start over as friends

[AJSunny]

If a girl tells you that she'd like to start over as friends ( there was a sticky situation but anyway) and just because a male gets to know a female it doesn't always mean it has to head into a relationship, does it mean she just wants to be friends and that's it for now? Any hope?

Also if she talks to you about some guy she's been starting to see and all the details, is she trying to test me or is she just chatting?

thanks.

[Tony T]

1. "If a girl tells you that she'd like to start over as friends ( there was a sticky situation but anyway) and just because a male gets to know a female it doesn't always mean it has to head into a relationship, does it mean she just wants to be friends and that's it for now?"

 

That's it. If she wanted more than that, she would tell you. Now the fact that she said she wanted to "start over" as friends leaves a slight crack in the door for something more...but don't count on it. And why give her all the power here. You take some for yourself and start seeing other people.

 

2. "Any hope?"

 

Any hope for what? For getting back together??? Only your psychic friends would know that.

 

3. "Also if she talks to you about some guy she's been starting to see and all the details, is she trying to test me or is she just chatting?"

 

If she knows you still care about her, she's either really stupid or she's an inconsiderate rotten bitch. If you hang around a lady you care about more than friends and listen to her talk about other men, you've got problems yourself. You need to get away from her because nothing is ever going to happen, especially since she obviously doesn't care about your feelings.

[BillG]

I agree 100% with Tony, but must add one thing...

 

RUN, RUN, run away as fast as you can, because you will only be hurting yourself by staying.. I've been there and it ain't a pretty story..

 

BillG