this is the right things to do?

[Lucky555]

i sent this guy a v-day card that i had a casual relationship with, nothing about love in it just friendly and he did respond with his thanks. there is still chemistry and we have a lot in common but he wont move forward.

 

i think he misread my signals, because i thought he was just not into me anymore and i did feel relieved so i would never have to deal with him being upset or something. I thought he had moved on so sending a card to him would be fine because I already told him we were "friends" and this is also because i was a bit lonely i must confess, and i think hes at least good with intelligent conversations, it helped me get my mind off the day.

 

after being friends for months now and not seeing him. casually talking online now and then yeah i still have some feelings but they are not really strong because i gave up and decided "friends". now and then i think what if but i have to face the music i know i have needs that are not being met like emotional availability!

 

Well now i heard he still likes me through someone else BUT hes done this before when he knows i am "being more friendly than flirty" he tries to pull me back in through other people...NOT this time i learned fast. I went through this same thing before and nothing happened he never went forward and as most know "HISTORY REPEATS ITSELF" unless the person changes.

 

Until he contacts me and sets something up i am writing him off and i am happy to say i can be friends! I don't need his wishy washy behavior. I like knowing that i have someone that wants to build something not just have a causal hangout to fill the loneliness its not what i want out of life.

I think i would like to be with him if he ever got over his fear of commitment. but who knows that may never happen with me and i finally accept this fact. Hes not a bad guy BUT HE HAS COMMITMENT ISSUES to work on and this is not my problem and i cant fix it. He will just have to do fix himself.

 

so the ball is in his court and i am leaving it alone, not waiting for him. He may discover he may want to be with me and he may just say oh well find someone else to "play" By letting him take action i am saying enough is enough "..it of get off the pot" so to speak.

 

RIGHT THING TO DO?