Whey2Big4u Posted February 16, 2008 Share Posted February 16, 2008 here is a question and if anyone could answer in their opinion....... Why after a relatioship does the girl always "whore" herself out. Basically try to find as many guys as possible? or is just me..... Link to post Share on other sites
PinkRibbon Posted February 17, 2008 Share Posted February 17, 2008 I think the same can hold true for male or female...it just depends on the moral character of the person. My husband is running wild so does that make him a "man whore"?? Link to post Share on other sites
s_n_d Posted February 17, 2008 Share Posted February 17, 2008 I agree with PinkRibbon. It depends. Not ALL women are like that. I personally think it unfair to any man I start dating because I still love my ex. Thats why Im not dating anyone at the moment or in the near future. Link to post Share on other sites
Seaman Staines Posted February 17, 2008 Share Posted February 17, 2008 Maybe she's a size queen? Seems to fit. Link to post Share on other sites
vivrantflo Posted February 17, 2008 Share Posted February 17, 2008 If she's in between the ages of 18-23 then yeah, it's common.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Whey2Big4u Posted February 17, 2008 Author Share Posted February 17, 2008 I was thinking then, if both men and women can do this, then it must be an insecurety thing...or possibly some sort of inadiquacy..... and here is the other question, is the dumper or the dumpee more likely to do this....? Link to post Share on other sites
sedgwick Posted February 17, 2008 Share Posted February 17, 2008 I got dumped 7 months ago and cannot imagine ever even LOOKING at anyone else again. I've never in my life "whored myself out" after ending a relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Whey2Big4u Posted February 17, 2008 Author Share Posted February 17, 2008 yes, but YOU got dumped, what about the dumper Link to post Share on other sites
PinkRibbon Posted February 17, 2008 Share Posted February 17, 2008 I am a dumpee and 5 months for me and I have yet to look at another man. So I don't know maybe the dumpers??? Maybe their way of celebrating their freedom? I should ask my husband....oh yea he is not talking to me and has a girlfriend. Link to post Share on other sites
MattyTee Posted February 17, 2008 Share Posted February 17, 2008 I am a dumpee and 5 months for me and I have yet to look at another man. So I don't know maybe the dumpers??? Maybe their way of celebrating their freedom? I should ask my husband....oh yea he is not talking to me and has a girlfriend. Perhaps they aren't given the same opportunity we are to look at ourselves and instead find a quick-fix to whatever it is they felt they were lacking. Maybe in the long run it is healthier to be dumped ... Link to post Share on other sites
mental_traveller Posted February 17, 2008 Share Posted February 17, 2008 I think the same can hold true for male or female...it just depends on the moral character of the person. It has nothing to do with moral character. Once a relationship is over, it's over. Both people are now single and have no ties, so they can go and do whatever they like. They aren't beholden to their former partner anymore, so what's immoral about it? Also, in most cases at least one person has checked out of the relationship months before it actually ended. Besides, unless the woman is actually accepting cash from these guys each time she has sex, then she isn't whoring herself out at all. That's typical sexist BS. Link to post Share on other sites
Peter_pan Posted February 17, 2008 Share Posted February 17, 2008 to be honest in the long long run everyone is better off out of it!!!! they do it for a quick fix and because they are heartless. selfish. uncaring. Link to post Share on other sites
mental_traveller Posted February 17, 2008 Share Posted February 17, 2008 I was thinking then, if both men and women can do this, then it must be an insecurety thing...or possibly some sort of inadiquacy..... Ok I'll be serious here, take this from me: it is nothing to do with insecurity, nothing to do with inadequacy. Usually it is because they got sick and tired of their partners sorry ass, putting up with their crap, and are finally happy to be rid of this whole relationship that was dragging them down. So naturally after being made miserable by their ex for so long, they wanna go out and have some fun. If the ex had not made them feel that way in the first place, they most likely wouldn't have left. Link to post Share on other sites
mental_traveller Posted February 18, 2008 Share Posted February 18, 2008 to be honest in the long long run everyone is better off out of it!!!! they do it for a quick fix and because they are heartless. selfish. uncaring. How is it heartless, selfish and uncaring for a single person to have fun? Link to post Share on other sites
Peter_pan Posted February 18, 2008 Share Posted February 18, 2008 How is it heartless, selfish and uncaring for a single person to have fun? ok in my case. she only let me go once she had her new guy. its uncaring because the act itself... selfish because its what they wanted not what both of you wanted, heartless because where does your heart tell you to date people you dont know as well as someone that trusted you with there life and there love for you would make the new persons love (if you can call it that after 3 weeks, look like horse sh..) Link to post Share on other sites
PinkRibbon Posted February 18, 2008 Share Posted February 18, 2008 It has nothing to do with moral character. Once a relationship is over, it's over. Both people are now single and have no ties, so they can go and do whatever they like. They aren't beholden to their former partner anymore, so what's immoral about it? Also, in most cases at least one person has checked out of the relationship months before it actually ended. Besides, unless the woman is actually accepting cash from these guys each time she has sex, then she isn't whoring herself out at all. That's typical sexist BS. The original post said as many men as possible. It did not say casually meeting new friends and having coffee. "Whoring" I think that would be a moral issue. And it has nothing to do with the former partner. It is an individual decision. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Whey2Big4u Posted February 18, 2008 Author Share Posted February 18, 2008 Ok I'll be serious here, take this from me: it is nothing to do with insecurity, nothing to do with inadequacy. Usually it is because they got sick and tired of their partners sorry ass, putting up with their crap, and are finally happy to be rid of this whole relationship that was dragging them down. So naturally after being made miserable by their ex for so long, they wanna go out and have some fun. If the ex had not made them feel that way in the first place, they most likely wouldn't have left. well waht if all they told you is how happy they are................you let them have their freedom and do waht they wanted....even ok with them making out with other people while together and going to hang out with friends and now they dump you and are now with everyon under the sun????????? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Whey2Big4u Posted February 18, 2008 Author Share Posted February 18, 2008 ok, after the break up...i the dumpee, have been with only one other person afterwards....seh on the other hand has been with at least five others (girls and guys)....this is all within 5 months of being apart. Link to post Share on other sites
PinkRibbon Posted February 18, 2008 Share Posted February 18, 2008 I do see where you are coming from Whey2Big4U. Does make you wonder about people you thought you knew so well. Link to post Share on other sites
vivrantflo Posted February 19, 2008 Share Posted February 19, 2008 well waht if all they told you is how happy they are................you let them have their freedom and do waht they wanted....even ok with them making out with other people while together quote] Well, it's hard for people to respect others when they can't even respect themselves.. She didn't respect you.. at all.. you were ok with her making out with other guys while she was with you?? I wouldnt respect a woman that would allow me to make out with other women while I was with her... then again.. I wouldnt need to make out with other women if I have one already... but I digress... Her personality shows that she can't stay with just one guy.. so I think your case is not as common as I stated before. You should be glad that you're not with her anymore to be honest! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Whey2Big4u Posted February 19, 2008 Author Share Posted February 19, 2008 no not other guys...i was ok with other girls. but from friends and others i have found out it was more.... well i guess youre right, she didnt respect me and she showed with how she broke up with me......se the full story in good girls gone bad. and how shes treating me now when i just asked her to be friends....likepink ribbhon said... makes you think you didnt know that person so well??? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Whey2Big4u Posted February 19, 2008 Author Share Posted February 19, 2008 well i guess i should mention...she was cool with me having threesomes with her and her friends...........so it kinda went both ways Link to post Share on other sites
sedgwick Posted February 19, 2008 Share Posted February 19, 2008 Wow, to have been with ANYONE within 5 months is amazing to me. I cannot even for a second fathom going out with someone else lo these 7 months later, let alone actually touching them. I doubt that I will ever do those things again, simply because I will never trust anyone again. Link to post Share on other sites
angie16 Posted February 19, 2008 Share Posted February 19, 2008 Wow, to have been with ANYONE within 5 months is amazing to me. I cannot even for a second fathom going out with someone else lo these 7 months later, let alone actually touching them. I doubt that I will ever do those things again, simply because I will never trust anyone again. well from my own experience, i was devestated to say the least after my ex ended things around late august last year. after about 2 months of talking and fighting and staying split up, i was still devestated, but i made myself "date" to just get out of the house. it sucked. I met one guy and it was totally a rebound. i thought it could work but i was just masking my loss of affection that i got from my guy. in the end it didn't last 6 weeks and it made me feel worse. even though i technically was with a guy, i was never really emotionally or mentally. being with the rebound made me want my ex more. Link to post Share on other sites
PinkRibbon Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 It has been 4 and a half months since I moved out and I am in no way shape or form even ready to look at another man. And dating is so far out of the question. He can not file for divorce until October 7, 2008 so I am not dating until my divorce papers are signed. Unlike him who has a girlfriend immediately. I wonder how that happened???hahahaha Link to post Share on other sites
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