laurenr Posted June 25, 2003 Share Posted June 25, 2003 i was with this guy for two years and he ended our relationship in February and I kept holding on thinking he may come back. I did date someone for a few weeks but could not continue that one In May I stayed with my ex and this has been going on still, I just stayed with him last weekend. He said he was thinking about getting back together but was still thinking about it to make sure if the choice is right or not but he still has not brought up anything? I have still been with him and Im wondering if he'll bring up getting back together or what's going on with him? He doesn't call but when we go out with friend's he'll ask me to stay, so Im not sure what's going on with him. I need advice because I have been with him, Im wondering what the heck he's doing? has anyone been through something similar to this ? Lauren Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted June 25, 2003 Share Posted June 25, 2003 The guy is playing you like a violin, using you and abusing you. Why don't you take some power over your life and start doing what YOU want to do??? Surely, you don't want to be waiting around for some cheap ass guy to be deciding your fate and destiny whenever he it becomes convenient for him to do so. Wow, how romantic to have a guy you have to sit and wait while he decides if you are the lady he want to be with. DUH!!! Maybe I'm from another planet...but when I'm with a lady I care about, I don't have to think about it for weeks and months. Stop sitting around wondering what the heck he's doing. DO SOMETHING WITH YOUR OWN LIFE...like having a good time, being kind to yourself, doing worthwhile things with your life, and ultimately finding a guy who will have know doubt that you are the one for him...and you will have no doubts either. Good luck to you. It really pisses me off when I see nice women hanging around while losers jerk their chains!!! Link to post Share on other sites
EnigmaXOXO Posted June 25, 2003 Share Posted June 25, 2003 Sorry Lauren, I have never been through anything simular to this (I wouldn't permit it!)...nor would I ever think about doing anything like this to someone else. It's blaten, selfish, disrespectful and down-right mean! I sure hope you find the inner pride and self esteem to unwrap yourself from around this fools little finger. I'm with Tony. Although I feel a lot of sympathy for the way you're being treated, I just can't understand why you would be allowing it to happen?? Link to post Share on other sites
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