sunflower745 Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 Hi I don't know how to feel anymore. Well, my boyfriend lives like 7 hours away from me. At first things were very good. Now, a MONTH later it's like he hardly has time for me. He says it's because of school and he's so tired because of work as well. Then, he would also e-mail quite often and I would e-mail him back. Now, he doesn't and tells me he didn't have any free time. The thing is that I have a spy account to look at his My Space (call me a stalker fine) and I always see that he writes to his cousins and friends. I don't know if he doesn't write to me because he talks everyday on the phone with me or what. But, even if we do talk it's only for a few minutes like many 20. I feel so sad!!! What do you think I should do? Please some advice would be awesome. I'm desperate!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 A spy account??? DO SHARE?!?! Also, have you tried talking to him about how you feel? Link to post Share on other sites
TMichaels Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 sunflower745, Give the guy a break, why don't you? Geez! He's trying to juggle school and work, keep connected to family and friends, yet manages to call you EVERY DAY! So what if he doesn't email you, too? With all that he's got on his plate, you ought to take comfort in the fact that you're such a priority that he calls you, not for just a few minutes, but nearly for a half-hour. However, if you keep whining and complaining about it, you're going to make it easy for him to say "I don't need the aggravation." Do you want that? So, get a grip, take a deep breath, and stop being so needy -- and things will be better for all concerned. Best, TMichaels Link to post Share on other sites
directx Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 TMichaels might be right, but personally, I think he's checking out of the relationship... Link to post Share on other sites
Elyssa Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 I have to agree with directx. He might still be calling her, but he's obviously putting less effort than he used to, which is a clear sign that he's beginning to distance himself from her. If that's the case, there's little you can do about it while you two are apart. Visit him and remind him of why he's with you in the first place! -E Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 phone "pleasure" What college boy doesn't love a woman who loves him whispering randy thoughts into his ear? If he's "too tired" for that, say buh-bye.... Link to post Share on other sites
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