Lostguy33 Posted February 16, 2008 Share Posted February 16, 2008 Well, let me say it like it is. I like this girl in my english class(Im a jr. in highschool, 17 yrs old)and I don't know how or what I should do to ask her out. She seems cool and seems to be pretty attracted to me. The problem is, news spreads quick in school, and so I don't want to ask her out; get shot down and have it spread like wildfire. So, I don't know what to do. Help please! Link to post Share on other sites
Lucasarts Posted February 16, 2008 Share Posted February 16, 2008 well the reality is this: Either you don't ask her out at all. . . and never have to worry about being rejected, or being with her, or risk your "rep" at school OR You take a risk. You ask her out. If you she rejects you, well then what else is there to lose? your going to b labeled as someone who had the balls to ask a girl out? Seriously its also high school, its only a small phase of your life. You're still young, immature, and learning of everything around you. It's time to face the possibility of rejection in order to find possible happiness in a relationship with a girl you like. A guy who can calmly ask a girl out on a date is someone who isn't afraid of being rejected. A girl may not like you on a personal level, but i've never heard of a girl who has made fun of someone for asking them out (by this, i mean the action of asking them out, physical appearance, demeanor, social status is moot point). Link to post Share on other sites
Phateless Posted February 16, 2008 Share Posted February 16, 2008 Don't make it such a big deal, just hang out with her. Invite her out with a bunch of your friends, etc. People do that all the time and it's no big deal. Once you guys are spending more time together it's easy to transition into stuff like hand-holding, etc. Link to post Share on other sites
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