I am have no idea

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I met this girl at the beginning of January. I have dated a lot of girls, but I have never met anyone quite like this girl. She and I have a myriad of things in common. Too many to list here. We met on a Monday night, and she asked me for my phone number. I gave it to her and she called me that Friday night. We went out to get a bite to eat and converse. We had a great time together and we had a lot of laughs. We left and I gave her a hug when we said goodbye. We planned on going skating the next Wednesday, but she called me about 2 hours before we were going to go and said that her roommates were vehemently trying to get her to go to a movie on campus that night. She asked if I wanted to go with her. I said of course I did. We ate at the pizza place on campus before we went to the movie. Again we had a great time and a lot of laughs. We then moved on to the movie and I met a couple of her friends. This is where it gets complicated. During the movie I put my arm around her. She looked around and then at me. She saw it was me, and then she leaned forward. I then removed my arm and told her that I didn't mean to make her uncomfortable. She said that she would tell me why after the movie. So, after the movie, I walked her back to her place and let her know that I did not mean to make her uncomfortable. She told me that "Please don't take this the wrong way. I really don't want to hurt your feelings, because you are a great guy and I enjoy being with you, but my fiancee just left me and I'm not ready for a relationship." I told her she didn't have to be sorry and that she would not be hurting my feelings. She sent me a text later that night saying "Thanks for coming tonight." I then texted her back "No problem, it was a lot of fun. I'll call you sometime early next week, and maybe we can hang out or something." She then sent one last text saying "Sounds good, talk to ya soon." I then called her on the next Monday as she had told me about a basketball game on campus and asked if I had wanted to go. She said that her parents were coming into town that night and that she would have to cancel our plans. I didn't think anything of it and I was just gonna cut my losses there as I thought she was just trying to politely tell me to buzz off. However, she calls me this past Thursday and we talked for about 15 minutes. She asked if I had plans for Saturday night. I told her I was going to watch the UFC fight at a restaurant that night. She said she loved the UFC. So, I asked her if she wanted to go with. She said that she would love to, but she might not be able to make it because she was getting sick. I told her no problem and that I would call her on Saturday to see how she felt. So, Saturday comes, and I text her telling her where and when I was gonna be leaving, and if she was still interested to let me know. She called me back immediately and said that she would still like to go, but she may need to leave early because she was not feeling too hot. She called me back a little later and told me that she was just too sick and tired to go anywhere that night. It was fine with me, as I went and had a great time.

 

Now, to those of you that have made it this far, what I need to know is a couple of things. 1. Do you think I am getting played by this girl? 2. I don't know if I can be just friends with this girl, as she is probably the greatest girl I have ever met. I feel like I might have to just not talk to her at all. Should I talk to her about this? I have been played by a couple of girls before and do not want it to happen again. I fear that I might have to take that risk to see if this might develop, because I really like this girl and I believe that she likes me too. When we have been together, she has given me all the body language to let me know she is interested. I just do not know what to do. I have learned a lot lately about dealing with women, but this situation just perplexes me.

 

Thank You in advance for any advice or ideas.