Why do most girls dislike Indian guys?

[Lights]

Hey... why is everyone only chasing after white girls anyway??

 

I mean for heaven's sakes... if your uncomfortable and having no luck with them, why not go after a culture you DO have success with.

 

Seriously, it sounds like these guys are just chasing women based on skin tone... .

 

Maybe they're not "only chasing after white girls", but rather simply dealing with the demographic realities of their immediate location, which may happen to be overwhelmingly White-majority?

 

Somehow I doubt that too many people in Afrocaribbean-majority neighborhoods will be walking away muttering about how they can't get through everyone's heavy Cantonese accents.

 

No one can find what is not there to be found.

[Space Marine]

Women don't like Indian guys because they're always trying to hit them up in ICQ and Yahoo chat with "Hello baby, A/S/L?"

[Cobra_X30]

Maybe they're not "only chasing after white girls", but rather simply dealing with the demographic realities of their immediate location, which may happen to be overwhelmingly White-majority?

 

Somehow I doubt that too many people in Afrocaribbean-majority neighborhoods will be walking away muttering about how they can't get through everyone's heavy Cantonese accents.

 

No one can find what is not there to be found.

 

Well, if you live in the U.S. like I do... then you know how diverse our population is. White people are barely a majority in the US, so if your trying to say that homeboy can't find women of other ethnicities... your full of it!

 

So... if your having trouble meeting women in your "Afrocaribbean" community... walk across the street and try your luck with some Cuban women! Or I suppose you could just bitch and whine about how Afrocarribean women are stuck up and don't like you. Hmmm... which seems more productive?

[Lights]

Well, if you live in the U.S. like I do... then you know how diverse our population is. White people are barely a majority in the US, so if your trying to say that homeboy can't find women of other ethnicities... your full of it!

Careful there, Cobra_X30--you don't have any right to speak to me in such a rude manner, so I suggest you pipe down before I put you in your place. I don't know where "homeboy" necessarily lives or whether or not or where there are people who don't have problems with his ethnic background are.

 

Note that I didn't claim that living in a White-majority neighborhood (note the focus on immediate range-of-operations, not national-level demographics) renders his goal impossible, but only that his apparent "chasing after white girls" may have been simply the form that a technique better described as "chasing after whoever I run into on a reasonably-frequent basis" happened to have taken.

 

I'll let you do more work on being more courteous as well. This sort of stuff doesn't impress.

Edited February 29, 2008 by Lights
This isn't worth it.

[Cobra_X30]

While you quietly sit and work on your reading comprehension, I'll explain once again that I didn't claim that living in a White-majority neighborhood (note the focus on immediate range-of-operations, not national-level demographics) renders his goal impossible, but only that his apparent "chasing after white girls" may have been simply the form that a technique better described as "chasing after whoever I run into on a reasonably-frequent basis" happened to have taken.

 

I'll let you get back to your English classes, by the way, and do work on being more courteous as well. This sort of stuff doesn't impress.

 

LOL... no harm intended. I don't tend to like racial stereotyping in any particular direction. I got the feeling that you were trying to provide rationale for this type of thinking. I see that's probably not the case.

 

Either way... the point still stands. The population percentages are not so out of whack that you are stuck with any one particular dating pool within any one particular geographic area. Why should we give sympathy to someone who simply comes to whine about a lack of success with women of one particular cultural group? That's just adding fuel to his fire.

 

BTW... My use of common vernacular does not imply a lack of skill in English. As to how rude I am or am not, I believe you are mistaking words regarding the OP as though they are for you.

[BUENG1]

LOL... no harm intended. I don't tend to like racial stereotyping in any particular direction. I got the feeling that you were trying to provide rationale for this type of thinking. I see that's probably not the case.

 

Either way... the point still stands. The population percentages are not so out of whack that you are stuck with any one particular dating pool within any one particular geographic area. Why should we give sympathy to someone who simply comes to whine about a lack of success with women of one particular cultural group? That's just adding fuel to his fire.

 

BTW... My use of common vernacular does not imply a lack of skill in English. As to how rude I am or am not, I believe you are mistaking words regarding the OP as though they are for you.

 

You don't think there are places in the country that are predominantly white? That's simply not the case. Everywhere isn't New York City.

[Green]

And even if he was in NYC which is a far cry from Arizona, He still might go to a school where every one he came into contact with was whit. Cobra you are rude, and I think its hiliariouse how you think its so easy to pick up a hot black woman as compared to a white one. In the end the OP or any other person with this problem needs to stop using their race as an excuse for not going after the things they want in their life. You see girl and you like her then I say give it a shot, its counter productive to mope and come up with pointless excuses that involve no plans of action.

[Cobra_X30]

You don't think there are places in the country that are predominantly white? That's simply not the case. Everywhere isn't New York City.

 

Fine, name a state here in the U.S. that is 90% or more of any one ethnicity! If that is the case... then I admit I am wrong.

 

And even if he was in NYC which is a far cry from Arizona, He still might go to a school where every one he came into contact with was whit. Cobra you are rude, and I think its hiliariouse how you think its so easy to pick up a hot black woman as compared to a white one. In the end the OP or any other person with this problem needs to stop using their race as an excuse for not going after the things they want in their life. You see girl and you like her then I say give it a shot, its counter productive to mope and come up with pointless excuses that involve no plans of action.

 

That's pretty much what I'm saying KMT! If you like a girl, go for it... and stop sniveling if you cut your dating pool down to one ethnicity then can't get a date.

 

I never said it's easy to get a date with a hot AM woman. I'd have to work like hell to be honest. When I said 'they don't get much play', I'm not saying they don't have standards.

 

I don't think there are any all white universities... even in Arizona... a place where more than 35% or more of the population is hispanic.

 

If I came in and said I'm only interested in Native American women. I wont date anyone else cause they are the majority of what lives around me. However I'm upset because I get rejected all the time. What would you say?

[Space Marine]

I never said it's easy to get a date with a hot AM woman.

 

But those FM chicks are easy. They crank my dial to 11.

[Jilly Bean]

Well, I was recently in Canada on a business trip. Both of my cab drivers were from Punjab (hello Canada!) and only ONE cab totally smelled of curry (or goat). They both were totally obsessed with America and American politics, and it was so cute the way they kept calling me "mum" lol. They were polite and deferential, but they do work for tips...

[Mustang Sally]

I find this thread very...entertaining.

 

When I was in college, I went out with an Indian guy. He was tall, dark, and gorgeous. And very courteous and respectful to me. Ultimately, our paths went in different directions, but I had no problem dating him.

 

I'd say if you are encountering women who aren't taking to you, either examine yourself and see what you might want to de- or re-emphasize about yourself, or look for different women. There are ample fish in the sea - you'll find yours, I'm sure.

[BUENG1]

Fine, name a state here in the U.S. that is 90% or more of any one ethnicity! If that is the case... then I admit I am wrong.

 

 

 

That's pretty much what I'm saying KMT! If you like a girl, go for it... and stop sniveling if you cut your dating pool down to one ethnicity then can't get a date.

 

I never said it's easy to get a date with a hot AM woman. I'd have to work like hell to be honest. When I said 'they don't get much play', I'm not saying they don't have standards.

 

I don't think there are any all white universities... even in Arizona... a place where more than 35% or more of the population is hispanic.

 

If I came in and said I'm only interested in Native American women. I wont date anyone else cause they are the majority of what lives around me. However I'm upset because I get rejected all the time. What would you say?

 

West Virginia, Vermont, Utah......im sure there's more.

http://censtats.census.gov/cgi-bin/pct/pctProfile.pl

 

Edited March 1, 2008 by BUENG1

[Cobra_X30]

West Virginia, Vermont, Utah......im sure there's more.

http://censtats.census.gov/cgi-bin/pct/pctProfile.pl

 

 

LOL... Looks like I am wrong!

 

You can add Iowa and New Hampshire to that list!

 

Thanks for pointing that out.

[Jilly Bean]

And what about the Dakotas? That always seemed really whitey white...

[D-Lish]

I went out with a mix: Italian, Native Indian, Brit mix. Really hot- but in certain lights and angles.... he looked like he was a little "down with the syndrome".... I'd catch it every once and a while and it would freak me out- then he'd turn his head and be hot again.

[directx]

I went out with a mix: Italian, Native Indian, Brit mix. Really hot- but in certain lights and angles.... he looked like he was a little "down with the syndrome".... I'd catch it every once and a while and it would freak me out- then he'd turn his head and be hot again.

 

I wouldn't mind some chicks that have "china syndrome"

 

But to stay on topic, I worked at a place that had quite a few Indians. One guy was super cool, but the boss was an a-hole. I talked to the super cool guy and he said a-hole would berate other Indians because he was carrying over the 'caste' system attitude.

Also, ahole would never miss an opportunity to berate women that worked for him. The company kept him because he brought in money.

So if a woman ran into an Indian guy like that, I could see it. but there are jerks in all cultures, not just indians

[Green]

these guys who you use as really big jerk examples probably all have wives or gf's anyways

[SpanksTheMonkey]

Did the OP even say he wanted a white girl only?

[Mishan]

Can I add my 2cents worth given I have just broken up with an Indian guy in a long distance relationship. I am not Indian but very open-minded.

 

This Indian guy I met while both of us were travelling overseas. He initially clicked with me like a dream and we kept in contact for months. We had the same views on life, sense of humor, and I thought not bad looking at all. He was north Indian, Punjabi, from a supposedly well-to-do family. We got so serious we even talked about marriage at one stage and it wasn't until I wanted to know more about him and his past that things went downhill. Here's what I experienced:

 

1) Dishonestly - stories never tied back together. Even simple things I realised he was telling me lies about. When I confronted him, he didn't even have the sense to apologise.

2) I was in a professional job and he wasn't and I think he felt like his macho status was going to be ruined.

3) He was always bragging about how wealthy his family was and what a great name and caste he came from.

4) After marriage, his ideal scenario was for me to live with his parents and me to be a housewife and look after kids. Thoughts of cooking butter chicken daily then ran through my head.

5) Cultural differences - too many cultural and religious differences to think of. There would had been just too much to adjust to.

6) Players - Sometimes I felt like he just wanted to play around and at the end of day, was always going to settle for an Indian girl anyway.

7) Mummy's boy - everything had to go to through the mother.

8) Stingy - we went for meals together and everything had to be halved, even at cheap restaurants.

9) Dress code - He did like his nice, clean, white sneakers all the time.

10) At the end of day, no matter how westernised they say they are, they are still going to be traditional.

 

I realise not all Indian guys are like this but what I think also is that my experience was stereotypical behaviour and stereotypes come out of somewhere. I doubt that I can go out with an Indian guy again. There surely must be some genuinely nice Indian guys out there but sadly I have still to find one. Unfortunately, should I say that there have probably been too many rotten eggs who have spoilt the whole basket.

[dot.dot]

Haaaaaahahhahahahaa....lol...that was really funny.mishan.seriously.'.....cooking butter chicken ran through my mind...' lol:D

[wizer]

I am not trying to be prejudicial, but I am an eye doctor, and Indian patients seem to have the same 3 things in common: 1) They never want to spend any money on nice glasses. 2) Many of them dont use deodarant and they smell bad. 3) If they dont smell like BO they smell like food, spicy food. If I was a woman these things would turn me off. Just say'en.

[thetruth]

Wow this forum is full of racist a-holes.

 

Maybe I should go through every experience I have had with white men and white women on here.

 

White women are typically - easy, unintelligent, not family oriented, don't care about their children, don't respect their family or husbands.

Now keep in mind thats just MY personal experience.

See how bad that sounds?

 

The funny thing I've noticed in real life and online is that white people find it perfectly fine to completely diss, attack, and destroy Indian culture through their words, but won't mention anything bad about African culture or Asian culture.

 

Is it politically correct to constantly make fun of Indians? Remember what goes around comes around, its called karma. Can't wait for India to surpass the west. Its gonna happen in less than 50 years.

Edited March 14, 2008 by thetruth