Nintenja Posted February 19, 2008 Share Posted February 19, 2008 Well, I have a problem that I want to figure out how to keep under control before i confront this girl tomorrow. It seems that I'm NOT SHY, but I get so excited when I talk to people I like and when they are also enthusiastic with me and enjoy my company, I just like get so excited I forget what I want to say I just lose my stability I guess. I don't know what to do to keep this from happening. What can I do? Link to post Share on other sites
Gold Pile Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 Same happens to me when I'm on the cell phone, only I forget how to drive. As you get a little older you'll find that both the people you like and yourself are far from perfect...you'll calm down some. You can write down a few topics on paper B4 a phone call. Not so easy to do that in person Link to post Share on other sites
AdrianaLima Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 I would try to remain calm as much as possible. Just like the thread above me states; write down things you want to discuss. But if you are going to confront her in person, you can still do the same thing, but just try to remember everything you wrote. Stay relax, and everything will be fine. Good Luck! Link to post Share on other sites
Sheclectica Posted February 20, 2008 Share Posted February 20, 2008 You mean the I-like-her-and-she-likes-me-oh-my-gosh-my-mind-has-blanked! thing? Just learn to enjoy it, the silly feeling is proof that you're alive. On a more practical note, remind yourself that this person is only human. It helps. Sometimes. Link to post Share on other sites
JCD Posted February 26, 2008 Share Posted February 26, 2008 I get this feeling when I have a crush on someone. The problem I learned to recognize is that a crush doesn't necessarily mean that we're compatible or should be. It just means I find her attractive in some way. You need to become friends with her and have a good down to earth conversations with her instead of flirting all the time. Then you get to know her as a person instead of a sex object. Once you get to know her as a person you will realize whether you want to be with her or not past sex. Being comfortable around her and feeling like she is part of you is very important in a good relationship. I would recommend you keep the crush feelings under check and don't fall for her too early. Keep telling yourself that she doesn't matter and she's only a friend you want to get to know better. Only fall for her when she falls for you otherwise if she rejects you and you're already attached to her then you will hurt badly. Link to post Share on other sites
xpaperxcutx Posted February 26, 2008 Share Posted February 26, 2008 It's okay to feel this way. You should definitely do some breathing exercises to calm yourself down. And don't think irrationally about anything bad. You'll do fine. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Nintenja Posted February 26, 2008 Author Share Posted February 26, 2008 Thanks guys, I'm calming down a bit now. It seems we're getting along more and more as each class goes on. I've told how much I've liked working with her, she was very happy when I told her that! Link to post Share on other sites
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