Garbo Posted February 10, 2008 Share Posted February 10, 2008 I've attended 2 of my bf's son's sports games and sat in the same bleachers as his ex-wife. The first time was no big deal because I split fast after the game. However, the 2nd time, I rode to the game with him and his kids and after the game I'm walking with him, his ex, and his kids to his vehicle so she can say goodbye. And no introduction, no one says anything to me. Granted, him and his ex didn't say anything, but I was so hurt and felt like a third wheel, not important enough to my bf. Afterwards, I asked why I wasn't introduced and he said he wasn't in the mood for introductions but then goes on to tell me that he doesn't want to have to deal with her bs if she doesn't like it. He said she would never cause a scene in front of me, but could try and make his life hell. So now I'm thinking if we stay together, is this just the tip of the iceberg of what the future would bring. I would come 2nd to his ex? I can take being 2nd to his kids because it should be that way, but I believe this woman already knows who I am from the kids. We've been together about 6 months, I spend a lot of time with him and his kids, and I also don't think it looks good to the kids that I'm not introduced. Link to post Share on other sites
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