SOS_Please Posted February 16, 2008 Share Posted February 16, 2008 Post everything that you've wanted to say to your crush, but (for whatever reason) haven't! I have had a crush on this man for two years now. I cannot tell him, due to reasons that I shan't post. So, here is what I would say to him, if I could: "I have liked you from the moment I first saw you 2 years ago. I am not generally a superficial girl--I'm not attracted to people based upon appearance alone. However, there was something about you that I honestly can't relate via words. I just felt "it." Even having a crush on you has turned my world upside down. For 8 years now I have struggled with the fact that I may be a lesbian. I had just started to accept this, when I suddenly formed an inordinant crush upon you. I have never felt this way about a man before. We have since become friends. I could be wrong, but I get the impression that you feel the same way about me. We both know we can't be together--that obsticals are present to us. However, I want nothing more than for you to be my Abelard, and I your Heloise. I feel their situation is ours--I being young(er) and inexperienced; you older and experienced, willing to teach me. If only these obsticals weren't present to us: we could be together. I would choose one night with you over one-thousand with another. I adore and admire you, and I feel as though it would be an amorous sin to withhold my feelings from you any longer, despite the consequences. Pick me; choose me; love me." LOL, kidding about that last bit ("Pick me; choose me; love me"). I just wanted to throw some Grey's Anatomy in here. Next confession of love? Link to post Share on other sites
Seaman Staines Posted February 16, 2008 Share Posted February 16, 2008 If I don't have you by the end of next week, I fear my dick will fall off. But it probably won't worry me that much, because if I can't have you, I don't want anybody else. Link to post Share on other sites
Phil McCracken Posted February 16, 2008 Share Posted February 16, 2008 A smile each day from you would be more satisfying than being a porn star for 40 hours every week. I would make you breakfast in bed for the rest of your life, and I hope you like pancakes. Link to post Share on other sites
Author SOS_Please Posted February 16, 2008 Author Share Posted February 16, 2008 If I don't have you by the end of next week, I fear my dick will fall off. Hahahahaha!!!:lmao::lmao: If a man said that to me, I would drop my pants right there! Link to post Share on other sites
imagonnacry Posted February 17, 2008 Share Posted February 17, 2008 Here goes what I would NEVER really say... ___________, We've known each other for what, ten years now? I guess the first time we kissed was probably about seven years ago now. Seems like yesterday, but then again the days without you seem to drag. We both realized the situation was not great at the time, and I tried to move on and forget about you. I REALLY TRIED, you know I did. But I NEVER forgot. Not a day went by that I did not think of you and wonder how you were. The times when I did get a phone call or an email made me happy for weeks because I knew you hadn't forgotten either. I tried to stay away because I knew how greatly attracted to you I was, and I knew that given the opportunity, I would fall head over heels in love with you. At the same time I missed you. I missed your sense of humour, your advice, our conversations. I have always admired your charisma and charm. Oh, and your masculine good looks, and voice, and I digress... When fate presented me with an opportunity to be around you last year, I couldn't resist. I was still trying to forget, but I wanted to find out if I had built some ridiculous fantasy about how wonderful I thought you were, and I hoped maybe if I saw you again I could convince myself that I was being silly. EVERY NIGHT since that first kiss I have fallen asleep trying to imagine I am curled up in your arms. When I saw you at work, you *accidently* touched me. I almost collapsed. Of course you knew that from the childish dopey smile I had when I tried to talk to you. I was sweating. I also wanted to kiss you again right there in front of everyone. STILL I thought I could handle being "just friends." Until I came up with the theory that we could be "just friends" with benefits (I HATE that expression) "just friends" who are occasionally VERY close, how about that? I hardened myself and bought into this theory. I thought to myself that if I have been thinking about sleeping with this man for the last ten years, then I really need to try it *just once* Afterward, I told myself, we would continue to be friends. We would laugh about how silly the whole thing was, and how your life doesn't need to be as screwed up as mine...HAHAHA Joke was on me. As soon as you kissed me I melted. I never felt so close to anyone in my life. Maybe I never understood intimacy, or maybe I never trusted anyone enough to allow myself to feel so incredible, but WOW. Sex with you is UNBELIEVABLE. It is an experience that I truly regret having wasted the last ten years only thinking about. You are so warm and caring, and yet so strong and patient. You have a way of making me feel as if I am the most beautiful woman in the world. I never wanted anyone as much as you, and I hope that I can make you feel half as wonderful as I do when we are together. I bit my lip to keep from telling you how much I loved you for sooooo long. But I do. I LOVE YOU. Oh my G-D do I LOVE YOU. I am not running anymore. I'll take what I can get...I can learn to be as patient as you are . I just love you so much. I am so happy...:lmao: Imagonnacry. Link to post Share on other sites
directx Posted February 17, 2008 Share Posted February 17, 2008 Oh, just SHOW someone you love them instead of having to tell them... (at least I WISHED it worked that way) Link to post Share on other sites
imagonnacry Posted February 17, 2008 Share Posted February 17, 2008 Thankfully I am far to reserved to say any of that junk. A restraining order would be sure to follow. Link to post Share on other sites
Author SOS_Please Posted February 19, 2008 Author Share Posted February 19, 2008 Oh, just SHOW someone you love them instead of having to tell them... (at least I WISHED it worked that way) Yeah...I've been considering it! I very nearly kissed him this past Friday. Alone; in his room; his face close to mine... OH MY GOD! It took everything in my power not to grab him, and just do it--kiss that is. Damn obsticals! Link to post Share on other sites
ibitealil Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 What would men think if a woman is hitting on a man or making the 1st move? Is it ok ? Link to post Share on other sites
Author SOS_Please Posted February 21, 2008 Author Share Posted February 21, 2008 What would men think if a woman is hitting on a man or making the 1st move? Is it ok ? It's according to the man, really. Some men like the chase, and might be put off by a blunt move from a female. Others like having the load taken off their shoulders. You know, men are always required to be the aggressors; so, sometimes they like to be the submissive ones. I don't know. It's all psychology really. It depends on the man. Link to post Share on other sites
ibitealil Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 It's according to the man, really. Some men like the chase, and might be put off by a blunt move from a female. Others like having the load taken off their shoulders. You know, men are always required to be the aggressors; so, sometimes they like to be the submissive ones. I don't know. It's all psychology really. It depends on the man. hmmm its hard, i have a crush on this guy that we just barely say hi and i really wanna talk to him...but i dont want him to lose respect on me :-) Link to post Share on other sites
dbtmarley Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 Sherry, we sat next to each other that whole year in the 6th grade. To this day I am still thankful to Miss Gross (teacher) for sitting me next to you. What I regret is not stalking you for the rest of your life. I will find you! I will find you! I still have that Valentine's day card you gave me in class. Well actually you gave it to someone else, but I stole it. I crossed out Alan's name and put mine. I will find you! I will find you! I've looked every where for you... Well almost everywhere if you were on myspace I would have found you... Link to post Share on other sites
Author SOS_Please Posted February 22, 2008 Author Share Posted February 22, 2008 hmmm its hard, i have a crush on this guy that we just barely say hi and i really wanna talk to him...but i dont want him to lose respect on me :-) I say: life's too short not to make a move if you are interested! Just go up to him, and say, "Hello! How are you today? My name is ______, and I was wondering if you would like to grab lunch sometime." Or whatever you would feel comfortable saying. The key is to be confident. Don't go up expecting rejection; expect that there is no possible way he could say "no" to you. If (by some fluke of nature) he does, then play it cool, just say, "Well, that's fine. You know where to find me if you ever change your mind." And walk away. Remember: life is short! No regrets! Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
Author SOS_Please Posted February 22, 2008 Author Share Posted February 22, 2008 Sherry, we sat next to each other that whole year in the 6th grade. To this day I am still thankful to Miss Gross (teacher) for sitting me next to you. What I regret is not stalking you for the rest of your life. I will find you! I will find you! I still have that Valentine's day card you gave me in class. Well actually you gave it to someone else, but I stole it. I crossed out Alan's name and put mine. I will find you! I will find you! I've looked every where for you... Well almost everywhere if you were on myspace I would have found you... I hope you are serious dbtmarley, cause this is freaking awesome! Wait a minute! I remember Miss Gross, and....Alan! Oh GOD! YOU stole Alan's card? No wonder he didn't think that I liked him! Dammit! You ruined my chances with him! Link to post Share on other sites
imagonnacry Posted February 23, 2008 Share Posted February 23, 2008 I still have that Valentine's day card you gave me in class. Well actually you gave it to someone else, but I stole it. I crossed out Alan's name and put mine. I will find you! I will find you! .. That is just awesome. Link to post Share on other sites
CrudeMood Posted February 23, 2008 Share Posted February 23, 2008 you complete me but i'll never tell you that. Link to post Share on other sites
xpaperxcutx Posted February 23, 2008 Share Posted February 23, 2008 you complete me but i'll never tell you that. Wow CM that has got to be the best post I've read all night Link to post Share on other sites
Author SOS_Please Posted February 23, 2008 Author Share Posted February 23, 2008 Ahhh...Jerry. That's a good movie. One of the few films regarding sports I enjoy. Speaking of which: I miss the old Tom! Link to post Share on other sites
LoveLace Posted February 23, 2008 Share Posted February 23, 2008 It seems you manage to give everything I could want from you...except for yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
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