jimbo101 Posted February 5, 2008 Share Posted February 5, 2008 i can't stop loving this girl even though i've been rejected by her 2 years ago. At the beginning i confessed to her. So, she's trying to give me a chance and we tried to work it out. At last she rejected me. i thought she rejected me because she has no special feeling to me but i was wrong. Her friends told me that the reason she rejected me because i never take action to date her. She just wanted us to be friends but i tried to beg her to give me another chance (i know this is not the smartest thing to do) but she refused. At last she chose other guy instead of me. Her new boyfriend called me up and warned me to stop communicating with her. I'm very heartbroken and confused at that time. I made a decision to forget her. Two years have passed, I'm still missing her now. I really love her so much and i can't forget her. Two weeks ago i saw her in a shopping mall, she saw me too but we didn't talk. I pretended to ignore her though in my heart i really wish to talk to her and get her back. What should i do now? Link to post Share on other sites
LikesMeNot Posted February 5, 2008 Share Posted February 5, 2008 Do u respect her boyfriend? Does he respect you? If you're eally that desparate, then go ahead. If not STOP CHASING HER other girls will think you're a wimpy loser who can't get a girl. Being rjected twice is hard. you'll have to deal with it. The best way is to move on, but if u must, do it while u 2 r alone (if that's possible) Remember, you'll get into some sticky situations, and she won't like u after she already rejected u 2ice Link to post Share on other sites
Haohmaru Posted February 5, 2008 Share Posted February 5, 2008 I'm gonna hit you over the head! She says she won't go out with you because you won't take ACTION, then when you see her you DON'T talk?? You need to forget this girl and work on YOU. This is coming from a shy guy who got tired of being in exactly the situation you described. In getting over it, I have been exclusive with a hot chick, dated many others and have way more confidence. *smack smack* get it together, man! Link to post Share on other sites
Author jimbo101 Posted February 6, 2008 Author Share Posted February 6, 2008 When i think back,i guess the biggest mistake i've done is i begged her. This is the stupidest mistake i've ever done.Don't u guys think so?I was terribly broken hearted and can't think straight at that time.I regretted it but i can't do anything now.I've to accept the fact that we can no longer be together..not even friends.I bet she treated me as a pathetic and desperate enemy now rite...? It would be great to hear more of your suggestions/comments here.Thank you. Link to post Share on other sites
LikesMeNot Posted February 7, 2008 Share Posted February 7, 2008 You showed yourself up as a loser (did i say this before?) Anyways, you should really move on if she rejacted u twice (i said that before once) It's not healthy for u to meddle in her personal life if she's keeping u out of it begging???? please, it never works. Link to post Share on other sites
Author jimbo101 Posted February 8, 2008 Author Share Posted February 8, 2008 (edited) You showed yourself up as a loser (did i say this before?) Anyways, you should really move on if she rejacted u twice (i said that before once) It's not healthy for u to meddle in her personal life if she's keeping u out of it begging???? please, it never works. Yeah...u got good points..i'm aware that i'm a loser rite now..it's the worst thing i ever done in my life. Move on? I tried before but sometimes i'm stuck...i'll try harder to move on this time...harder..harder thanks for the advice.I appreciate it. Edited February 8, 2008 by jimbo101 Link to post Share on other sites
Replicant Posted February 8, 2008 Share Posted February 8, 2008 i can't stop loving this girl even though i've been rejected by her 2 years ago. Dude, rejected is the key word here. There is no sense in drawing such things out for years. Stop dwelling on some girl who's not worth the thought put into her. In the amount of time you are doing so, you could meet many other girls whom are better suited. Link to post Share on other sites
Author jimbo101 Posted February 8, 2008 Author Share Posted February 8, 2008 Dude, rejected is the key word here. There is no sense in drawing such things out for years. Stop dwelling on some girl who's not worth the thought put into her. In the amount of time you are doing so, you could meet many other girls whom are better suited. thanks for your advice pal...I just need more time to deal with it.In fact, i feel much better year after year..Meet other girls?Maybe after i forget her.It's for the best i think.. Link to post Share on other sites
vesper16 Posted February 8, 2008 Share Posted February 8, 2008 I'm gonna hit you over the head! She says she won't go out with you because you won't take ACTION, then when you see her you DON'T talk?? You need to forget this girl and work on YOU. This is coming from a shy guy who got tired of being in exactly the situation you described. In getting over it, I have been exclusive with a hot chick, dated many others and have way more confidence. *smack smack* get it together, man! This guy talks sense. First post, but I've been lurking on these forums for a little while. It's funny how guys can have these feelings of unrequited love that go on for many years...maybe it's because we tend to use our fantasies as substitutes for being in an actual relationship, which is way harder and involves far more committment...hehe. Anyway I am fairly shy myself...I have had one instance of having a fairly major crush on a girl who wasn't interested, and once is enough! I think keeping yourself occupied is your best bet for dealing with these sorts of things. With my crush, I found I thought about her a lot less when I went out with my other friends and had a good time (you don't even have to be dating someone else, though that's obviously the best way). Link to post Share on other sites
Author jimbo101 Posted February 8, 2008 Author Share Posted February 8, 2008 This guy talks sense. First post, but I've been lurking on these forums for a little while. It's funny how guys can have these feelings of unrequited love that go on for many years...maybe it's because we tend to use our fantasies as substitutes for being in an actual relationship, which is way harder and involves far more committment...hehe. Anyway I am fairly shy myself...I have had one instance of having a fairly major crush on a girl who wasn't interested, and once is enough! I think keeping yourself occupied is your best bet for dealing with these sorts of things. With my crush, I found I thought about her a lot less when I went out with my other friends and had a good time (you don't even have to be dating someone else, though that's obviously the best way). Thanks..but i think hanging out with friends is a better solution than dating someone. I think it's not wise to date someone while we are still affected by past relationship...It's just unfair for them.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author jimbo101 Posted February 8, 2008 Author Share Posted February 8, 2008 Forget It-Breaking Benjamin it's a crime you let it happen to me never mind I let it happen to you I don't mind forget it there's nothing to lose but my mind and all the things I wanted everytime I get it throw it away it's a sign I get it I wanna stay by the time I lose it I'm not afraid I'm alive but I can surely fake it how can I believe when this cloud hangs over me you're the part of me that I don't wanna see forget it (x14) there's a place I see you following me just a taste of all that might come to be I'm alone but holding breath you can breathe to question every answer counted just fade away please let me stay caught in your way forget it, forget it just fade away please let me stay caught in your way forget it it's a crime you let it happen to me I don't mind I love it easy to please never mind forget it just memory on a page inside a spiral notebook just fade away please let me stay caught in your way I can live forever here Just fade away please let me stay caught in your way I can live forever here how can I believe when this cloud hangs over me you're the part of me that I don't wanna see forget it, forget it I can live forever here I'm listening to this song over and over again tonight...sooth my pain.. Link to post Share on other sites
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