be too aggressive. Just be loose , flirtly and willing. And when you get there make sure he has condoms, make sure he's clean and well put together. It aint hard. Now answer my question how do me as a man get a woman to have sex on the first date? lol. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Never_Sure Posted February 4, 2008 Author Share Posted February 4, 2008 (edited) Just be loose , flirtly and willing. Hahahaha, wow...you don't say? Well, to answer both your and Tony T's question: I think a guy who is decent looking, and just totally enraptured with me (i.e. staring at me, flirting with me, etc) could get away with an offer for sex by getting me alone, and making a move. Haha, now I don't mean rape. If a girl says "No" respect that. However, if I'm responding well (flirting back), and he follows me to a private location and is the aggressor (i.e. kisses me, what have you) I would probably respond well. I have to say, for me: words are cheap. If you like a girl, or want to just have sex with her, don't say, "Man, I'd like to hit that!" Or some goof-ball retarded remark analogist to that (which, I have had happen to me). Just flirt and make the move. If I don't want to kiss you back, I would pull away. However, I have to say: if a man were bold enough to do something like that to me, I would probably not say no. Though, I've never had something like that actually happen, so I can't say for sure. I can say that the "pick-up" lines wouldn't work with me. They just seem immature and crude. Just go for it. Make the girl feel wanted and make a move when she responds well. Course, you do have to worry about things like rape. So, again, if she seems unwilling and says "No." I don't suggest you continue. Edited February 4, 2008 by Never_Sure Link to post Share on other sites
blackbird Posted February 4, 2008 Share Posted February 4, 2008 Have a vagina? Kidding... mostly. There's an experiment I read about where two psychologists (a married couple) went to a bar, separately. The woman sat at the bar for a while, then called out to the entire bar, "I will have sex with the first man to buy me a drink." Instantly, vhoosh! She's surrounded by guys trying to buy her drinks. The man did the same thing (but substitute "woman" for "man" in what he called out) and got nothing but "what a creep" glares. Assuming you're not a total ogre, it's just not hard for a woman to get sex from guys... sex from a SPECIFIC guy though will depend totally on the guy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Never_Sure Posted February 4, 2008 Author Share Posted February 4, 2008 "I'll let you put it anywhere." *Note: Woman has to be at least a 7/10 for a guaranteed yes. BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!:lmao::lmao: Now that's funny! Link to post Share on other sites
LoveLace Posted February 4, 2008 Share Posted February 4, 2008 If the guy thinks the chick is decent-looking, and the approach is done right, chances are he won't have a problem with it at all. If she just walks up to a stranger and says "Will you have sex with me tonight?"..that might be a little too forward, but depending on the guy he might still say hell yea! The thing is a guy instantly doesn't have respect for her. Men dont' have a problem with it, just no respect, most likely. Link to post Share on other sites
Politico Posted February 4, 2008 Share Posted February 4, 2008 Men dont' have a problem with it, just no respect, most likely. ...that's a problem! Link to post Share on other sites
LoveLace Posted February 4, 2008 Share Posted February 4, 2008 ...that's a problem! Exactly, that's why if a woman is going to approach a guy like that, sex had better be all she really wants...not saying women are incapable of this, there's just always a chance she'll end up wanting more. Link to post Share on other sites
mental_traveller Posted February 9, 2008 Share Posted February 9, 2008 MT's guide for women on getting sex from guys: 1) approach target, check for wedding ring. If none, start by making small talk - asking for help of some sort is good (e.g. directions, or advice on purchases if you are in a store), as is asking something about him 2) flirt and use body language whilst making small talk. Then suggest going somewhere for a drink - alcoholic if you don't mind appearing a bit racy, or a coffee if you are more conservative (but then why are you trying to seduce guys for sex if you are conservative?) 3) arrive at drinking establishment/coffee bar. Flirt aggressively and wait for a response. If he doesn't make a move, just give him an obvious hint like putting your hand on his thigh or crotch, or leaning over and kissing him. All depends on how bold you wanna be. 4) if he responds at all, then suggest going back to either your place or his. Once you are there, just take off your clothes and start grinding on him, he'll get the message! If he doesn't wanna have sex then he is either gay, impotent, or involved with another woman and having 2nd thoughts. There are lots of much more convoluted or time-wasting approaches, but they have the same result just less effective. Really, it's pretty easy for women to get sex if they want to. You girls have it easy! Link to post Share on other sites
mental_traveller Posted February 9, 2008 Share Posted February 9, 2008 If the guy thinks the chick is decent-looking, and the approach is done right, chances are he won't have a problem with it at all. If she just walks up to a stranger and says "Will you have sex with me tonight?"..that might be a little too forward, but depending on the guy he might still say hell yea! The thing is a guy instantly doesn't have respect for her. Men dont' have a problem with it, just no respect, most likely. That's not true. My respect for a woman wouldn't change just because she made a direct approach to me. In fact I'd probably have more respect for her, for demonstrating self-assurance and not giving two hoots about convention. It's not that common for guys to be approached by women, but it does happen. I've been approached a few times over the years, and in no case did I look down on the woman for doing it. Link to post Share on other sites
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