no reason Posted July 1, 2003 Share Posted July 1, 2003 hello, I'm looking for a little female advise. I had broken up with my live in girlfriend of 8 years, I was 270 lbs. and feeling bad about myself (not about the breakup) anyways a year later I met this wonderful girl, I was tipping the scales at 190 lbs and thought i was feeling good about myself. we started dating and we hit it off incredibly the only problem was that, I never conveyed my passion for her. eventually her passion for me dwindled and she thought of me as a friend. She broke up with me a month ago stating there was no passion in the relationship but she still wanted to be friends. We have developed an incredible friendship however I want more. I wrote and told her how I felt but she stated again that we had no spark. I wanted to convey my passion for her many times however somewhere in the back of my mind was a self esteem issue. My question is this, Do you think there is anyway we can get back together as more then just friends. Looking back I realize how great of a relationship we could have if only I had another chance. Link to post Share on other sites
Paulie Posted July 1, 2003 Share Posted July 1, 2003 The more you continue to pine after this girl, the more she will be unattracted to you. A girl wants a guy who doesnt seem despersate, and picks himself up by the bootstraps, and moves on...that is attractive, and is the only way that you will appear as even remotely attractive to her. You've made it abundantly clear to her that you are attracted to her, and are in love with her. Your moving on, however, should be genuine, not an act planned so as to get her back...move on for your sake...and maybe being her friend will only be painful for you...For the Love of God, back off, and go look for some other girls Link to post Share on other sites
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