ryry7 Posted February 4, 2008 Share Posted February 4, 2008 God, I know all of you must be drained about this facebook myspace garbage... So here is another story. lol. I personally am deleting mine and telling my girlfriend to delete it too. I met a girl about 7 months ago on myspace and decided to pursue a relationship with her. We fell in love, in the midst of it all.... I had to move to Germany. We decided to try a LDR and it has for the most part been ok. My girlfriend is an attractive 33 yr old woman, divorced twice. The first marriage was just because she was young, and the second because the dude was a total waste of life. Cheated on her numerous times. Me, Im 30 been married twice, no kids. First because I was young and dumb, and the second ended because she and I werent on the same sheet. Basically, I wanted more from her , (affection, sex..etc.). My GF has a few guy friends from all over the world and the dudes she works with. Her past is made up of being single for the last 5 years after her divorce with the waste of life dude. They have a kid together, and she even gets along great with the new wife. This chick is one of the ones he was cheating on while he was married to my gf. Recently, some guy just randomly popped back into her life. In fact, when she first moved to where I met her.. He was there on business and helped her move in. Her Mother and Sister were there, but some how they found a way to get away from them and had sex. They had sex before in the past, but I guess since he lives in Florida and she lives in Texas... He ended up wanting kids and a marriage and all that.. She didnt. Well, I guess they ended it long before this last meeting. This was before I met her by the way. Well, they started talking on the phone a few months ago and I just thought something was wrong. So I hacked her Myspace, it turns out he basically broke it off with her. This message was recent, within the last month regarding him recieving a text at Christmas from her. It said he was glad she sent him a message and he said I want my friend back, also said you outta come out to Florida sometime. She knows about his girlfriend, and says they realized they were better friends than lovers. Maybe she was just wishing him a Merry Christmas, or whatever.. But, we had already been dating for 6 months in Dec. Why would she initiate this? He has found a girl he is ready to settle down with as far as I know. He does come to where we she lives every now and then maybe 1-2 a year on business. I really freaked out when I found this out. I mean, I emailed him and asked WTF, and I know I went into to psycho mode. Why is this such a big deal? She uses the term friend a lot. I asked her if she had ever slept with some of these friends.. She said yes. But she assures me she loves me , she tells her friends, this guy is the greatest and its long overdue. Why am I such a loser? Link to post Share on other sites
Author ryry7 Posted February 5, 2008 Author Share Posted February 5, 2008 Bump. My first post.. no one helps? Link to post Share on other sites
wizer Posted February 5, 2008 Share Posted February 5, 2008 You had no business emailing the guy. You were out of line. Link to post Share on other sites
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