Spidr Posted February 18, 2008 Share Posted February 18, 2008 (edited) Hello again. I am back from the most wonderful week I had in my life. I didn’t imagine it to be that good. We both felt more bonded then ever. I got to know more her life. It answered many of my doubts. I now know that she has a very busy life due to her school studies. So now I know that when she couldn’t be available to speak it is because of that. We felt extremely comfortable with eachother. Her family was extremely nice with me. They told me that the doors are open for me whenever I want to come. Both of us are really happy about that. That gave me much more hope. They took me to eat out and showed me a lot of wonderful places (since I am a photographer). They are really happy about my type of character and felt I am perfect for their daughter. They even gave us their opinions to help us looking forward in our future. We talked about our future together and it seems that she is willing to do whatever it takes to be with me. I have met all of her friends and they assured me that she will wait for me and that she is always speaking about me while I am away. I know that I can trust these people around my angel. On the day that I had to leave it was extremely hard for us. She tried not to cry so that she doesn’t upset me, but at the moment I was leaving she nearly fainted. For me that was the most difficult time I ever had. She felt that it was not enough, and that she could have done more. But I assured her that what she did with me was great. When I arrived home her friends came up to me on msn and told me that she met them and didn’t stop crying. This visit made our love grow more then ever. The only problem is that we can’t meet before August (6 months more!!) due to her examinations and tests coming up. She wants to meet up soon again and she is worried that I will grow out of her, but she can’t. I am feeling like I am floating in space. Knowing that there are 6 months left to see her. I don’t know how I am going to pass these days without her.She will be coming at my country for about a month. We talk online, but seeing her behind the web cam is not the same for me. If it was possible I would visit her once every 2 months. What do you think? What will you do in this situation? Is it possible? Thanks for your help Spidr Edited February 18, 2008 by Spidr Link to post Share on other sites
HisLove Posted February 18, 2008 Share Posted February 18, 2008 Hello Spidr. Welcome back. I've been waiting for you to post to see how things went. When you didn't come in here for a while I was starting to feel worried. But it's all good!!! Well maybe you can see her before August even if it just for a weekend here and there. I know she's busy, but surely in 6 months she can fit you in for a weekend, for 48 hours. I have 3 children and work fulltime and I could fit a weekend in for my man. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Spidr Posted February 18, 2008 Author Share Posted February 18, 2008 (edited) THANKS HISLOVE, don't worry its all good yes you are right...I will come up with that. Altough it will be hard for me for such a short time, since it takes a whole day of traveling from my country.I have to By plane and ground. but i am willing to do anything. I can understand her situation.the week that i had been with her made her not finishing some important works that she had for this week. But she said that it was more important to see me. I noticed that when it comes to study and work she puts all of her toughts and concentration on it. Since they are not in a very comfartable position to pay schools for nothing. And becuase she really wants to succeed in life. Saying that it would be better for both of us. Edited February 18, 2008 by Spidr Link to post Share on other sites
TMichaels Posted February 18, 2008 Share Posted February 18, 2008 (edited) Spidr, So glad to hear your trip and visit went so well! I know that it must have been wonderful to see your girl, but the fact her friends and family were so welcoming and accepting has to have put your mind at rest and a great feeling -- especially the fact that her parents were giving you suggestions about a life together. Often, parents are the hardest to impress and get on-board -- especially when you're young and involved in a LDR. The fact they are is great news! I know six months seems like an eternity right now. But, as HisLove suggested, that doesn't mean *you can't* arrange a short visit here and there. My guess is that after the great time you had together, your g/f will find the separation just as difficult and will be open to getting together even if it's just for a few days between now and August. Regardless, thanks for letting us know how things went. Was thinking about you over the weekend and hoping that everything was going well. Sounds like you couldn't have asked for a more perfect visit. Congratulations and best wishes to both of you! Best, TMichaels Edited February 18, 2008 by TMichaels Link to post Share on other sites
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