It's been a Bad year so far...

[Chrome Barracuda]

I know CB's response is very harsh but I think his overall point is, why did G had sex with him in the first place as she knew what kind of man he is/was from the beginning.

 

 

THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!

 

That's what I've been pointing out to her the first post I ever had with her!!!!!!!

 

This guy was a scumbag since day one I knew it and felt it. But like most people entagled in affairs they dont care until someone get's out the glock! lol.

 

...or pregnant whichever combo you want to call it.

 

I prefer 2 then a 1, sometimes it's a mixture of both. I'm not sure if there's a 3. hhmmmmmmm?

[NoIDidn't]

How sad, but not exactly surprising.

 

This man has never said a kind word about his W. He even caught himself in a lie "we are trying", oops, "she is trying". Whatever.

 

I hope you are not pregnant, your past experience may make this one very traumatic. He's a dud. Stick to your guns.

 

But maybe you are pregnant, as this is the first time it seems you've given thought to his heartless words about someone he is supposed to love without attempting to justify or rationalize what he says. Do more of that please. It will get him out of your system quicker.

 

Hope you don't think I am being mean. I am really not. Some of us, myself included, have to learn by experience.

[Gwyneth]

I'm learning to ignore CB--I c an't deal with cruelty right now. I am only human and have sexual needs just like you, CB.

 

BTW, let me reiterate this again, I never said MM has a low sperm count--I was sarcastically saying that he is the one with the P that provides the sperm, and silly me to go along with what MM is saying about how it's HER trying, and not HIM. One needs a Penis and sperm in order to become pregnant.

[Gwyneth]

THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!

 

That's what I've been pointing out to her the first post I ever had with her!!!!!!!

 

This guy was a scumbag since day one I knew it and felt it. But like most people entagled in affairs they dont care until someone get's out the glock! lol.

 

...or pregnant whichever combo you want to call it.

 

I prefer 2 then a 1, sometimes it's a mixture of both. I'm not sure if there's a 3. hhmmmmmmm?

 

Well said. Please explain what "I prefer 2 then a 1, sometimes it's a mixture of both. I'm not sure if there's a 3. hhmmmmmmm?" means.

[Chrome Barracuda]

Well said. Please explain what "I prefer 2 then a 1, sometimes it's a mixture of both. I'm not sure if there's a 3. hhmmmmmmm?" means.

 

....That was a joke.

 

I'm learning to ignore CB--I c an't deal with cruelty right now. I am only human and have sexual needs just like you, CB.

 

BTW, let me reiterate this again, I never said MM has a low sperm count--I was sarcastically saying that he is the one with the P that provides the sperm, and silly me to go along with what MM is saying about how it's HER trying, and not HIM. One needs a Penis and sperm in order to become pregnant.

 

Yeah I got needs but I have only been with single women, I have never knowingly pursued a married women to have her. Although I have always said that MW have shown me interest but I am a man of honor and I dont sleep with married women, that right there is just too much for me.

 

I dont play games with my life. Where I'm from you might end up with your jimmy chopped off. People take infidelity a bit too personally here.

[Pyro]

Sorry that you are feeling the way that you do, but messing with someone elses H can never lead to good things and this is a fine example.

[Gwyneth]

....That was a joke.

 

I'm learning to ignore CB--I c an't deal with cruelty right now. I am only human and have sexual needs just like you, CB.

 

BTW, let me reiterate this again, I never said MM has a low sperm count--I was sarcastically saying that he is the one with the P that provides the sperm, and silly me to go along with what MM is saying about how it's HER trying, and not HIM. One needs a Penis and sperm in order to become pregnant.

 

Yeah I got needs but I have only been with single women, I have never knowingly pursued a married women to have her. Although I have always said that MW have shown me interest but I am a man of honor and I dont sleep with married women, that right there is just too much for me.

 

I dont play games with my life. Where I'm from you might end up with your jimmy chopped off. People take infidelity a bit too personally here.

 

You and I are from the same state--affairs happen All the time here.

[Chrome Barracuda]

You and I are from the same state--affairs happen All the time here.

 

 

I'm glad, then you know of the consequences you risk when you put your neck out there?

 

Listen I dont mean to be harsh with anyone but it's how the point comes across. People in affairs dont get out of it by being all dont do it again, blah,blah. You have to show them by whatever means neccessary. And if that means scorched earth policy then so be it.

 

I remember the first post we talked on, I knew he was scum and you knew it to but back then you thought you could handle it. Now look what happens G?

[Gwyneth]

I'm glad, then you know of the consequences you risk when you put your neck out there?

 

Listen I dont mean to be harsh with anyone but it's how the point comes across. People in affairs dont get out of it by being all dont do it again, blah,blah. You have to show them by whatever means neccessary. And if that means scorched earth policy then so be it.

 

I remember the first post we talked on, I knew he was scum and you knew it to but back then you thought you could handle it. Now look what happens G?

 

Yeah, well This wasn't planned. It would be in my best interest, and my baby's best interest, not to let him know, and to keep it from him for as long as I ever can.

[StillSame]

Were you the one who posted this no too long ago?

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t137638/

[Gwyneth]

Were you the one who posted this no too long ago?

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t137638/

 

Yes, your point?

 

I do not think creating life is by any means bad karma. It's an innocent creature growing inside a woman. It's not the innocent's fault what happened--bad karma is being cheated on, killed, being hit by a car, or other horrible things. I don't think pregnancy is a bad thing at all. How I became pregnant I can see some thinking this is bad karma, but I truly don't see the beginning of one's life bad karma at all. I'd feel shameful thinking that way. It's innocense.

[bentnotbroken]

Wow, I don't know what to say. I don't want to add to your pain. And I think my opinions will, so I'll just say, take care of yourself.

[Chrome Barracuda]

Yes, your point?

 

I do not think creating life is by any means bad karma. It's an innocent creature growing inside a woman. It's not the innocent's fault what happened--bad karma is being cheated on, killed, being hit by a car, or other horrible things. I don't think pregnancy is a bad thing at all. How I became pregnant I can see some thinking this is bad karma, but I truly don't see the beginning of one's life bad karma at all. I'd feel shameful thinking that way. It's innocense.

 

 

Karma is universal law.

 

What you just said does not add up.

 

The way karma works is for one bad deed you do, another bad deed will happen upon you and so on and soforth.

 

Let's take your sitch.

 

Getting emotionally intangled with a MM-bad

Getting Physical with a MM-bad

Him lying to his wife-Bad

Him cheating on his wife-Bad

Him lying to you-bad

Him getting another woman pregnant outside his marriage-bad

You getting preg by a MM-bad

You lying to the wife about the involvement of your husband and you-Bad

 

Do you understand? Even now you have been doing small acts of unneccessary misfortune.

 

You getting pregnant by a MM and raising a baby by yourself? That could be viewed as universal law right there.

 

I wish you well, but you need to start being honest about your situation and how you got to this point in your life.

[Gwyneth]

I really didn't post this situation to be lectured or have debates about what's right or wrong. What's done is done--I can't go back and change the past. I can learn from past events and not repeat wrongful steps I have taken.

 

BTW, I never lied to his wife about our affair--I've never even spoken to the woman. Only contact I have EVER had with the woman is when she called me, FIVE times in one night, and breathed in my ear. When I'm angry with him, I always tell him I will let his wife know all if she ever calls me again. Wheter or not I will tell her all depends on my mood. At this point, I will tell her I have no comment, because I obviously do not want the woman coming after me. Two pregnant woman arguing can be a really bad thing.

 

Another thing, he continued to be with me and have sex with me even after he knew his wife may be pregnant. Is he sick or what? Of course if I wasn't pregnant, after he told me she might be, it would have been over because I'm not continuing an affair wtih a daddy. That's more than I can handle.

[NoIDidn't]

Another thing, he continued to be with me and have sex with me even after he knew his wife may be pregnant. Is he sick or what? Of course if I wasn't pregnant, after he told me she might be, it would have been over because I'm not continuing an affair wtih a daddy. That's more than I can handle.

 

But he was already a daddy, regardless of what he may have said about THAT innocent child that is his stepchild.

 

Stepdads are still dads. Especially as the kids still need their financial support and guidance.

 

This guy isn't sick at all. He's just slick and slimey. She probably is pregnant.

 

Are you saying its not over still? It seemed in previous posts on this thread that it is over, regardless of your pregnancy. Did I read something wrong?

[Gwyneth]

No, it's over--O was talking in the past in my previous posts in this thread. They have been trying for a few weeks now, according to him, and in the past couple of weeks we have slept together. He only just told me they're trying and she might already be pregnantj. He told me this last Saturday on the day I was considering telling him "hey, I'm pregnant!" I took it as a sign not to tell him and to discontinue any relationship with him when he told me his wife might be.

 

Had he told me earlier that they were going to begin trying, or are trying, maybe I wouldn't be pregnant. I had to have gotten pregnant in the past month.

 

yeah, he is sick because wife aside, these are now babies we're talking about here. Disrespecting your wife is one thing, but your own flesh and blood is another. His step-child is just that--a step-child. He has his own father he is with regularly. I can't even fathom some of the things he says about his step-child.

[silktricks]

What if she fights for custody? I can't, I just can't.

 

Maybe I'm just stupid, but how the he!! could she fight you for custody? What did she have to do with this baby?

 

Or do you mean that she could get him to fight you for custody.... ????

[Gwyneth]

Maybe I'm just stupid, but how the he!! could she fight you for custody? What did she have to do with this baby?

 

Or do you mean that she could get him to fight you for custody.... ????

 

Well yeah, he would fight for custody, or she could stir up something that I'm an unfit parent, etc.

[NoIDidn't]

Well yeah, he would fight for custody, or she could stir up something that I'm an unfit parent, etc.

 

 

Yeah, its more like "he" would be fighting for custody since he is eligible in family court for full custody if he could prove you to be an unfit parent. I know of many cases where this happened, and some even won custody. Its a mess for all involved. The fact that G goes to work regularly and has a stable home to live in, and pays her bills on time, basically mean the courts wouldn't be willing to take away custody unless you get one of those pro-marriage judges that doesn't believe that single women can raise well-adjusted kids.

 

But you don't need to worry about these things right now. Stop getting ahead of yourself. You still need to confirm that you are pregnant and how far along you are, if you are pregnant.

 

First things, first. Confirm a pregnancy. Put an "X" in front of MM.

[Gwyneth]

My pregnancy has been cofirmed by EPT, but not by my doc yet. That's tomorrow I am going to see her after work (and my sister will accompany me). I also missed my period and I'm Always on time.

 

It's silly of me to be worried about him trying to take away this baby from me. For one, he has a family of 3--possibly 4, and makes less than 60k per year. His wife has decided she isn't going to work anymore, so how a family of 3 survives on that much money is pretty amazing to me. I make more than him for a single person, and I'm stable (at least I think I am mentally wise).

[stampdaddy]

OK, can I step in for the baby for a minute, and I don't mean to sound harsh....? What happens when he/she is 5/6/7/8/9??? "Where/who is my father??" OR 14/15/16/17???? 18/20/22/24?? and he/she finds out WHO their father is... What then?

I know it is a "mess" now, but how much bigger of a mess could it become later? AND, if he IS the Father, he deserves to know and make his own decision on how to proceed.. This is NOT RIGHT for you to dictate ("dicktate", that didnt sound right)

Anyway, PLEASE give this some "BIG PICTURE" thought... your baby thanks you

[Gwyneth]

OK, can I step in for the baby for a minute, and I don't mean to sound harsh....? What happens when he/she is 5/6/7/8/9??? "Where/who is my father??" OR 14/15/16/17???? 18/20/22/24?? and he/she finds out WHO their father is... What then?

I know it is a "mess" now, but how much bigger of a mess could it become later? AND, if he IS the Father, he deserves to know and make his own decision on how to proceed.. This is NOT RIGHT for you to dictate ("dicktate", that didnt sound right)

Anyway, PLEASE give this some "BIG PICTURE" thought... your baby thanks you

 

I think only a woman could and would only understand where I am coming from right now--particularly the ones who are or have been in my shoes. He's a bad person and I cannot fathom the idea of subjecting my child to this kind of world. By the time the child asks where his or her father is, I will have the answer to that--right now I have other questions to answer to that are much more important right now. I have met many people in my situation--they are either the love child or have had a love child. They are all pretty fine not knowing where the father is.

[bentnotbroken]

My pregnancy has been cofirmed by EPT, but not by my doc yet. That's tomorrow I am going to see her after work (and my sister will accompany me). I also missed my period and I'm Always on time.

 

It's silly of me to be worried about him trying to take away this baby from me. For one, he has a family of 3--possibly 4, and makes less than 60k per year. His wife has decided she isn't going to work anymore, so how a family of 3 survives on that much money is pretty amazing to me. I make more than him for a single person, and I'm stable (at least I think I am mentally wise).

 

 

It can be done. My parents raised for of us on less than that and sent three of the four to college. It isn't as much about the dollars, more about how he is a person who has spoken so negatively about his step-child and treated his wife and potential child so horribely. His character leaves a lot to be desired.

[Gwyneth]

It can be done. My parents raised for of us on less than that and sent three of the four to college. It isn't as much about the dollars, more about how he is a person who has spoken so negatively about his step-child and treated his wife and potential child so horribely. His character leaves a lot to be desired.

 

Yes, but your parents raised the four of you during a time when gas was less than a dollar, and milk was less than a dollar. He complains now he doesn't have enough money.

[bentnotbroken]

Yes, but your parents raised the four of you during a time when gas was less than a dollar, and milk was less than a dollar. He complains now he doesn't have enough money.

 

 

 

Hell Gwen, you make me sound ancient. :laugh: