samsungxoxo Posted February 4, 2008 Posted February 4, 2008 Ok I don't know but at times I feel like I say ''YES'' to almost everything in my relationship with b/f. I realize that in my relationship I was the one apologizing the most, it's like I felt I had to.
Author samsungxoxo Posted February 4, 2008 Author Posted February 4, 2008 I don't know why I can't say no sometimes and I tend to pretend to agree with everything he says.
TigerCub Posted February 5, 2008 Posted February 5, 2008 I don't know why I can't say no sometimes and I tend to pretend to agree with everything he says. What are you so afraid of? I mean what's the worst you think would happen if you disagreed with him and didn't let him have his way all the time - provided that you had a good logical reason for it?
Rooster_DAR Posted February 5, 2008 Posted February 5, 2008 From a guys point of view, be careful about saying yes to things you feel different about. If you find yourself agreeing all the time you may be losing some dignity. I prefer a woman who stands her ground when she knows (or thinks she is until proven wrong) she's right. Of course, if the choices your given make you happy and you agree with them, then yes away. Cheers!
Blue Eyed Brain Posted February 5, 2008 Posted February 5, 2008 Only say "yes" to the things that matter to you. If you don't like boxing, then say that "you don't know enough about it to form an opinion." If no, is not a word in your vocabulary. The best relationships are the ones based on the truth.
Kamille Posted February 5, 2008 Posted February 5, 2008 Ok I don't know but at times I feel like I say ''YES'' to almost everything in my relationship with b/f. I realize that in my relationship I was the one apologizing the most, it's like I felt I had to. How long have you been together? Not that it really matters. I don't understand why you say yes to everything. Why do you?
Pyro Posted February 5, 2008 Posted February 5, 2008 I don't know why I can't say no sometimes and I tend to pretend to agree with everything he says. Don't do that. I can tell you right now that if I were with a woman that did that, I would lose respect for her and eventually not want to be with her. I like a woman who will challenge me intellectually and who has her own POV.
Author samsungxoxo Posted February 28, 2008 Author Posted February 28, 2008 How long have you been together? Not that it really matters. I don't understand why you say yes to everything. Why do you? We been together for 1 1/2 year now. I guess it's because I love him dearly and b/c I'm too nice, don't like being mean.
Ashbash11 Posted February 28, 2008 Posted February 28, 2008 IMO, saying "yes" to everything and agreeing with everything is not genuine. Every one has different ideas and opinions and you should feel comfortable enough to express them to your boyfriend. I am saying this from experience, because this was one of the reasons that my ex and I broke up. I was always too nice and I agreed with everything. He had no respect for me as a result and he said that a girl with no opinion is boring. Just some food for thought.
iSmiley Posted February 28, 2008 Posted February 28, 2008 hmmm...you should be yourself and do and speak what you want. it's ok to agree to something like going to see hockey while you don't like it but it is his passion and such..but not to an extend to agree every single thing. He might thinks you don't have a thinking of your own...and i THINk thats not a good thing..no? o.O Good Luck!
dominic Posted February 28, 2008 Posted February 28, 2008 I actually broke up with an gf that said yes to almost everything. It lasted around 3 yrs, then I just couldn't stand it. I want a "true" woman next to me, able to challenge my point of views when it's needed and able to speak for herself. I want to be sure that, when I'm not around, she'll make the right decisions regarding children/house/finances/etc. It may sound weird, but I'm actually turned on when my wife outsmarts me. Long story short: just be yourself, that's what will ultimately define the success of your relationship.
EYECANDY000 Posted February 28, 2008 Posted February 28, 2008 If I was a guy I would love a "yes" girl! Only if she is someone who I see on a must see basis, I guess only if it is a FWB relationship. But to actually be with someone who always agree with everything you say, gets boring and tedious . Every person wants someone who has their own thoughts, idea, and suggestions. . If not you might as well be dating yourself. Dont be that "yes" girl . Only agree to the things that you believe in 100%. Every person wants to be with someone who can challenge them in many ways so to speak. If you agree with everything your b/f says then there is no challenge. If your bf was a "yes" man how would you like it? Would you think that he is spineless and basically walk all over him?
mark982 Posted February 29, 2008 Posted February 29, 2008 i enjoy a woman, who has her own mind,don't you have any intrests of your own? something about a woman w/ a backbone!
Author samsungxoxo Posted March 8, 2008 Author Posted March 8, 2008 If your bf was a "yes" man how would you like it? Would you think that he is spineless and basically walk all over him? Good point, well I guess it would be a bit like doing the same household chores and no changes. There's one thing he can never change, that's me being atheist while he's a catholic (the only one time I had argue about) and I made my point clear on that. But yes I can't be syaing yes to the other stuff, hope I didn't bore him with it.
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