Revontulet Posted February 6, 2008 Share Posted February 6, 2008 I think I have a problem, I am finding that I am much more attracted to younger girls. i'm 17 years old and I really find girls who are 13 or 14 much more attractive and cuter then girls of my age, all of my exes have been much younger than me (13, 14 and 14 while i was 17) well ofcourse I like girls from my age but I always can't really get along with them and they seem to be too high and out of reach, I dunno, maybe I think of younger girls easier to get or something, Is this wrong? Most friends of mine call me pedophilic but just for the jokes Link to post Share on other sites
Enema Posted February 6, 2008 Share Posted February 6, 2008 Girls mature faster than boys, it may just be you're shooting for someone more on your level. You'll grow out of it. (I hope!) Link to post Share on other sites
dave3663 Posted February 6, 2008 Share Posted February 6, 2008 Depends what they look like to be honest, if you are attracted to their pre pubescent bodies then thats pretty dodgy really. If they are 13/14 but look older and you like them because as you say you think you can get on with them easier, then i wouldnt worry about it. i remember when i was 13/14 i thought the older girls were much nicer! Im 20 now and i wouldnt go anything more than 2 years either side but thats just my 2 cents. Link to post Share on other sites
burning 4 revenge Posted February 7, 2008 Share Posted February 7, 2008 I agree. Thirteen year olds are hot Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted February 7, 2008 Share Posted February 7, 2008 I agree. Thirteen year olds are hot Not cool b4r, not at all. Link to post Share on other sites
LikesMeNot Posted February 12, 2008 Share Posted February 12, 2008 Why do you like them? If it's their body and how it's "changing", well...........let's just say that I would be uncomfortable posting on this thread right now. Girls are more mature than boys at this point in life, so maybe that's why. I don't know, i've never dated a younger girl. Link to post Share on other sites
burning 4 revenge Posted February 12, 2008 Share Posted February 12, 2008 Not cool b4r, not at all. you dont find child molestation a joking matter? Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted February 12, 2008 Share Posted February 12, 2008 you dont find child molestation a joking matter? Strangely no... Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted February 15, 2008 Share Posted February 15, 2008 I hope you're not having sex with these 13 year olds... Link to post Share on other sites
Geishawhelk Posted February 15, 2008 Share Posted February 15, 2008 Methinks the phrase 'walking on dangerous ground' springs to mind.... But the age is a mitigating factor. if you were 37, I'd alert the police.... but as you're not far off from their age, maybe (providing you don't act upon it) finding something attractive about them isn't too questionable. If when you're 25, you find 18 or 19 year olds more attractive, then it's probably more of an age-gap thing. I have a guy friend who won't date younger women, for example.... But as you 'progress' through life, and you find your feelings don't change, age-wise.... be cautious about whom you tell. Or what you do. Or who you date. In fact, just don't go there. Link to post Share on other sites
Miyamoto Posted February 15, 2008 Share Posted February 15, 2008 I agree with Geisha about not telling people who you date, because most people just believe what they're told, especially about this... Some lawmaker you never knew decided at some point in time that in some places 18 was the age of consent and everybody now takes it not as a legal prerogative, but some kind of moral issue. It's not. Sorry. Want proof? In some states the age of consent is 16. So if ppl give you crap in your state, just drive the chick to South Carolina and you'll be ok. -- Anybody who has problems with a 30 something dating a teen something is either 1. a man who's mad HE can't afford her, or 2. a jealous woman past her prime Chew on that. I'm very angry after my break up, as you can tell. Link to post Share on other sites
AdrianaLima Posted February 15, 2008 Share Posted February 15, 2008 Girls mature faster than boys, it may just be you're shooting for someone more on your level. You'll grow out of it. (I hope!) I agree. Also, maybe you're attracted to them because you may have some kind of control or authority over them, unlike to a female that's your age or older. Link to post Share on other sites
saddad1 Posted February 15, 2008 Share Posted February 15, 2008 A.Lima not only has the hottest avatar on this site but I believe has also hit the nail on the head with her response. As others have said theres nothing to be worried about atm as the age difference isnt that great - however if ur 19-20 and still fancy 12-13yr olds and want to sleep with them then its time to get help. Go and date some girls your own age and I think u'll be pleasantly surprised Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted February 15, 2008 Share Posted February 15, 2008 I agree with Geisha about not telling people who you date, because most people just believe what they're told, especially about this... Some lawmaker you never knew decided at some point in time that in some places 18 was the age of consent and everybody now takes it not as a legal prerogative, but some kind of moral issue. It's not. Sorry. Want proof? In some states the age of consent is 16. So if ppl give you crap in your state, just drive the chick to South Carolina and you'll be ok. -- Anybody who has problems with a 30 something dating a teen something is either 1. a man who's mad HE can't afford her, or 2. a jealous woman past her prime Chew on that. I'm very angry after my break up, as you can tell. You CAN'T be serious ? Its about a 13 year old CHILD . One who is not mature enough to handle sex , it does not matter that states exist where 16 year olds can marry its about the CHILD . And thats what she is at 13 or 15 , she is too young to be sexually involved. A 30 year old should NOT be dating a teen. Its nothing to do with jealousy. Anyone that thinks a kid should have sex with an adult or an older teen is not cool at all. An older women with a older/younger ( adult ) man cool. An older man with a MATURE adult female women over 18 cool. Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted February 15, 2008 Share Posted February 15, 2008 I think I have a problem, I am finding that I am much more attracted to younger girls. i'm 17 years old and I really find girls who are 13 or 14 much more attractive and cuter then girls of my age, all of my exes have been much younger than me (13, 14 and 14 while i was 17) well ofcourse I like girls from my age but I always can't really get along with them and they seem to be too high and out of reach, I dunno, maybe I think of younger girls easier to get or something, Is this wrong? Most friends of mine call me pedophilic but just for the jokes You are almost an adult 18 and you like having sex with kids 13 yrs old ? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Revontulet Posted February 17, 2008 Author Share Posted February 17, 2008 No, i never think of having sex with them, just a girlfriend, ofcourse they are much to young to have sex with, I like younger girls but not for the sexual side Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted February 18, 2008 Share Posted February 18, 2008 No, i never think of having sex with them, just a girlfriend, ofcourse they are much to young to have sex with, I like younger girls but not for the sexual side I'm sorry but I DON'T believe you . You are 17 , your hormones are raging and instead of dating girls your age , you want a 13 year old. I just don't believe you for one minute when you say you feel no sexual attraction. If this is SO and you are having sexual relations , then whom are you having them with ? You already said you dont go out with girls your age. This screams * future pedofile *... Link to post Share on other sites
Crazyforgir Posted February 19, 2008 Share Posted February 19, 2008 I'm sorry but I DON'T believe you . You are 17 , your hormones are raging and instead of dating girls your age , you want a 13 year old. I just don't believe you for one minute when you say you feel no sexual attraction. If this is SO and you are having sexual relations , then whom are you having them with ? You already said you dont go out with girls your age. This screams * future pedofile *... okay, your being one of those people, Geisha warned about whos taking it and blowing it way out of proportion. Link to post Share on other sites
Geishawhelk Posted February 19, 2008 Share Posted February 19, 2008 I also think we need to take the thread title and put it into perspective.,... it states "Attracted to much younger girls"... The OP is 17. the girls he's attracted to are 13 and 14. leaving aside the socially acceptable, moral and legal arguments for an instant - I don't think that is 'Much younger'. If he were 28, and going out with a 24 or 25 year old, who'd say a word....? The age-gap issues are important at the 'beginning' (My dad is 11 years older than my mother... can you imagine the furore, in those days (he's 86 now) if at age 22, he'd been going out with a girl half his age....?!) and at the 'end'... My mother is now not only my father's wife, but she is his carer too. He is that much older than she, and consequently more infirm and frail..... Whilst I think that yes, the OP has to show restraint with regard to a physical relationship, because of the obvious, I don't think the gap per se is of any great relevance. Could i just point out that it is our westernised perception of matters that clouds our view. There are cultures in existence where girls are given in marriage at extremely young ages. This, for certain cultures and countries, is not considered paedophilia, it's considered normal. so whilst i can comprehend people's distaste at the very idea of such a thing, it is only a locally cultural fastidiousness. We should manage to adopt a far more globally aware impression and view of matters. I am not attempting to change the law or anything here. I'm merely attempting to broaden the horizon. perception is often deception. We may well believe it is wrong, and may have a good foundation for believeing this way. But it doesn't make us universally and automatically, generally 'Right'. The age of consent across America also varies. What is an absolutely abhorrent idea in one State, may be completely acceptable in the neighbouring state. so it's not as far-fetched as some would suppose. Rather like the Death penalty.... Perhaps those who simply cannot see any other point of view other than their own disgust, should also view where their opinions sprang up from.....? And if anyone mentions The Bible or religion, there is much evidence to indicate that Christ's mother was around 14..... "3. How old was Mary when she gave birth to Jesus? We cannot, of course, say for certain, but a likely conjecture is between 14 and 17 years old." from here Just my one penny to your two cents.... Link to post Share on other sites
betterthandead Posted April 2, 2008 Share Posted April 2, 2008 Video for the little girl lovers. Link to post Share on other sites
MalachiX Posted April 2, 2008 Share Posted April 2, 2008 I agree with Geisha about not telling people who you date, because most people just believe what they're told, especially about this... Some lawmaker you never knew decided at some point in time that in some places 18 was the age of consent and everybody now takes it not as a legal prerogative, but some kind of moral issue. It's not. Sorry. Want proof? In some states the age of consent is 16. So if ppl give you crap in your state, just drive the chick to South Carolina and you'll be ok. -- Anybody who has problems with a 30 something dating a teen something is either 1. a man who's mad HE can't afford her, or 2. a jealous woman past her prime Chew on that. I'm very angry after my break up, as you can tell. You have sullied the name of Miyamato. Link to post Share on other sites
MalachiX Posted April 2, 2008 Share Posted April 2, 2008 The OP is 17. the girls he's attracted to are 13 and 14. leaving aside the socially acceptable, moral and legal arguments for an instant - I don't think that is 'Much younger'. If he were 28, and going out with a 24 or 25 year old, who'd say a word....? That's because there is a big difference between how a 13 year old is developed than a 17 year old. There isn't as big a gap between a 24 and 28 year old. This isn't like a 19 year old guy with a 17 year old GF (which I understand and don't think should be a crime). This is the case where one person has physically matured into an adult and the other is still a child. I realize that different people mature at different rates but I'd rather be safe than sorry when kids are involved. I'd rather we simply say that 18 is the age of consent or within a space of two years (for the 17-19 situation). Anyway, I'm not calling the TC a pedophile. It's good at least you came to ask for advice. Right now, the best thing you can do is do some careful self examination as to why you get attracted to younger girls and DO NOT act on your impulses. You're impulses aren't you're fault but if you continue to pursue relationships with young girls then it becomes your fault and you become a bad person. You're also likely to get your ass kicked or shot (I know if I had a 13 year old sister I'd kill and 17-year-old who came on to her). Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted April 2, 2008 Share Posted April 2, 2008 How do we know that 10 years from now when you are 28 that you won't still be attracted to 13 year olds ? At 13 , a girl is discovering all about herself but a guy of 17 has likely experimented sexually to some degree . Why would a 17 be attracted to a 13 year old anyway ? Link to post Share on other sites
PuppyDogEyes Posted April 2, 2008 Share Posted April 2, 2008 In some states the age of consent is 16. So if ppl give you crap in your state, just drive the chick to South Carolina and you'll be ok. Not so. Ever hear of the Mann Act? It specifically makes "the interstate transportation of females for immoral purposes" illegal. I won't even get into the age thing here - just that is enough to make your above statement incorrect. - pde. Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted April 2, 2008 Share Posted April 2, 2008 I will bet some kind of money that if you polled child molesters they would say they ALWAYS fixated on young girls ........ The 18 could still want these 13 year olds many years from now and WHAT do we call that ?? ... Link to post Share on other sites
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