prisonbreak Posted February 5, 2008 Share Posted February 5, 2008 Is it true, girls forgive easier than men do when it comes to cheating? Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted February 5, 2008 Share Posted February 5, 2008 Yes without a doubt... women forgive much easier than men.. always been probably always will be... it's in our nature.. Link to post Share on other sites
quankanne Posted February 5, 2008 Share Posted February 5, 2008 I'd say women, hands down ... but I've recently seen someone close to me take his wife back even though she indulged in a number of affairs, so I guess it just really depends on the person. Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted February 5, 2008 Share Posted February 5, 2008 I'd say women, hands down ... but I've recently seen someone close to me take his wife back even though she indulged in a number of affairs, so I guess it just really depends on the person. Um... I can see different reasons for forgiveness... to take your partner back after he/she's been cheating might not be forgiveness but only fear to face life on their own... or plainly being too emotionally dependant (doormat)... I see a huge difference... Link to post Share on other sites
quankanne Posted February 5, 2008 Share Posted February 5, 2008 true, but in this case, I think he genuinely loves her ... after all, this IS the mother of his kids, and they've been together too long just to chuck it aside. of course, good old Catholic conditioning might also be a factor here! Link to post Share on other sites
twice_shy Posted February 5, 2008 Share Posted February 5, 2008 Is it true, girls forgive easier than men do when it comes to cheating? I'd say women forgive cheating easier than men. We are just more practical and don't let emotions drive our decisions. Link to post Share on other sites
Saxis Posted February 5, 2008 Share Posted February 5, 2008 In my experience, women always SAY they forgive you, but then throw it in your face in the next argument anyway... Link to post Share on other sites
Florida Posted February 6, 2008 Share Posted February 6, 2008 In my experience, women always SAY they forgive you, but then throw it in your face in the next argument anyway... :laugh: Women never really *forgive* Personally, I wouldn't, no matter how much loss I was to face. Link to post Share on other sites
SueBee3490 Posted February 6, 2008 Share Posted February 6, 2008 I'm a woman and I didn't forgive. Well actually I did once - he cheated on me once and I forgave and tried to make our relationship work because I truly believed he was remorseful. But I just got bit in the a** because once I'd forgiven him and let it go, he went ahead and cheated again and again. So no I won't forgive him a 2nd time. Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted February 6, 2008 Share Posted February 6, 2008 Men hands down. If you took her out for chinese 10 years but she really wanted italian and you forgot to read her mind she will hold that resentment for 10 years and will always remember it. A woman can treat a man like crap and he will keep trying to make her happy, Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted February 6, 2008 Share Posted February 6, 2008 Is it true, girls forgive easier than men do when it comes to cheating? In my experience, when it came to cheating more women then men were forgiving. Men hands down. If you took her out for chinese 10 years but she really wanted italian and you forgot to read her mind she will hold that resentment for 10 years and will always remember it. A woman can treat a man like crap and he will keep trying to make her happy, :rolleyes: Link to post Share on other sites
ahah2322 Posted February 6, 2008 Share Posted February 6, 2008 women say they forgive, but they never ever forget... Link to post Share on other sites
nellstar Posted February 6, 2008 Share Posted February 6, 2008 In my experience, women always SAY they forgive you, but then throw it in your face in the next argument anyway... How true!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted February 6, 2008 Share Posted February 6, 2008 women say they forgive, but they never ever forget... You could say the same thing for guys as well, but of course it varies per individual. It would be extremely difficult to ever forget about your SO cheating on you after you take them back. IMO, cheating will leave a permanent scar. Link to post Share on other sites
SueBee3490 Posted February 6, 2008 Share Posted February 6, 2008 women say they forgive, but they never ever forget... Why should one forget? Once you've been cheated on by someone you loved and trusted, you may be able to forgive them but you won't forget. If you try and forget then you really haven't learned anything from this bad experience. The one thing I have learned from being cheated on is to never fully give my heart to another man again until I am VERY VERY VERY sure of him and his intentions. I will never date one again, be cheated on, and give them a 2nd chance just to be hurt again. Link to post Share on other sites
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