reed Posted June 26, 2003 Share Posted June 26, 2003 I'm 24 and my fiancee of two days is 21, we met 8 months ago and things have really been good. We told her parents and we got their blessing but its almost like their waiting to say i told you so . We both talked about the right things these past eight months because we realized theirs some things we still don't know about each other however we knew we really enjoyed each others company, and acknowledged that we were falling for each other really fast and both of us did'nt want to slow down. I feel like sometI'mes she feels like she's going to loose a good relationship with her Mother because of me. She's used to talking to her mom everyday , and since I've gotten into the picture thats stopped alittle. I don't want her parents to make her choose between being with me and getting wisdom from her mother she's supposed to get. I'm not telling my parents until I think their just going to except it and not judge it ! this is my life and i can remember being in terrible relationships , and being by myself thinking of my perfect queen . i found that in my fiancee and i don't need anyones blessing except for God and her parents because i know how close she is with her mother. me and my queen realize that we not exp. a year together however people are married for 10 and 12 years and someone still end up cheating. I feel like if we both finish school , and continue to ask god to help our communication get even better , and help us grow together rather than apart. we should never have a problem we can't handle what do you think out their because Maybe I'm to confident or blind . Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted June 26, 2003 Share Posted June 26, 2003 I think if you were really sure about all this, you wouldn't have come here for validation and support of your decision. You are the one who has to be confident with your decision and I don't see that it is my place to talk you into or out of anything you have gotten yourself into. Look deep into yourself for the answers. They are there. Link to post Share on other sites
Gray Posted June 26, 2003 Share Posted June 26, 2003 Do her parents not like you or something? What about yours her? Sorry, I guess I'm missing what the problem is... of course she will probably see her parents less because you two are starting a life together. But thats natural, and no one's "fault". I would htink her parents are mature enough to realize their baby was going to leave the nest at some point. So are there problems between you and her parents? Otherwise, if the worst thing is it seemed like they're waiting to say I told you so. Then, forget about it! Maybe they had gas that day. Or prove them wrong ya know? Good luck. OH, btw: they're = they are. their = possesive. there = place I think you got every one wrong in your post, and it's a pet-peeve of mine. Link to post Share on other sites
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