TMichaels Posted February 14, 2008 Share Posted February 14, 2008 sptu, You can only Private Message people who have that function turned on. latefragment does, so I don't know why you can't PM her. As far as visiting your friend, there's no way to predict how things will go. However, you won't know if there's any future with him unless you two spend more time together. In other words: "Nothing ventured, nothing gained." So go and visit and see how things go. Best, TMichaels Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted February 14, 2008 Share Posted February 14, 2008 sptu, You can only Private Message people who have that function turned on. latefragment does, so I don't know why you can't PM her. As far as visiting your friend, there's no way to predict how things will go. However, you won't know if there's any future with him unless you two spend more time together. In other words: "Nothing ventured, nothing gained." So go and visit and see how things go. Best, TMichaels You're wrong. You have to be somewhat of an established poster in order to send/receive PMs. Not sure what the magic formula is, but it comes with time as a member and number of posts. You can't just join and automatically start sending PMs. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sptu Posted February 14, 2008 Author Share Posted February 14, 2008 we havent speak the last two days and i am feeling teeeerrible!!what if he changed his mind and he dont want even to meet each other when i will be there?!?!?god i am pathetic!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author sptu Posted February 14, 2008 Author Share Posted February 14, 2008 we finally speak on msn!!!!we was cold enough!!and when i asked him if he has sth, he said that he is tired because he was studying. then, i was kidding and i said "ok if you change opinion and you dont want to meet, please inform me!!!" and he said "Yeah ok!!!" and i got mad because by that, one could mean that its possible to change opinion!he said no, i just answered!! i dont know, i am afraid!!honestly, i have in my mind that i will meet him and things may change!but what if not?!?!?! when i was younger, i read somewhere: maybe at the end, the pessimist is true but till then, the optimistic had better time!!! should i be happy and dreaming?!?!?!? Link to post Share on other sites
TMichaels Posted February 14, 2008 Share Posted February 14, 2008 You're wrong. You have to be somewhat of an established poster in order to send/receive PMs. Not sure what the magic formula is, but it comes with time as a member and number of posts. You can't just join and automatically start sending PMs. Star Gazer, Thanks for the info. I checked the LS forum FAQ and you're right. Apparently, you do have to be a contributor on the site for a length of time before you can send/receive PM's. I've never had that problem. Must have been a timing issue. (i.e. by the time I wanted to PM, I had already reached the "magic number" required). So sptu, looks like you will just have to post in the public forum for the time being... Best, TMichaels Link to post Share on other sites
latefragment Posted February 14, 2008 Share Posted February 14, 2008 oh wow, I'm sorry, I didn't check this thread since yesterday... I'm SO SORRY you had that terrible conversation on MSN and he sounded cold. Wow, what you're going thru sounds EXACTLY like what I went thru and it was sooooo horrible and sooooo sad and I got sooo heartbroken! Anyway, yeah, we should agree on a time where I will be on here at the same time as you so I can get your email and then we can email!!!! What time is good for you tomorrow? I'm free most any time... You have to tell me what time zone though. Hope to hear from you soon, i'd really like to talk to you as our situation seems so similar... I think it would be really good. Sorry we are having so many problems. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sptu Posted February 15, 2008 Author Share Posted February 15, 2008 All times are GMT +2. The time now is 11:19 AM.!!!! sooo?!?tell me when do you want!!! Link to post Share on other sites
ellie01 Posted February 15, 2008 Share Posted February 15, 2008 If you really like him and you think it can really work then the test in March is worth it, but if you're not convinced that it is worth the test in March then you've answered the question. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sptu Posted February 15, 2008 Author Share Posted February 15, 2008 well!!!its only that i am afraid!!!i want to go veeeery much and i have already booked tickets and hotel but i am afraid!!! i will go for sure as long as i booked them but i dont know whether it will be fine or not!!! Link to post Share on other sites
ellie01 Posted February 15, 2008 Share Posted February 15, 2008 Don't worry so much, be excited and open to all the possibilities. Good Luck, just wait and see what happens Link to post Share on other sites
Author sptu Posted February 15, 2008 Author Share Posted February 15, 2008 yes yes yes you are right...well, thank u very very much for your support!!!do you think that i should stop speaking to him that much!?i mean on msn.. Link to post Share on other sites
latefragment Posted February 15, 2008 Share Posted February 15, 2008 That would be 2 hours from now? What do you think? And if you are on right now I am also on... This is going to be good! Oh I got the time wrong... is that 7 AM your time? Ooops... well, you know what I mean ... 2 hours from now, let me know... and I'm on now too... Link to post Share on other sites
Author sptu Posted February 15, 2008 Author Share Posted February 15, 2008 are you here?!?!? Link to post Share on other sites
Author sptu Posted February 15, 2008 Author Share Posted February 15, 2008 actually i just saw that i cant delete any messages!!!!grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr Link to post Share on other sites
latefragment Posted February 15, 2008 Share Posted February 15, 2008 maybe you can try putting your email address in your profile? User Profile? I tried but for some reason I couldn't put it in mine... Link to post Share on other sites
latefragment Posted February 15, 2008 Share Posted February 15, 2008 you can't delet your post but you can go in after say a minute or two and then delete what you wrote... i've done it before and I've seen other people delete it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sptu Posted February 15, 2008 Author Share Posted February 15, 2008 did you receive it?!?! Link to post Share on other sites
latefragment Posted February 15, 2008 Share Posted February 15, 2008 (edited) can you try again? I can't see your email address on your profile, do you want to just post it and then delete it? Edited February 15, 2008 by latefragment Link to post Share on other sites
latefragment Posted February 15, 2008 Share Posted February 15, 2008 now you can delete it Link to post Share on other sites
Author sptu Posted February 15, 2008 Author Share Posted February 15, 2008 tell me to delete it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author sptu Posted February 15, 2008 Author Share Posted February 15, 2008 for a reason that i dont know, i cant delete it!heeeeeeelp Link to post Share on other sites
latefragment Posted February 15, 2008 Share Posted February 15, 2008 and when you edit it, just erase it and type something else over it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sptu Posted February 15, 2008 Author Share Posted February 15, 2008 (edited) yeah of course, its what i am trying to do but it says that i cant!!! heeeeeeeeeeeeelp Edited February 15, 2008 by sptu Link to post Share on other sites
Author sptu Posted February 15, 2008 Author Share Posted February 15, 2008 send me an email!!!unfortunately i cant delete it.. Link to post Share on other sites
latefragment Posted February 15, 2008 Share Posted February 15, 2008 check your email... Link to post Share on other sites
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