constantlytorn Posted February 18, 2008 Share Posted February 18, 2008 I definitely need some outside feed on this. I've been married for a few years now, and my marriage is quite the rocky one. One day my husband is the greatest, the next he's calling me the worst names in the book and making me wish I could just drive and never turn back. A few months ago, an old flame and I caught up and got to talking. He was the most amazing guy when we were together, but it was just the wrong time (we were really young). He told me that leaving me was the worst mistake he could have ever made, and that the way he feels about me is beyond explanation. He wants to be with me, but knows that my kids are my biggest concern. I love my husband, but the connection between my ex and I was and is the most amazing thing I have ever felt in my entire life. I know he's sorry, but I don't know if I can trust him again. My marriage (meaning my happiness with my marriage) is questionable at best, and I think my ex and I could be happy together.....should I even THINK about this? Link to post Share on other sites
Whey2Big4u Posted February 18, 2008 Share Posted February 18, 2008 talk to your husband about your feelings, if it is that bad go to councelling.......do this before making any decisions, but you dont have to tell him about your past flame. And please dont do anyhting with this new guy, until you talked to your husband. everything could be "fixed" just with communication Link to post Share on other sites
jerbear Posted February 18, 2008 Share Posted February 18, 2008 The grass is not always greener. I think you and your husband need to communicate and find the problem? It is quite possible that the old flame and husband are both beneficial for you. I do agree with another poster about not doing anything with the old flame and the husband should know about the old flame. Link to post Share on other sites
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