Ravistgod Posted June 28, 2003 Share Posted June 28, 2003 Ok, I need some help here. Here's the deal. While I used to fit into the typical teenage guy mold in high school, meaning I had a crush on a girl and never told her, I would now like to change that. The girl I had/have a crush on went to my high school, but now we're both going to be seniors in college now, and our schools are a few states away, but, we will both be home this next week (I think). I only have about 10 days at home because I go to a military school, so I have to act quick here. Now, please note that while we participated in what I thought was flirting in high school, but what was most likely just small talk, I never really got to know her nor she me. It was just one of those things where I saw from far off all the time and sat there in my own cowardice, until she eventually got a boyfriend and I realized that I sucked. I don't really think she was out of my league or anything, I just wasn't too confident around girls then (I have since remedied this). But the question is NOT, "Do I tell her how I feel?", because I have already decided that I will. The question is "How would you do it?" I only want to tell her I had a crush on her, I don't really expect anything back, it's just so I can get it off my chest and I can move on. I mean, what would you think if some weird dude, who you kind of remember, (but who now for some weird reason seems much cooler), knocked on your door, and gives you some spiel about how he had the hots for you in high school 4 years ago? I can only imagine what she would be thinking: who is this guy? how does he know where I live? (white pages, cha ching) should I get my dad? should I knee him in the groin and run? should I accept his weird attempt to sort of ask me out? I would like for there to be a positive response, if at all possible. I also have a dance coming up at my school (really big and fancy), which I could ask her to in the best case scenario, but I don't see it as very likely. But, I included that bit of info just so you get the whole story. So, what would you do? Thanks, DS Link to post Share on other sites
Dreamgirl03 Posted June 28, 2003 Share Posted June 28, 2003 I think you should just go for it! I just got into this long distance realationship(3 hours)..and i`m scared even now. I had lost contact with him for 3 years, and 1 week ago, i contacted him and weve been together since that very night. I fell in love with him 3 years ago, but never told him..and he left and i was wondering the entire time how he felt about me. Then the night after i contacted him i told him on the phone exactly how i felt about him and that i still felt that way. I was so terrified when i did...i was thinking the whole time, what if he dont like me back, what if this scares him off, what if...yada, yada, yada. Them, amazingly he told me he felt the same way about me! I was thrilled! So, hey..go for it be4 u miss out on everything forever. You just might be amazed at what u find out! Link to post Share on other sites
jackie Posted July 2, 2003 Share Posted July 2, 2003 omg this was sumhow like the situation I was in a while ago D: Link to post Share on other sites
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